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Judgment, Not Judgmental | Parenting Tools + Conversations That Support Moms in Raising Their Family... Their Way

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by Rachel Lefebvre & Rosie Whinnery

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Shamey parenting energy is not welcome here. Judgment, Not Judgmental is the podcast for moms who know what they're doing and still — very much — lose it. Not solely venting, and not solely expert advice. More like if those two had a baby? It’s two parents choosing curiosity over criticism, celebrating what’s working, laughing through what’s not, and giving you something small and usable you can actually try this week (because yes… we do know what we’re talking about). Hosted by Rachel — parenting strategist from the child welfare world with an MSW and girl mom of two — and Rosie — PA with a psych background and boy mom of two — it’s the show where two best friends talk about all the things happening in their homes, their heads, and their hearts… without pretending to have it all figured out. We believe in judgment — the kind you use to make decisions, set boundaries, and protect your peace. Moms need that. Kids need that. And we’re human — of course we have opinions. What we don’t do is judgmental — the shamey, side-eye, mean-girl-higher-than-thou energy. We know everyone has a different take on feeding, sleeping, working, discipline, meltdowns, screen time, childcare — all of it. It's fine. But we’re also not here to co-sign every parenting moment just because it was hard. If something is coming at your kid’s expense, we’re gonna talk about it. Not to call you out — but because YOU don’t feel good stuck in that place, and neither do they. You can lose it sometimes, but you don’t have to live there. Each episode feels like the thing you wish you had time for: getting out of the house, sitting across from your friend, unloading, re-thinking, and re-entering your day feeling better. Except you don’t have to plan childcare or put on real pants. Let this be the version of friend time that acts like a shot of caffeine, when what you really need is sleep. We get into: → The why behind the hard moments — your kids, your partner, your reactions → The pressure and opinions moms are drowning in, → The tiny, emotionally intelligent shifts that make the day feel lighter. If you know what you're doing, you’re losing it anyway, and you’re just trying to love parenting as much as you’re meant to — so are we. Pull up a chair. We saved you a seat.

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12/9/2025

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June 2, 2026

“First of All... Don’t Tell Me What To Do”: Relationship Repair & Emotional Regulation

<p>Rachel and Rosie start with vocabulary words and somehow end up talking about ADHD, re-parenting, emotional regulation, and ChapStick. They discuss the question that immediately reduced tension with both a husband and a toddler, why parenting starts with exhaustion instead of expertise, and how a five-second pause can completely change a conversation.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>WHAT WE TALK ABOUT IN THIS EPISODE</p> <p>→ why "I need you to be ready" landed so badly</p> <p>→ the same relationship troubleshooting question working on both the husband and a toddler</p> <p>→ what you're actually afraid of losing in moments of tension</p> <p>→ why some people need a question before they can find an answer</p> <p><span>→&nbsp;maternal mental health and taking time for yourself</span></p> <p>→ re-parenting, self-regulation, and making your own voice matter</p> <p>→ parenting in the Wild West of conflicting advice</p> <p>→ "new plan," "proof of life," and other phrases that make family life easier</p> <p>→ why parenting doesn't start with expertise—it starts with exhaustion</p> <p>→ what repair really sounds like after a hard moment</p> <p>→&nbsp;modeling&nbsp;for your kids how to pause before reacting</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>🔗 LINKS &amp; MENTIONS</p> <p>-&nbsp;Lingvano app for learning American Sign Language</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>🤍 CONNECT WITH US Instagram:</p> <p>→ @judgment_not_judgmental</p> <p>→ @regulatingwithrachel</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>If this episode felt like your life:</p> <p>Send it to the friend you voice note when everything feels like too much. Or DM us. We’re really glad you’re here.</p>

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May 5, 2026

What to Say Instead of “What’s Wrong?”, Moving with Toddlers & The Tangents from Hiatus

<p>Rachel and Rosie come back from a hiatus with moving chaos, flooded basements, tornado warnings, and a moment that ends in a dog bed surrounded by two giant dogs wondering why everyone needs to touch you at the exact same time—plus about twenty tangents (including literal math) that somehow still end up looping back around?? 🔍 WHAT WE’RE TALKING ABOUT IN THIS EPISODE → packing up your entire house while still living in it with kids, animals, and zero personal space → a toddler melting down over sleeves… that turns out to be about wanting her sister → “I don’t like where you put my bed” and what that actually means during a move → the moment everything stacks—noise, touch, questions—and you hit your limit → sitting in a dog bed because it’s the only place no one else is → why asking “what’s wrong?” usually gets you nowhere in a meltdown → what happens when you stop asking questions and just say what you think is going on → how fast a small moment turns into snapping at your partner when you’re already overwhelmed Nothing is technically *wrong* it’s just *a lot *. It’s: - transitions - noise - competing needs - you’re overstimulated af - and toddlers trying to communicate things they don’t fully understand yet This episode helps you slow it down just enough to see: what’s is the behavior GIVING the person? that’s not negotiable — but how it happens is. That’s how you respond in a way that supports your child’s emotional regulation **and** your own. 🔥 TAKEAWAYS - A toddler tantrum is usually not about the thing they’re upset about—it’s often about a transition, a change, or something that didn’t match their expectation - When everything feels overwhelming (for you), it’s usually overstimulation—not just “too many things,” but not having space to process any of it - Naming what you think is happening (“you wanted your sister,” “you didn’t like your room changing”) works better than asking questions in the middle of a meltdown - Trying to fix or redirect too quickly can actually make emotional regulation harder—for both of you - A lot of parenting moments aren’t behavior problems—they’re communication problems happening in real time 🔗 LINKS &amp; MENTIONS - The Rabbit Listened by Cori Doerrfeld - Dolly Parton Imagination Library (imaginationlibrary.com) 🤍 CONNECT WITH US Instagram: → @judgment_not_judgmental → @regulatingwithrachel If this episode felt like your life: Send it to the friend you voice note when everything feels like too much. Or DM us. We’re really glad you’re here.</p>

Episode thumbnail for “I Did the Hard Thing Because I’m a Parent”: One Last Thing vs. A 46-Minute Bath

March 18, 2026

“I Did the Hard Thing Because I’m a Parent”: One Last Thing vs. A 46-Minute Bath

<p>Rachel and Rosie record this episode for the third time at 9:36pm. They talk about kids who take choking hazards very seriously, getting stuck in the kitchen with three animals and a baby grabbing your pants, and the audacity of being interrupted mid-thought.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>🔗 LINKS &amp; MENTIONS</strong></p> <p>→ <strong>Rachel’s Instagram</strong>:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/regulatingwithrachel/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">@regulatingwithrachel&nbsp;</a></p> <p>→ <strong>January 9th post</strong>:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTS30zzjRWd/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">“One Last Thing” concept&nbsp;</a></p> <p>→ <strong>Allegra Cohen</strong> –&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WyNbnm4MDYs" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Micro Joy Algorithm TED Talk&nbsp;</a></p> <p>→ <strong>What To Do With Your Baby Every Day by Rachel Lefebvre</strong></p> <p>&nbsp; &nbsp; →&nbsp;<span class="s1"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GF67RBT2" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span class="s2">Paperback</span></a>&nbsp;on Amazon</span></p> <p>&nbsp; &nbsp; →&nbsp;<span class="s1"><a href="https://rachellefebvre.mykajabi.com/babybook" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span class="s2">PDF + ASL posters</span></a></span></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>🤍 CONNECT WITH US</strong></p> <p><strong><span>→&nbsp;</span>Instagram</strong>: @judgment_not_judgmental</p> <p>If this episode felt like a conversation you got *anything* from at all:</p> <p>&nbsp; &nbsp; → Share it with a friend who’s in the thick of toddler (or big kid… or grown up?) transition troubles</p> <p>&nbsp; &nbsp; → Send us a DM with your “one last thing” wins (first try or 14th)</p> <p>&nbsp; &nbsp; → Leave a review so we can keep having more of these conversations</p> <p>We’re really building this with you, not just for you.</p>

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What is Judgment, Not Judgmental | Parenting Tools + Conversations That Support Moms in Raising Their Family... Their Way?

Shamey parenting energy is not welcome here. Judgment, Not Judgmental is the podcast for moms who know what they're doing and still — very much — lose it.

Not solely venting, and not solely expert advice. More like if those two had a baby? It’s two parents choosing curiosity over criticism, celebrating what’s working, laughing through what’s not, and giving you something small and usable you can actually try this week (because yes… we do know what we’re talking about).

Hosted by Rachel — parenting strategist from the child welfare world with an MSW and girl mom of two — and Rosie — PA with a psych background and boy mom of two — it’s the show where two best friends talk about all the things happening in their homes, their heads, and their hearts… without pretending to have it all figured out.

We believe in judgment — the kind you use to make decisions, set boundaries, and protect your peace. Moms need that. Kids need that. And we’re human — of course we have opinions. What we don’t do is judgmental — the shamey, side-eye, mean-girl-higher-than-thou energy. We know everyone has a different take on feeding, sleeping, working, discipline, meltdowns, screen time, childcare — all of it. It's fine.

But we’re also not here to co-sign every parenting moment just because it was hard. If something is coming at your kid’s expense, we’re gonna talk about it. Not to call you out — but because YOU don’t feel good stuck in that place, and neither do they. You can lose it sometimes, but you don’t have to live there.

Each episode feels like the thing you wish you had time for: getting out of the house, sitting across from your friend, unloading, re-thinking, and re-entering your day feeling better. Except you don’t have to plan childcare or put on real pants.

Let this be the version of friend time that acts like a shot of caffeine, when what you really need is sleep.

We get into: → The why behind the hard moments — your kids, your partner, your reactions → The pressure and opinions moms are drowning in, → The tiny, emotionally intelligent shifts that make the day feel lighter.

If you know what you're doing, you’re losing it anyway, and you’re just trying to love parenting as much as you’re meant to — so are we. Pull up a chair. We saved you a seat.

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