Death & Disco is the podcast where we explore how truly embracing death can lead to a more meaningful, magical and radically alive life. Host Emily brings together researchers, healers, mystics, scientists and everyday people with extraordinary perspectives on mortality — because the conversations society avoids most are often the ones we need most urgently. We go deep on physical death and grief, the metaphorical deaths of ego and identity, and the profound cost of our collective denial — how running from death keeps us hustling, dividing, and sleepwalking through the one life we have. We sit with the evidence from near-death experiences, psychedelic research, ancient philosophy and neuroscience that facing death doesn't diminish life. It explodes it open. Because no one gets out of here alive. So we might as well enjoy the ride. Death & Disco — dance 'til you die vibes.
It's Just Me, Emily
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Podcast Overview
Death & Disco is the podcast where we explore how truly embracing death can lead to a more meaningful, magical and radically alive life. Host Emily brings together researchers, healers, mystics, scientists and everyday people with extraordinary perspectives on mortality — because the conversations society avoids most are often the ones we need most urgently. We go deep on physical death and grief, the metaphorical deaths of ego and identity, and the profound cost of our collective denial — how running from death keeps us hustling, dividing, and sleepwalking through the one life we have. We sit with the evidence from near-death experiences, psychedelic research, ancient philosophy and neuroscience that facing death doesn't diminish life. It explodes it open. Because no one gets out of here alive. So we might as well enjoy the ride. Death & Disco — dance 'til you die vibes.
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June 3, 2026
Mortality, Wonder and the Practice of Noticing with Jasmine Wilder of The Tiny Joy Project
<p>Some accounts you scroll past. Others stop you mid-doom-scroll and remind you that you are spinning on a space rock, getting to hear thunder and high-five someone for no reason! Jasmine Wilder, the writer behind the Tiny Joy Project, makes the second kind. In this episode, Emily sits down with the woman whose short reflections have reached millions of people across Threads and Instagram, and traces the heartbreak underneath the beauty. Spoiler: the woman writing about the magic of raspberries and moss got here through grief, health anxiety, and a series of mortality wake-up calls that refused to be ignored.</p><p>Jasmine opens up about the years that broke her open. A move from the States back to Finland. COVID. Financial freefall. Her husband's young cousin diagnosed with cancer while pregnant, then losing that battle the same week Jasmine herself was rushed in for emergency surgery from sheer stress. A young woodcutter who walked across her yard one afternoon and was dead a week later. Each loss cracked her certainty that life was something you could plan around. Instead of looking away, she did the rarer thing: she read Atul Gawande's Being Mortal, watched Neil deGrasse Tyson talk about the absurd miracle of existing at all, and let her own mortality become the doorway into gratitude. Tiny Joy Project is what she built on the other side of that reckoning.</p><p>Emily and Jasmine get tactical about the daily practice of staying alive to your life: no phone for the first hour, ruthless curation of what you consume, childlike curiosity as a discipline, and the radical act of choosing your reality every single morning. They talk about post-traumatic growth, why DEATH is the catalyst for noticing LIFE, the documentary Jasmine is already dreaming up, and the book she never thought she'd write. This conversation is medicine for anyone tired of the noise and quietly starving for permission to exhale.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><p>● Mortality is not the enemy of JOY, it is the doorway to it. Jasmine's anxiety about dying didn't lift until she stopped running from death and started studying it.</p><p>● You are statistically more likely to never exist than to exist. Sitting with that math is one of the fastest routes to gratitude that actually lands in the body.</p><p>● Curate your inputs like your nervous system depends on it, because it does. Mute, unfollow, and stop consuming content that whiplashes you between kittens and corpses every three seconds.</p><p>● The news is real and the suffering is real, AND it is never the whole story. There is always a comma, never just a period.</p><p>● Childlike wonder is a practice, not a personality trait. Asking "who decided clouds should be a thing" is a legitimate spiritual exercise.</p><p>● Making the most of LIFE looks less like a bucket list and more like noticing. Be here. Pay attention. Stop drifting.</p><p><strong>Guest</strong></p><p>Jasmine is a writer and the creator of The Tiny Joy Project. She writes for people carrying big feelings. Small reminders that beauty still exists, even when everything feels a little broken. Her work has reached millions who needed a reason to exhale. When she’s not noticing sunsets or talking to her dog, she’s probably getting distracted by something small and thinking about it longer than she needs to.</p><p></p><p><strong>Resources Mentioned</strong></p><p>● Being Mortal by Atul Gawande: https://www.atulgawande.com/book/being-mortal/</p><p>● Neil deGrasse Tyson on the odds of existing: https://www.haydenplanetarium.org/tyson/</p><p>● Tiny Joy Project on Threads: https://www.threads.net/@tinyjoyproject</p><p>● Tiny Joy Project on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tinyjoyproject/</p><p></p><p>Connect with Jasmine</p><p>● Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tinyjoyproject/</p><p>● Threads: <u><a href="https://www.threads.net/@tinyjoyproject" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.threads.net/@tinyjoyproject</a></u></p><ul><li>A Jar of Fireflies:<a href="https://tally.so/r/Bz1bRe" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> https://tally.so/r/Bz1bRe</a></li></ul><br/><p>Connect with Emily</p><ul><li>Join Emily’s mailing list: http://iamemilybingham.com/connect</li></ul><br/><p>● Book a Wake-Up Call: https://calendly.com/iamemilybingham/wake-up-call</p><p>● Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamemilybingham/</p><p>● Join the YOLO Year Waitlist: <u><a href="https://iamemilybingham.com/yolo-waitlist" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://iamemilybingham.com/yolo-waitlist</a></u></p><p>#DeathAndDisco #DeathMedicine #NoOneGetsOutAlive #EmilyBingham #LoveAndGrief #TinyJoyProject #JasmineWilder #PostTraumaticGrowth #ChildlikeWonder #MortalityMedicine</p>
May 20, 2026
The Worm at the Core: Death Anxiety, Terror Management, and the Path to Radical Aliveness with Sheldon Solomon
<p>Emily sits down with Sheldon Solomon, the legendary social psychologist and co-developer of Terror Management Theory, for a conversation that detonates the polite fictions most of us live by. Sheldon spent more than 40 years building the empirical case for what Ernest Becker proposed in The Denial of Death: that the uniquely human awareness of our own mortality is the hidden engine behind almost everything we think, want, and do. From courtroom judges setting bonds nine times higher after being reminded of death, to voters lurching toward authoritarian leaders after a terror attack, to our insatiable hunger for money, status, and stuff, Sheldon walks through the studies that show how unprocessed death anxiety quietly metastasizes into cruelty, consumerism, and cultural collapse.</p><p>But this episode is not a doom scroll dressed up as science. Emily and Sheldon move from diagnosis to medicine, mapping what Sheldon calls the tripod of psychological fortitude: awe, humility, and gratitude. They get into the research on meditation, nature, psychedelics, and near death experiences, and why each one quiets our reflexive defenses against mortality through the same neuroanatomical pathway. Sheldon names the toxic meritocratic worldview that has turned us into "inebriated rats" chasing significance we can never catch, and offers a softer, fiercer alternative rooted in cosmic connection and the courage to feel small.</p><p>This one is for the spiritually curious, the grievers, the academics, and anyone who has ever suspected that our cultural allergy to DEATH is exactly what is keeping us from LIFE. Sheldon's work cracked Emily wide open, and this conversation is the closest thing to a primer on Terror Management Theory you will find without buying the textbook.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><p>● Death anxiety is not occasional or optional. It runs underneath our politics, prejudices, purchases, and self-esteem projects, whether we are conscious of it or not.</p><p>● When mortality is on our minds, we cling harder to people who share our worldview and respond more harshly to those who do not. Demagogues weaponize this by turning fear into hatred aimed at scapegoats.</p><p>● The American meritocracy is a uniquely toxic immortality project. It sets standards almost no one can meet and manufactures chronic dissatisfaction, depression, addiction, and burnout.</p><p>● Awe, humility, and gratitude form a neurobiological tripod that dissolves our defensive reactions to death. So do meditation, nature, music, and psychedelics, all routing through the same brain pathways.</p><p>● Humility is not self-deprecation. It is the recognition that we are radically inconsequential specks of carbon dust AND intimately connected to every living thing that has ever existed.</p><p>● The fullness of life requires an awareness and acceptance of our transience. Engaging with mortality is not morbid, it is the doorway to meaning, connection, and fierce aliveness.</p><p><strong>Guest</strong></p><p>Sheldon Solomon, Professor of Psychology, Skidmore College.</p><p>Sheldon Solomon is a professor of psychology at Skidmore College whose research on the effects of the uniquely human awareness of death on attitudes and behavior has been supported by the National Science Foundation and Ernest Becker Foundation. He is co-author of In the Wake of 9-11: The Psychology of Terror and The Worm at the Core: On the Role of Death in Life, and is a developer of Terror Management Theory.</p><p><strong>Resources Mentioned</strong></p><p>● The Worm at the Core: On the Role of Death in Life by Sheldon Solomon, Jeff Greenberg, and Tom Pyszczynski: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/220079/the-worm-at-the-core-by-sheldon-solomon-jeff-greenberg-and-tom-pyszczynski/</p><p>● In the Wake of 9-11: The Psychology of Terror by Tom Pyszczynski, Sheldon Solomon, and Jeff Greenberg: https://www.apa.org/pubs/books/4317016</p><p>● The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Denial-of-Death/Ernest-Becker/9780684832401</p><p>● The Birth and Death of Meaning by Ernest Becker: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Birth-and-Death-of-Meaning/Ernest-Becker/9780029021903</p><p>● Escape from Evil by Ernest Becker: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Escape-from-Evil/Ernest-Becker/9780029024508</p><p>● Flight from Death: The Quest for Immortality (documentary): https://www.flightfromdeath.com/</p><p>● Ernest Becker Foundation: https://ernestbecker.org/</p><p>● National Science Foundation: https://www.nsf.gov/</p><p>● The Tyranny of Merit by Michael Sandel: https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781250800060/thetyrannyofmerit</p><p>● Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer: https://milkweed.org/book/braiding-sweetgrass</p><p>● Being and Time by Martin Heidegger: https://www.harpercollins.com/products/being-and-time-martin-heidegger</p><p>● Skidmore College: https://www.skidmore.edu/</p><p>● Works of Irvin Yalom (existential psychotherapy): https://www.yalom.com/</p><p>● Works of Rollo May: https://www.wwnorton.com/books/Loves-Will/</p><p><strong>Connect with Emily</strong></p><p>● Website: https://iamemilybingham.com/</p><p>● Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamemilybingham/</p><p>● Join the YOLO Year Waitlist: https://iamemilybingham.com/yolo-waitlist</p><p><strong>Connect with Sheldon</strong></p><p>● Skidmore College Faculty Page: https://www.skidmore.edu/psychology/faculty/solomon.php</p><p>● The Worm at the Core: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/220079/the-worm-at-the-core-by-sheldon-solomon-jeff-greenberg-and-tom-pyszczynski/</p><p>#DeathAndDisco #DeathMedicine #NoOneGetsOutAlive #EmilyBingham #LoveAndGrief #TerrorManagementTheory #ErnestBecker #SheldonSolomon #TheWormAtTheCore #DeathAcceptance #DeathAnxiety #ExistentialPsychology #MortalityAwareness #DeathPositive #ConsciousLiving</p>
May 6, 2026
Embracing Death as the key to Aliveness: Welcome to Death and Disco
<p>Welcome to the inaugural episode of Death and Disco, the rebrand of Emily Bingham's podcast formerly known as It's Just Me, Emily. Emily, a spiritual life coach, widow, healer, mystic, and mom, opens with the conviction that our cultural denial of death is quietly destroying us, and that turning toward mortality is the actual key to soul alignment, inner abundance, and radical aliveness. Death has been her greatest teacher since losing her 32-year-old husband Ian to terminal cancer in March 2019, and seven years later she is bringing the medicine she has gleaned to a wider conversation.</p><p>This episode lays out the why behind the new name, the shape of the season ahead, and the core teachings Emily will be unpacking all year. She walks through the duality the title holds: the queen of death and the muse, the sacred and the disco party, the void and the rebirth. She introduces the YOLO Year, her signature program built on the idea that you do not need a loss to learn how to live. Along the way she explores mortality as a mirror, a magnifier of miracles, and a motivator, plus the metaphorical deaths we move through in jobs, relationships, and identities.</p><p>In the second half, Emily gets academic and irreverent at once, breaking down terror management theory, Ernest Becker's The Denial of Death, immortality projects, and how death anxiety drives the political, religious, and cultural divisions chewing the world up right now. She closes with research on near death experiences, altered states, and death acceptance, making the case that facing our mortality dissolves the ego, opens the heart, and might just be the medicine the world is starving for.</p><p></p><p><strong>Connect</strong></p><p>● Website: https://iamemilybingham.com/</p><p>● Instagram: <u><a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamemilybingham/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/iamemilybingham/</a></u></p><p>● Join the YOLO Year Waitlist: https://iamemilybingham.com/yolo-waitlist</p><p>#DeathAndDisco #DeathMedicine #NoOneGetsOutAlive #EmilyBingham #LoveAndGrief</p>
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