Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Relationships, Dating with Kids, Online Dating, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dating Red Flags, God-Led Relationship
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<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Did your divorce feel like it didn't just break your marriage — it broke you?</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Like somewhere between the pain, the paperwork, and the nights you couldn't sleep... the woman you used to be quietly disappeared.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Your confidence walked out the door. Your sense of value went with it.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">And deep down, you started wondering if real love was simply no longer meant for you.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">If that's where you are — you are exactly where you need to be.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I'm Patty Martin-Guerra, and I'm not speaking from the outside looking in. I'm speaking as someone who sat in that same darkness.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I know what it's like to carry the quiet shame of a failed marriage.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">To feel paralyzed by the thought of starting over.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">To lie awake asking God whether you were too old, too wounded, too far gone for Him to write anything beautiful with what was left of your story.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">But here's what I found on the other side of all of that:</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"><strong>Wholeness was always waiting for you. It still is.</strong></p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Dating After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40 is where the real, unglamorous, necessary work actually happens.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">We go deep on healing the invisible scars your marriage left behind.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">We name the cycles that kept pulling you backward.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">We rebuild, piece by piece, your identity, your worth, and your trust in God's plan for your love life — so that when the right person arrives, you're not just available.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">You're whole. You're grounded. You're ready.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Each week I'll bring you the honest conversations nobody else is brave enough to have — the truths your closest friends can't quite articulate, your pastor tends to sidestep, and no search engine will ever hand you.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Because you weren't meant to simply outlast your divorce.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">You were meant to flourish after it.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"></p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">🗓️ New episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe now and let's take this journey together.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Your story isn't over, sweet friend. The next chapter? It's only just beginning. </p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"></p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"><strong>Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?</strong></p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">You deserve a love that honors you — and it's time to believe that's possible.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"></p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Join our community and take the next step:</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"><strong>Connect with Patty on Instagram</strong> — questions, conversation, and next steps: 🔗</p> <p><span style="font-weight:400;">🔗 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women">https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women</a></span></p> <p></p> <p><strong>Join our Facebook group - <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1765979270789001/people">Dating After Divo</a></strong><strong><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1765979270789001/people">rce</a></strong></p> <p><strong><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361"><span style="font-weight:400;">🔗 </span> </a></strong><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361">https://www.facebook.com</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361">/</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361">profile.php?id=61586012813361</a></p> <p><strong></strong></p>
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Recent Episodes
July 1, 2026
59| How to Fall in Love With Yourself After Divorce Before You Fall in Love With Anyone Else
Have you ever found yourself scrolling through a dating app at midnight — not because you're ready, but because the silence in your house feels too loud? Friend, you're not alone. And in today's episode, we're going to talk about something nobody told you to do after your divorce — fall in love with YOU first. Before the next relationship. Before the next first date. Before anything else. In this episode you will learn: ✅ Why you don't recognize yourself anymore — and how to find your way back ✅ Why being alone doesn't mean something is wrong with you ✅ Why you keep giving love to everyone but yourself — and how to finally stop ✅ Simple things you can start doing THIS WEEK to come home to yourself We also look at what Psalm 139:14 and Matthew 22:39 say about why loving yourself is not selfish — it's actually scriptural. The right love is not going to complete you. The right love is going to find you already whole. And that wholeness starts with you. 🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED: 💛 Join the Healing After Divorce membership — a safe community of women just like you walking this journey together. 👉 Instagram http://relaltionshipcoach4women 📲 Come find me on Instagram — send me a DM and tell me your biggest takeaway from today's episode. I read every single one. 👉 Follow me on Instagram: @relationshipcoach4women 💬 DID THIS EPISODE SPEAK TO YOUR HEART? Share it with a friend who needs to hear it today. And if you're ready to go deeper, come join us inside the Healing After Divorce membership. You don't have to do this alone. Rising After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40 is a faith-based podcast to help you heal, rediscover yourself, and step into the woman God created you to be — after divorce.
June 24, 2026
58| Stop Dating From Your Wounds — How to Open Your Heart to Love After Divorce the Right Way
Have you noticed you keep picking the same kind of man... and getting hurt the same way? In this episode, we talk about the difference between dating from a wound and dating from a healed heart — and why most women don't even realize they're doing it. You'll learn: Why you keep choosing unavailable men (and how the abandonment wound drives it) Why you hide your true self on dates (and how the rejection wound drives it) How to fill yourself first, so you date from want — not need One Bible verse to help you see your own heart clearly If you're tired of opening your heart, getting hurt, and closing it again — this episode is for you. Healing comes first. Love that lasts comes after. 🎙️ Listen now and start dating from a healed heart, not a wound. 💛 Want support walking this out, not just hearing about it? Join Dating After Divorce — text RISE to get started. Instagram http://relaltionshipcoach4women 📲 Come find me on Instagram — send me a DM and tell me your biggest takeaway from today's episode. I read every single one. You are not starting over. You are starting better. And you don't have to do it alone. 💛 Grab my FREE guide to help you Heal Your Heart After Divorce https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/6207d50f76
June 16, 2026
57| I Lost Myself Being His Wife: The Road Back to Being You
Have you ever looked in the mirror after your divorce and not recognized the woman looking back at you? Not because of how you look — but because somewhere along the way, you stopped knowing what you liked, what you wanted, and who you even were. In this episode, we are talking about something most women are afraid to say out loud: I lost myself being his wife. And we are going to walk through why it happens, what it costs you, and — most importantly — how to find your way back to being you. This is not about blaming your marriage. This is about reclaiming what God always intended you to keep: yourself. Ready to go deeper? 💛 Join the Dating After Divorce membership — a safe community of women just like you walking this journey together. 👉 Instagram http://relaltionshipcoach4women 📲 Come find me on Instagram — send me a DM and tell me your biggest takeaway from today's episode. I read every single one. You are not starting over. You are starting better. And you don't have to do it alone. 💛 Grab my FREE guide to help you Heal Your Heart After Divorce https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/6207d50f76
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<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Did your divorce feel like it didn't just break your marriage — it broke you?</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Like somewhere between the pain, the paperwork, and the nights you couldn't sleep... the woman you used to be quietly disappeared.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Your confidence walked out the door. Your sense of value went with it.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">And deep down, you started wondering if real love was simply no longer meant for you.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">If that's where you are — you are exactly where you need to be.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I'm Patty Martin-Guerra, and I'm not speaking from the outside looking in. I'm speaking as someone who sat in that same darkness.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I know what it's like to carry the quiet shame of a failed marriage.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">To feel paralyzed by the thought of starting over.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">To lie awake asking God whether you were too old, too wounded, too far gone for Him to write anything beautiful with what was left of your story.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">But here's what I found on the other side of all of that:</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"><strong>Wholeness was always waiting for you. It still is.</strong></p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Dating After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40 is where the real, unglamorous, necessary work actually happens.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">We go deep on healing the invisible scars your marriage left behind.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">We name the cycles that kept pulling you backward.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">We rebuild, piece by piece, your identity, your worth, and your trust in God's plan for your love life — so that when the right person arrives, you're not just available.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">You're whole. You're grounded. You're ready.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Each week I'll bring you the honest conversations nobody else is brave enough to have — the truths your closest friends can't quite articulate, your pastor tends to sidestep, and no search engine will ever hand you.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Because you weren't meant to simply outlast your divorce.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">You were meant to flourish after it.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"></p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">🗓️ New episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe now and let's take this journey together.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Your story isn't over, sweet friend. The next chapter? It's only just beginning. </p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"></p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"><strong>Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?</strong></p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">You deserve a love that honors you — and it's time to believe that's possible.</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"></p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Join our community and take the next step:</p> <p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"><strong>Connect with Patty on Instagram</strong> — questions, conversation, and next steps: 🔗</p> <p><span style="font-weight:400;">🔗 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women">https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women</a></span></p> <p></p> <p><strong>Join our Facebook group - <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1765979270789001/people">Dating After Divo</a></strong><strong><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1765979270789001/people">rce</a></strong></p> <p><strong><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361"><span style="font-weight:400;">🔗 </span> </a></strong><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361">https://www.facebook.com</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361">/</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586012813361">profile.php?id=61586012813361</a></p> <p><strong></strong></p> - How often does this podcast release new episodes?
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