FATHA TORCH is the podcast to help you cope with the anxiety and stress of fatherhood so that you can be the dad you always wish you had. Each episode is an open discussion about fatherhood and the struggles we face as Black men in America. Topics include self-love, raising sons vs daughters, the child support system, emotional trauma from toxic relationships, societal injustices and reentry after incarceration. Hosted by Rah, a father of nine children, artist and founder of Abimilechh Foundation in Rochester, NY.
Matthew 6:3: A New Perspective for Fathers Seeking Approval and Praise
Ep. 28 Unravel the mysterious phrase "Never Let Your Left Hand Know What Your Right Hand Is Doing." From parenting to interpersonal dynamics, we'll discuss how it encourages trust, open communication, and a balance between individual autonomy and shared responsibilities.
Discover the origins of this phrase, rooted in the biblical teachings of the Gospel of Matthew (6:3), where Jesus advises doing acts of charity in secret. We'll delve into its cultural interpretations, examining its relevance in various contexts and its broader meaning over time.
In the realm of fatherhood and relationships, we'll explore how this principle emphasizes humility, selflessness, and the significance of acting with sincerity.
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24 Nov 2023
Abolish Fear-Based Assumptions
Ep 9 Fear-based assumptions can lead to a parent-child relationship of pain, drama and heartache for all involved. As fathers we often lash out at our kids in order to protect them from the unknown, or to prevent them from getting involved with something that we don't understand but are afraid to admit it.
In this episode let's explore another way to approach fatherhood in the New Year
1. What does it mean for a father to actively listen to his children and not assume he knows everything?
2. How can fathers instill fear of God and not fear of the world in their daughters?
3. What is the importance of self-control, communication, and emotional connection in fatherhood?
As a father of nine, I have come to understand that assumptions about my children, myself, my family, and even my manhood can lead to pain, drama and headaches.
I know that I cannot assume that one conversation is enough to teach my children, and I must actively listen and show them love and support. I must also be mindful that although I have experience, it does not make me an expert on my children's lives.
I must be adaptable and have self-control, knowing that what I say will affect my children. I strive to speak life, prosperity, liberty, and innate spirit, teaching my children to be secure in themselves, and to be prepared and have the tools needed to protect themselves.
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24 Nov 2023
Stop Being Your Child’s Friend, Start Being Their Leader
Ep. 17 This episode is a must-listen for parents seeking guidance on discipline and communication with their children.
In today's society, many parents walk around on eggshells, and it seems like fathers have no authority when it comes to raising the kids. As an advocate for traditional fatherhood, I have dedicated myself to helping other parents like you reclaim your power and raise kids who respect and obey you.
It's important to establish boundaries and respect, rather than trying to be your child's friend. Issues of teen mental health issues, addiction, and other taboo subjects must be address properly. By advocating for open communication and a supportive community, I believe we can help our children become confident, successful adults.
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Redefining Masculinity: Balance and Empathy in Relationships | FATHA TORCH
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In this episode, you will be able to:
Explore the complexities of modern fatherhood and its influence on children's growth.
Scrutinize current parenting approaches and the growing disregard for respect.
Recognize the significance of a solid foundation and discipline in raising children.
Embrace the power of community backing, empathy, and solidarity within the black community.
Tackle open dialogues on taboo subjects and the consequences of societal repression.
The key moments in this episode are:
00:00:00 - Being a Father vs Being a Friend
00:01:14 - Parenting in Today's Society
00:05:40 - The Importance of Respect
00:09:36 - The Reality of Parenting
00:13:36 - The Challenges of Parenting for Black Fathers
00:15:16 - Advocating for the Children
00:17:38 - Bring Back the Village
00:21:06 - Be the Part
00:23:07 - Breaking Taboos
00:24:50 - You Are Not Alone
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