Husband Help Haven Podcast: Marriage Advice for Men Facing Separation, Affair or Divorce

About Husband Help Haven Podcast: Marriage Advice for Men Facing Separation, Affair or Divorce

Are you struggling to get your wife back? Marriage on the brink of divorce? The only one trying to save the relationship and keep the family together? Stephen Waldo from Husband Help Haven shares powerful insights based on his experiences with over 2,500 men going through separation. Advising men going through separation since 2011, he has seen marriages saved from a wife wanting separation, wife having a physical affair (or emotional affair), wife going through a midlife crisis, facing divorce, husband struggling with pornography addiction, depression, childhood trauma, and more. Through a mix of solo shows, interviews, reader Q&A, direct advice and a sprinkle of marriage philosophy, he says, "My goal is always to help you be the best husband, father and man you can be, no matter what your marriage is like right now - even if your wife wants out." Subscribe today and start moving forward.

Publisher

Stephen Waldo

Category

education · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

1 Jun 2020

Latest episode

28 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

7 of 40 episodes have a transcript.

1. 

   28 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT

   When She Says "I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You"

   Host [Host Name] explores how men can navigate a partner's "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" statement by focusing on existing love and easing pressure.

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   13 Aug 2026TRANSCRIPT

   How to Use Boundaries in Marriage: 2 Words, 3 Steps

   Host [Host Name] guides men through setting effective marriage boundaries with two words and three steps to protect relationships from destructive behaviors.

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   29 Jul 2026

   Why Boundary Advice Keeps Ending Marriages

   Boundaries are taught as a property line, enforced by a consequence, triggered by how you feel. Almost nothing is taught about lifting one. In Part 1 of this two-part episode I lay out the four things that go wrong in how boundaries are commonly taught, and why a tool meant to protect a marriage keeps getting used to end it. Part 2 is the framework. Free cheat sheet at husbandhelphaven.com/episode-38 0:00 The book his wife was reading 7:04 The standard model of boundaries 9:24 Problem 1: the trigger is just a feeling 11:56 Problem 2: the consequence crosses the line you drew 13:41 Problem 3: nobody teaches you to lift it 14:15 Problem 4: the gravity points out of the marriage 16:41 The social media version of all this 18:17 The four problems, summarized 18:50 What I actually want a boundary to do 20:59 What's coming in Part 2 21:20 Cheat sheet + where to go next

Inside a recent episode

When She Says "I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You"

Published 28 Sept 2026 · Transcript excerpt

[…] By the time she says this to you, she already knows. So guilt tripping is null and void. It's not going to help anything. It's just pushing on the thing that she's already decided she's going to do. Likewise, convincing her that she should work on the marriage with you, trying to say, look, let's just go to counseling. Let's just read a book together. Let's do something to work on the marriage. Well, she's already decided, again, that in love, those words are are sort of the antithesis of work on the marriage. Working on the marriage can't be the solution to, I'm just not in love with you. Because that statement is what you say when you believe that that in love feeling can't come from working on the marriage. […]

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

121 ratings

Spotify

4.8 / 5

93 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 32 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

37

Social presence

0

YouTube

0

Engagement

67

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