About From Fear to Fun - Efficient consultation - Empower patients
How to improve the relation between doctors and patients?
A lot is going on during any consultation. Frequently we are not aware of the obstacles in the way of effective communication in the outpatient clinic. This is especially the case when the patient is a child.
Learn how to empower your (paediatric) patients so that you can become their partner in their journey.
Learn how to use the time you have as efficient and effective as possible, with a high degree of patient satisfaction and treatment adherence.
This episode explores why some parents arrive with expectations that medicine simply cannot meet — and how these unrealistic hopes can create pressure, conflict, and emotional turbulence in the consultation. We unpack the roots of these expectations and offer strategies to guide families back to reality with clarity and compassion.
We cover:
Why some parents believe their child should never suffer, feel pain, or get sick
How illness in a child triggers parental helplessness, guilt, and loss of control
Why parents demand certainty, quick fixes, or repeated investigations
How unrealistic expectations lead to pressure, mistrust, and perceived hostility
The emotional drivers behind requests for more tests or second opinions
What parents really want: control, reassurance, and protection from blame
How to identify whether we’re treating the child’s illness or the parent’s anxiety
Strategies to reset expectations:
explaining what is normal
clarifying disease progression
discussing healing timelines
setting boundaries around unnecessary investigations
Why more tests often create more confusion, false positives, and “result‑ghosts”
How to bring conversations back to shared goals and real risks
When misguided expectations cross into harmful territory (e.g., Münchhausen by proxy)
Key takeaway:
Parents may come with misguided expectations because they cannot bear their child’s suffering. Our role is to guide them gently back to reality — with honesty, boundaries, and compassion — so the consultation can move from fear to fun.
30 Apr 2026
From Fear to Fun: The challenging parent
This episode explores why some parents appear “difficult” or overprotective — and how their behaviour is rooted in fear, experiences, and a deep desire to keep their child safe. When we understand the emotional background noise they bring into the room, we can adjust our approach and transform the consultation.
We cover:
Why overprotective parents struggle to trust clinicians and how this affects the child’s first impression
How parental hesitation in the first 7 seconds shapes the child’s willingness to engage
The four types of “background noise” that drive overprotective behaviour:
Professional parents (parents of children with complex needs)
Traumatised parents (carrying past negative experiences)
Needy parents (fearful of losing control or relevance)
Deprived‑tiger parents (from backgrounds where everything must be fought for)
How to welcome “professional parents” as partners rather than competitors
How to separate a traumatised parent’s story from the child’s story
How to clarify roles with “needy parents” who block the child’s autonomy
How to soften “deprived‑tiger parents” through reassurance and inclusion
Why all overprotective parents need orientation, validation, and a clear sense of partnership
Key takeaway:
Overprotective parents aren’t difficult — they’re afraid. When we acknowledge their fears, validate their expertise, and include them as partners, trust grows and the consultation moves from fear to fun.
29 Apr 2026
From Fear to Fun: More than one child at the consultation
This episode explores how to manage consultations when a sibling is present — a situation that can quickly become chaotic if not handled intentionally. At the heart of it lies one simple truth: everybody craves attention, including the child who is not the patient.
We cover:
Why siblings often become disruptive when they feel unseen
A powerful dolphin‑training analogy that shows why non‑interference also deserves recognition
How the patient naturally receives all attention — and why this creates tension
Why siblings need acknowledgement, a role, and a place in the room
How to prevent disruption by giving the sibling a clear task (“I need you to play there”)
The importance of having small toys ready to offer at strategic moments
What happens when the sibling is ignored — and why even negative attention is better than none
Key takeaway:
When a second child is present, they must be seen, acknowledged, and given a place in the consultation. Their quiet cooperation is an achievement — and recognising it keeps the encounter calm, connected, and moving from fear to fun.
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