by Gillian McCallum
Welcome to Love is Not a List, with multi-award-winning London Matchmaker Gillian McCallum. Join her on a journey, meeting the best in their field, to take an alternative look at all things life: relationships, dating, parenthood, love and fertility. With the lofty aspiration of changing your dating life, for the better. www.drawingdownthemoon.co.uk www.gillianmccallum.com
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October 19, 2023
<p>In this week's podcast, <a href="https://gillianmccallum.com/about-gillian/">matchmaker Gillian McCallum</a> interviews<a href="https://www.jamespreece.com/"> </a>renowned British dating coach and expert James Preece, about dating, love and relationships. </p> <p><br></p> <p>James is well-known for his advice and coaching, working with single people to find a long term, compatible partner, in order to build long term, successful and happy romantic relationships. James helps both men and women find meaningful long term connections in a dating world that can be a maze of confusion and uncertainty. </p> <p><br></p> <p>We focus today on supporting men in dating. What should men be doing to find the love of their life, in a dating landscape that has changed significantly over the past 10 years? </p> <p><br></p> <p>James discusses the different types of male clients he coaches, ranging from younger men struggling to connect with women due to online dating challenges, to older men seeking a fresh start in the dating world after major life changes. </p> <p><br></p> <p>He stresses the need to break gender stereotypes and assumptions about what men and women want in a partner, and focus on what it is that the individual is searching for. </p> <p><br></p> <p>The discussion covers dating tips and tricks for dating success, including the sometimes controversial advice - of men paying on the first date. Find out why James and Gillian both agree on this when you listen!</p> <p><br></p> <p>Other advice includes being an active listener, by asking questions and focusing on the answers rather than trying to impress, show genuine interest in your date and avoid dating cliches and one liners. </p> <p><br></p> <p>When communicating after a date, reach out to express interest within a reasonable time frame, without playing games or waiting too long. The three day rule of waiting is most definitely over gents! </p> <p><br></p> <p>He encourages men to be authentic and make their intentions clear without putting pressure on the person they have just been on a date with. </p> <p><br></p> <p>Throughout the podcast, James emphasises the importance of treating people with respect, making them feel special, and leaving them in a better condition than when you found them. By doing so, one can build meaningful connections and create lasting memories in the dating world. Like everything else in the world, kindness goes a long way in dating. </p> <p><br></p> <p>If you would like to listen to solid dating and relationship tips from the UK’s top matchmaker, and the UK’s top dating coach, make sure you tune in to this week’s episode!</p> <p><br><a href="https://www.jamespreece.com">Reach out to James</a><strong> and mention this podcast!</strong></p> <p><br></p> <p>************</p> <p><strong>Interested in Matchmaking ?</strong><br><a href="https://drawingdownthemoon.co.uk/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Drawing Down The Moon Matchmaking</a></p> <p><strong>Your Journey to Parenthood </strong><br><a href="https://thecoparentingagency.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">The coParenting Agency</a><strong></strong></p> <p><strong>Visit Gillian McCallum</strong><br><a href="https://gillianmccallum.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Gillian McCallum Personal Website</a></p> <p></p> <p><strong>Socials:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/drawingdownthemoonmatchmaking/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">DDM instagram</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/gillian_mccallum/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Gillian McCallum Instagram</a></p>
October 13, 2023
Narcissism expert Margi Bowden joins me this week to expose the hidden narcissist. This revealing interview will help you to: identify the classic traits that will help you identify if your friend, lover, partner or ex, is a narcissist. Discover what you need to do in order to break free, and rebuild your life on the path to full recovery. In this, the sixth episode of the Love is Not a List Podcast with Gillian McCallum, she meets Margi Bowden, the well known narcissism expert, who runs the @narcissism_nab Instagram account, which gained over 50,000 followers in its first month alone. Together, Gillian and Margi discuss how to identify a narcissist, what drives a narcissist, how the narcissist selects and controls their victim, and ultimately, how to leave your narcissist in the dust and not only survive, but thrive. Narcissists have no empathy, no care for others, they survive purely on working to protect those around them from spotting and identifying just how hollow they are. They use personas, so that people believe they are the nice guy or nice girl, all the while creating victims of the person they target with their venom. Hell bent on damaging them and their reputation, or worse. Control is at the heart of the narcissist when they pick a victim. And who do they pick? They pick the kind person, the empath, the person most open to others and their journey through life. The narcissist seems at first to be similar, presenting themselves as having huge amounts in common with their victim. The “lovebombing” has begun. ************ Interested in Matchmaking ?Drawing Down The Moon Matchmaking Your Journey to Parenthood The coParenting Agency Visit Gillian McCallumGillian McCallum Personal Website Socials: DDM instagram Gillian McCallum Instagram
October 6, 2023
<p>In this, the fifth episode of the Love is Not a List Podcast with Gillian McCallum, she meets Lucy Beresford, the well known journalist, agony aunt, radio talk show host and hugely successful TedTalk, entitled: Infidelity… To Stay or Go? </p> <p>Together, Gillian and Lucy explore what it means to cheat, whether or not couples can rebuild from a position of distrust, and perhaps, whether or not Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) could be the answer for couples who still love one another, but would like to explore another option outside of their relationship or marriage. Communication is at the heart of their discussion together, with the benefits of sitting down with your partner and sharing your heartfelt desires, needs, wants, hopes and aspirations in order to build a longer lasting, successful and happy relationship. </p> <p>************</p> <p><strong>Interested in Matchmaking ?</strong><br><a href="https://drawingdownthemoon.co.uk/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Drawing Down The Moon Matchmaking</a></p> <p><strong>Your Journey to Parenthood </strong><br><a href="https://thecoparentingagency.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">The coParenting Agency</a><strong></strong></p> <p><strong>Visit Gillian McCallum</strong><br><a href="https://gillianmccallum.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Gillian McCallum Personal Website</a></p> <p></p> <p><strong>Socials:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/drawingdownthemoonmatchmaking/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">DDM instagram</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/gillian_mccallum/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Gillian McCallum Instagram</a></p>
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Welcome to Love is Not a List, with multi-award-winning London Matchmaker Gillian McCallum. Join her on a journey, meeting the best in their field, to take an alternative look at all things life: relationships, dating, parenthood, love and fertility. With the lofty aspiration of changing your dating life, for the better.
www.drawingdownthemoon.co.uk www.gillianmccallum.com
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