Exploring Brain and Mind

About Exploring Brain and Mind

Brain and mind are intrinsically connected but often seen as separate. Every week, “Exploring Brain and Mind” will combine neuroscience research, tips to keep brain and mind healthy and functioning well as well as talks with guests in different professions from science, coaching, leadership, healing and spirituality. Join your host Elke Wallace, founder of Mastering Your Mind Matters, on her mission to help as many people as possible to understand how their brain and mind work so they can take more control of their lives and make better choices. Follow and subscribe to "Exploring Brain and Mind" on Apple, Spotify and all other podcasts and find more information about Mastering Your Mind Matters on www.masteringyourmindmatters.com.

Publisher

Elke Wallace

Category

business · education · health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

8 Jan 2025

Latest episode

6 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

63 episodes in the feed.

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   6 Oct 2026

   Episode 62 – When Someone Won't Take the Hint: Boundary-Blindness and the Emotional Intelligence Gap

   Episode Summary We all know someone who doesn't seem to register "no", whether that's unreciprocated romantic interest, a stare that lingers too long or feels too intense, someone who always stands just a little too close, or an instruction at work that keeps getting quietly resisted or met with an insulting response. In this episode, we make the case that this pattern of "boundary-blindness" isn't just a character flaw — it's often a visible symptom of a deeper gap in emotional intelligence, one that starts at its very foundation: self-awareness. We trace how a breakdown in self-awareness limits self-management, which in turn limits social awareness – the ability to read someone else's discomfort or unspoken "no" – and explore how this single mechanism shows up in three distinct forms: unwanted romantic pursuit, invasion of physical personal space and resistance to authority or instructions. We also get practical with a dedicated segment on how to respond if you're a bystander, colleague or manager dealing with someone who isn't picking up on the signals everyone else can see clearly. Key Takeaways ·      Emotional intelligence is structured in layers with self-awareness as the foundation everything else – including social awareness – is built on; you can't reliably read someone else's emotional state without first having accurate insight into your own. ·      Boundary-blindness shows up in three distinct forms: unwanted romantic/social pursuit, physical personal space invasion and resistance to authority or instructions; but all three often trace back to the same underlying gap in self-awareness. ·      A breakdown in self-awareness limits self-management (regulating an impulse once noticed), which in turn limits social awareness (reading the other person's discomfort or "no"), meaning boundary-blind behaviour can be a full breakdown at the foundation, only becoming visible several layers up. ·      Persistent unwanted pursuit is linked to attachment style and rejection sensitivity with staring often acting as an early nonverbal signal of fixation; erotomania marks the rare, clinical extreme of this pattern. ·      Physical personal space has its own research tradition – Edward T. Hall's proxemics – mapping out intimate, personal, social and public zones. Discomfort at an invaded zone is linked to fast, largely involuntary amygdala-driven threat responses and reading the correct zone for a relationship is itself a social awareness skill some people simply don't register the cues for. ·      Resistance to authority involves psychological reactance (resisting perceived constraints on choice) and entitlement, and the key diagnostic question is whether someone is low in self-awareness (doesn't realize how they're coming across) or high in self-awareness but low in self-management (knows but doesn't self-correct). ·      For bystanders and managers: direct, unambiguous communication works better than hints or repeated silent cues (like stepping back), since reading subtlety is often the exact skill that's compromised; documenting specific behaviours and their impact is more effective than assuming the person will infer the problem. ·      Self-awareness and self-management are considered the more trainable ends of the emotional intelligence model, offering a genuinely hopeful note about behaviour change through feedback and coaching. Keywords Boundary-blindness, emotional intelligence, self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, unwanted pursuit, rejection sensitivity, erotomania, personal space, proxemics, Edward Hall, psychological reactance, entitlement, workplace boundaries, workplace conduct, manager feedback, EI framework, personality psychology, psychology podcast, Exploring Brain and Mind Resources & Further Reading ·      Goleman, D. — Emotional and Social Intelligence Competency framework (four domains: self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, relationship management), most accessibly summarised in Goleman's Harvard Business Review article "Leadership That Gets Results" (2000). Overview: https://danielgolemanemotionalintelligence.com/ei-overview-the-four-domains-and-twelve-competencies/ (https://danielgolemanemotionalintelligence.com/ei-overview-the-four-domains-and-twelve-competencies/) ·      Cupach, W. R., & Spitzberg, B. H. (2004). The Dark Side of Relationship Pursuit: From Attraction to Obsession and Stalking. — the core academic text on obsessive relational intrusion (ORI) and unwanted pursuit, including their Relational Goal Pursuit Theory. ·      Spitzberg, B. H., & Cupach, W. R. (2007). The State of the Art of Stalking: Taking Stock of the Emerging Literature. Aggression and Violent Behaviour, 12, 64–86 — a strong research review covering prevalence, tactics, and effects of unwanted pursuit. ·      Hall, E. T. (1966). The Hidden Dimension. — the foundational text on proxemics and the four zones of personal space. ·      On psychological reactance as a framework for authority resistance: Brehm, J. W. (1966) originated reactance theory — worth a general search for accessible modern summaries if you want a plain-language source for the episode. FURTHER INFORMATON AND LINKS: Exploring Brain and Mind is part of Mastering Your Mind Matters – the website www.masteringyourmindmatters.com (http://www.masteringyourmindmatters.com/) is being updated. All enquiries linked to Exploring Brain and Mind, including enquiries about being a guest, must be directed to the email address welcome@masteringyourmindmatters.com (mailto:welcome@masteringyourmindmatters.com). Exploring Brain and Mind is currently a one-person venture with limited financial resources. Donations to the following link would be greatly appreciated to help improve services: https://app.redcircle.com/shows/a91052d4-5b30-406a-a41c-158c4b5f9cc0/donations (https://app.redcircle.com/shows/a91052d4-5b30-406a-a41c-158c4b5f9cc0/donations) To find out more about the host you can follow Elke Wallace on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elke-a-wallace (https://www.linkedin.com/in/elke-a-wallace)

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   1 Sept 2026

   Episode 61 - The Outsourced Mind: From Smartphone Brain Drain to AI Cognitive Debt

   Episode Summary For fifteen years we've been quietly handing our memory over to our smartphones – phone numbers, directions, recall itself. Now Generative AI is asking for something bigger: our reasoning. In this episode of Exploring Brain and Mind, we dig into the neuroscience of cognitive offloading from the “Brain Drain Effect” that saps your working memory just by having your phone in the room to brand-new EEG research showing what happens in your brain when you write with ChatGPT instead of your own head. We unpack the difference between using AI to bypass thinking versus using it to sharpen thinking and walk away with three science-backed habits to keep your brain's agency intact in an increasingly automated world. Key Takeaways •      The “Brain Drain Effect”: The mere presence of your smartphone – even face-down and silent – measurably reduces your available working memory, because your prefrontal cortex spends energy suppressing the urge to check it. •      Heavy device dependency is linked to real chemistry changes: studies on smartphone/internet addiction have found altered GABA levels in the anterior cingulate cortex, a region tied to emotional regulation and cognitive control. •      GPS use and spatial memory trade off: habitual GPS reliance is linked to weaker spatial memory and reduced hippocampal engagement when navigating without it. •      “Cognitive Debt” is the AI-era version of brain drain: new EEG research shows writing with an LLM produces the weakest brain connectivity of any condition tested and that muted activity persists even after the AI is taken away. •      How you use AI matters more than whether you use it: passively offloading a task (“write this for me”) bypasses the mental effort your brain needs to grow; using AI as a sparring partner to pressure-test your own thinking keeps you cognitively engaged. •      Real-world data backs this up: workplace research shows people who trust AI outputs more tend to think critically about them less while people confident in their own expertise use AI more critically, not less. •      Three habits to protect your neural agency: delayed offloading (draft from memory before opening a tool), phone-free deep work zones and deliberately preserving productive struggle. Keywords (for SEO) cognitive offloading, brain drain effect, smartphone addiction and the brain, digital amnesia, working memory and smartphones, GABA anterior cingulate cortex, GPS and hippocampus, spatial memory, AI and the brain, ChatGPT and cognitive decline, cognitive debt, EEG and AI writing, generative AI critical thinking, AI dependency, neuroscience of technology, cognitive offloading and AI, brain health in the digital age, neuroplasticity and technology, digital minimalism, executive function and technology, Exploring Brain and Mind podcast Sources & Further Reading ·     Ward, A. F., Duke, K., Gneezy, A., & Bos, M. W. (2017). Brain Drain: The Mere Presence of One's Own Smartphone Reduces Available Cognitive Capacity. Journal of the Association for Consumer Research, 2(2), 140–154. ·     Hartmann, M., et al. (2024). Revisiting the "brain drain" effect: A replication study. Consciousness and Cognition. ·     Seo, H. S., et al. (2017). Neurochemical alterations (GABA/Glx) in the anterior cingulate cortex in smartphone/internet addiction. Presented at RSNA 2017, Korea University. ·     Dahmani, L., & Bohbot, V. D. (2020). Habitual use of GPS negatively impacts spatial memory during self-guided navigation. Scientific Reports, 10, 6310. ·     Kosmyna, N., Hauptmann, E., Yuan, Y. T., Situ, J., Liao, X. H., Beresnitzky, A. V., Braunstein, I., & Maes, P. (2025). Your Brain on ChatGPT: Accumulation of Cognitive Debt when Using an AI Assistant for Essay Writing Task. arXiv:2506.08872 [preprint]. ·     Stanković, M., et al. (2026). Commentary on Kosmyna et al. (2025). arXiv:2601.00856 [preprint]. ·     Lee, H-P., Sarkar, A., Tankelevitch, L., Drosos, I., Rintel, S., Banks, R., & Wilson, N. (2025). The Impact of Generative AI on Critical Thinking: Self-Reported Reductions in Cognitive Effort and Confidence Effects From a Survey of Knowledge Workers. CHI 2025, Microsoft Research & Carnegie Mellon University. ·     Konishi, K., & Bohbot, V. D. (2013). Spatial navigational strategies correlate with gray matter in the hippocampus. Frontiers in Aging Neuroscience, 4:28. FURTHER INFORMATON AND LINKS: Exploring Brain and Mind is part of Mastering Your Mind Matters – the website www.masteringyourmindmatters.com (http://www.masteringyourmindmatters.com/) is being updated. All enquiries linked to Exploring Brain and Mind, including enquiries about being a guest, must be directed to the email address welcome@masteringyourmindmatters.com (mailto:welcome@masteringyourmindmatters.com). Exploring Brain and Mind is currently a one-person venture with limited financial resources. Donations to the following link would be greatly appreciated to help improve services: https://app.redcircle.com/shows/a91052d4-5b30-406a-a41c-158c4b5f9cc0/donations (https://app.redcircle.com/shows/a91052d4-5b30-406a-a41c-158c4b5f9cc0/donations) To find out more about the host you can follow Elke Wallace on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elke-a-wallace (https://www.linkedin.com/in/elke-a-wallace)

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   4 Aug 2026

   Episode 60 - What Happens To Brain and Mind When Life Ends?

   Episode Summary In this solo episode, we explore one of neuroscience's most profound and unresolved questions: what actually happens to the brain and mind at the end of life? We look at documented phenomena like terminal lucidity, the gamma-wave activity researchers have observed around the time of death, and near-death experiences along with what this research can and can't tell us about consciousness. Then we widen the lens to explore how eleven different cultural and philosophical traditions, from Tibetan Buddhism to Celtic folklore to Native American, Polynesian/Hawaiian and Japanese perspectives, have made sense of this same transition. We close by asking why so many independent traditions keep circling the same handful of ideas and what that convergence might mean. Key Takeaways ·      Terminal lucidity — a sudden return of clarity in people with advanced dementia or unresponsiveness shortly before death — remains scientifically documented but not fully explained. ·      Some studies have observed a spike in gamma-wave brain activity around the time of death, but the research is early, small in scale and shouldn't be over-interpreted. ·      Near-death experiences share strikingly consistent features across cultures — a sense of light, peace and life review — with leading explanations including oxygen deprivation, REM intrusion, and DMT-like activity, though none are fully settled. ·      NDE research has practical value beyond theory: it's reshaped resuscitation science, offered parallels to memory consolidation and improved end-of-life care by taking patients' experiences seriously. ·      Cultural and philosophical traditions — Tibetan Buddhism, Hindu/Vedantic philosophy, Ancient Egypt, Yoruba ancestor traditions, Día de los Muertos, Celtic "thin places," Native American perspectives, Polynesian/Hawaiian traditions, Japanese Shinto/Buddhist practice, Stoicism and modern hospice care — offer strikingly different but sometimes overlapping frameworks for understanding death. ·      Many independent traditions converge on similar imagery (light, presence, continuity), which may reflect shared neurobiology, shared psychological needs or genuine unknowns in consciousness research. ·      The episode intentionally avoids concluding whether there is or isn't an afterlife, focusing instead on holding scientific and cultural perspectives honestly side by side. Keywords brain and mind at death, what happens when you die, near-death experience research, terminal lucidity, gamma waves at death, consciousness and dying, neuroscience of death, death across cultures, Tibetan Buddhism afterlife, Day of the Dead traditions, Stoic philosophy on death, Hindu view of death and reincarnation, Yoruba ancestor traditions, Celtic thin places, Native American views on death, Hawaiian aumakua ancestor spirits, Polynesian death traditions, Japanese Shinto death rituals, Japanese Buddhist ancestor worship, palliative care and NDEs, end of life brain activity, Exploring Brain and Mind podcast, Mastering Your Mind Matters FURTHER INFORMATON AND LINKS: Exploring Brain and Mind is part of Mastering Your Mind Matters – the website www.masteringyourmindmatters.com (http://www.masteringyourmindmatters.com/) is being updated. All enquiries linked to Exploring Brain and Mind, including enquiries about being a guest, must be directed to the email address welcome@masteringyourmindmatters.com (mailto:welcome@masteringyourmindmatters.com). Exploring Brain and Mind is currently a one-person venture with limited financial resources. Donations to the following link would be greatly appreciated to help improve services: https://app.redcircle.com/shows/a91052d4-5b30-406a-a41c-158c4b5f9cc0/donations (https://app.redcircle.com/shows/a91052d4-5b30-406a-a41c-158c4b5f9cc0/donations) To find out more about the host you can follow Elke Wallace on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elke-a-wallace (https://www.linkedin.com/in/elke-a-wallace)

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