Can AI bring back the dead?
Not literally. But it can create something that feels surprisingly close.
In this episode of Death Becomes Her, we explore the rapidly emerging world of grief AI—chatbots, voice cloning, digital avatars, and interactive memorials designed to simulate conversations with people who have died.
From the séances of the Fox Sisters in 1848 to today's AI-powered "griefbots," humans have always searched for one more conversation with the people they love. But what changes when those conversations are no longer imagined...and begin talking back?
This episode explores the ethical, psychological, and practical questions surrounding this new technology:
Why are griefbots so compelling?
How do services like StoryFile differ from AI systems that generate entirely new conversations?
What is the difference between preserving someone's memories and reconstructing their personality?
Can artificial intelligence change the way we grieve?
What happens when commercial interests intersect with profound human loss?
And should grieving consumers receive the same protections that already exist in other areas of the funeral industry?
Rather than offering simple answers, this episode invites listeners to think critically about how we want these technologies to shape our relationship with the dead—and with one another.
Topics Discussed
The Fox Sisters and the rise of Spiritualism
Continuing Bonds Theory in modern grief research
StoryFile and conversational memorial technology
AI grief companions and digital legacy platforms
Voice cloning and conversational AI
The FTC Funeral Rule and consumer protection
The psychology of human attachment to artificial intelligence
The ethics of digital resurrection
Mentioned in this Episode
StoryFile
Séance AI
The Federal Trade Commission's Funeral Rule
Continuing Bonds Theory
Further Reading
Federal Trade Commission: The Funeral Rule
Klass, Silverman & Nickman, Continuing Bonds: New Understandings of Grief
Sherry Turkle, Alone Together
Sherry Turkle, Reclaiming Conversation
MIT Media Lab research on human interaction with social robots
Current research on AI companionship and parasocial relationships
If this episode made you think, I'd love to hear from you.
Would you want one more conversation with someone you've lost?
Or would you choose to let that conversation remain a memory?
You can learn more about my work as an end-of-life doula and funeral celebrant at Leaving Well.
And if you enjoyed this episode, please consider following the show and leaving a review. It helps more people discover thoughtful conversations about death, grief, and what it means to live well.
Remember: talking about death won't kill you. I promise.
This episode reflects the state of grief AI technology and publicly available research at the time of recording. Because this field is evolving rapidly, some products and services discussed may change or no longer be available by the time you listen.
29 Apr 2026
Showing Up
What does it mean to truly show up when someone you love has died? Not to observe from a distance, not to hand everything off to strangers — but to stay close, use your hands, and do something rather than have something done.
In this episode, three stories. A man who handed a death doula a list of names and died four days later, trusting that his people would figure it out. A family who drove through the Montana night with their father, racing a clock, doing the last thing they could do for him. And two daughters who discovered, somewhere around midnight, that they were braver than they knew.
Underneath, they are the same story. About presence over passivity. About love made tangible.
This episode opens with Alfred Lord Tennyson's The Lady of Shalott. The stanzas used:
It was the closing of the day: She loos'd the chain, and down she lay; The broad stream bore her far away, The Lady of Shalott.
A gleaming shape she floated by, Dead-pale between the houses high, Silent into Camelot.
The paintings referenced are John William Waterhouse's The Lady of Shalott — 1888, 1894, and 1915. Worth looking up.
If today's themes feel familiar, find Extreme Embalming and Kelly in the Death Becomes Her archive.
You don't need a roadmap. You just need to show up.
Talking about death won't kill you. I promise.
21 Feb 2026
The Paris Morgue
For decades, the Paris Morgue was one of the city’s most popular attractions. Thousands of people lined up each day to look at the dead bodies pulled from the Seine, displayed on marble slabs, their stories unknown.
This wasn’t an anomaly. It was part of a culture built on observation. From the wandering flâneur to the spectacle of cabarets, from the underground atmosphere of the catacombs to the public display of death, Paris was a city that taught its people how to look.
In this episode, we explore:
The Paris Morgue as public theatre
The culture of spectacle in Belle Époque Paris
The strange intimacy of anonymous death
And why, even today, we’re often more comfortable looking at strangers than at our own dead
Because while we may no longer line up outside a morgue, our fascination with death hasn’t disappeared.
It’s just changed shape.
And when death enters our own lives, many of us turn away.
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