Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Relationships, Dating with Kids, Online Dating, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dating Red Flags, God-Led Relationship

About Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Relationships, Dating with Kids, Online Dating, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dating Red Flags, God-Led Relationship

Did your divorce feel like it didn't just break your marriage — it broke you? Like somewhere between the pain, the paperwork, and the nights you couldn't sleep... the woman you used to be quietly disappeared. Your confidence walked out the door. Your sense of value went with it. And deep down, you started wondering if real love was simply no longer meant for you. If that's where you are — you are exactly where you need to be. I'm Patty Martin-Guerra, and I'm not speaking from the outside looking in. I'm speaking as someone who sat in that same darkness. I know what it's like to carry the quiet shame of a failed marriage. To feel paralyzed by the thought of starting over. To lie awake asking God whether you were too old, too wounded, too far gone for Him to write anything beautiful with what was left of your story. But here's what I found on the other side of all of that: Wholeness was always waiting for you. It still is. Dating After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40 is where the real, unglamorous, necessary work actually happens. We go deep on healing the invisible scars your marriage left behind. We name the cycles that kept pulling you backward. We rebuild, piece by piece, your identity, your worth, and your trust in God's plan for your love life — so that when the right person arrives, you're not just available. You're whole. You're grounded. You're ready. Each week I'll bring you the honest conversations nobody else is brave enough to have — the truths your closest friends can't quite articulate, your pastor tends to sidestep, and no search engine will ever hand you. Because you weren't meant to simply outlast your divorce. You were meant to flourish after it. 🗓️ New episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe now and let's take this journey together. Your story isn't over, sweet friend. The next chapter? It's only just beginning. Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? You deserve a love that honors you — and it's time to believe that's possible. Join our community and take the next step: Connect with Patty on Instagram — questions, conversation, and next steps: 🔗 🔗 https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women (https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women) Join our Facebook group - Dating After Divo (https://www.facebook.com/groups/1765979270789001/people)rce (https://www.facebook.com/groups/1765979270789001/people) 🔗   (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361)https://www.facebook.com (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361)/ (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361)profile.php?id=61586012813361 (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361)

Publisher

pattymartinlifecoach - Christian Women Coach - Relationship Coach -Podcast Host

Category

education · religion & spirituality

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

3 Jun 2025

Latest episode

1 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

65 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   1 Sept 2026

   64| Stopped Waiting for a Sign From God. & Start Looking for a Plan You Could Actually Follow.

   Have you ever prayed for a sign, and nothing came? You kept waiting. Kept praying. Kept staying still — because moving forward without a clear answer from God felt wrong. In this episode, you'll hear why "waiting on God" can quietly become a hiding place. You'll learn the difference between waiting for a sign and using the wisdom God already gave you. And you'll discover that making a plan is not a lack of faith — it's part of it. In this episode, you'll learn: Why waiting can be fear wearing a spiritual mask The real difference between a sign and wisdom How to build a plan without feeling guilty about your faith One small step you can take today — no sign required "In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps." — Proverbs 16:9 If you're ready to stop waiting and start building your next step, [join Dating After Divorce] — the membership made for you. Ready to go deeper? 💛 Join the Dating After Divorce membership — a safe community of women just like you walking this journey together. 👉 Instagram @relaltionshipcoach4women 📲 Come find me on Instagram — send me a DM and tell me your biggest takeaway from today's episode. I read every single one.

2. 

   19 Aug 2026

   63| Why Did I Stay So Long? (The Question That Haunts Divorced Women)

   Have you ever looked back at your marriage and asked yourself, "How did I let that happen to me?" You're not alone — and in this episode, we're finally answering the question that keeps so many women up at night. In this episode, you'll discover: Why staying wasn't weakness — it was survival The hidden abandonment wound that kept you frozen in place How codependency quietly stole your identity, one day at a time The truth about faith, guilt, and what God actually asks of you in a painful marriage A real story of the ordinary moment that finally woke one woman up to the truth If you've ever carried guilt or shame about staying too long, this episode will help you understand your story — so you never repeat it. "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." — Psalm 34:18 Ready to keep healing this at the root? DM us HEAL to join Healing After Divorce and start your next step toward becoming whole again. Instagram http://relaltionshipcoach4women

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   12 Aug 2026

   62| Forgiveness Isn't Forgetting or Keeping the Peace: The Biblical Truth Explained

   In this episode we talk about one of the most misunderstood teachings in the church — forgiveness. If you've ever felt guilty because you can't forget, confused because you forgave but still set boundaries, or exhausted because you're still carrying something everyone said you should have let go by now — this episode is for you. In this episode you'll learn: Why forgiveness does not mean forgetting — and what the Bible actually says How you can forgive and protect yourself at the same time without feeling like a bad Christian Why forgiveness is a layered process, not a one-time decision Anchor verse:Ephesians 4:31-32 — "Get rid of all bitterness… Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Were you told that forgiveness means forgetting — and that left you more confused than free? In this episode we uncover the full biblical truth about forgiveness: what it means, what it does NOT mean, and how it sets you free — not the other person. For Christian women over 40 who are ready to heal for real, without guilt and without confusion. Ready to go deeper? 💛 Join the Dating After Divorce membership — a safe community of women just like you walking this journey together. 👉 Instagram http://relaltionshipcoach4women 📲 Come find me on Instagram — send me a DM and tell me your biggest takeaway from today's episode. I read every single one. You are not starting over. You are starting better. And you don't have to do it alone. 💛

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