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RealTOC: The Tactical Operations Center for Life In and After Service RealTOC is a veteran-led show built for the next generation of service members and veterans. We bring accomplished veterans together for honest conversations about career, money, family, identity, and life after the uniform. If you’re active duty, transitioning out, or early in civilian life wondering, “Am I doing this right?” — this channel is for you.
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July 2, 2026
<p>In this episode of RealTOC, host Cameron Hardin sits down with Donny Rocci, a former U.S. Army sniper, veteran of the Iraq War surge, and dedicated special education administrator. We start the day on the water for some fishing before heading into the studio to dive deep into a journey defined by transition, identity, and service.</p><p>Donny opens up about the grit required to lose 50 pounds just to enlist, the sharp cultural contrast between active duty and the reserves, and the "ripping off the Band-Aid" reality of transitioning from a 15-month combat tour to a college classroom in just weeks. He shares the honest struggles of losing one’s identity after leaving a specialized unit and the dark periods of wandering that many veterans face when the mission suddenly disappears.</p><p>The heart of Donny’s story lies in his "accidental" discovery of special education. He reflects on how working with students with autism gave him a renewed sense of purpose that rivaled his time in the military. As he prepares for a new chapter in Colorado, Donny discusses the importance of vulnerability, the power of mentorship, and why fulfillment is the ultimate key to happiness. We are also joined by his son, Ryan, as they look forward to their family’s next big adventure.</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Connect with RealTOC:</strong></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/</a></p><p>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast</a></p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast</a></p><p>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc</a></p><p>Website: <a href="https://www.realtoc.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">RealTOC.com</a></p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Connect with Donny Rocci:</strong></p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/donaldrocci" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.facebook.com/donaldrocci</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/donny-rocci-60bb795a/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.linkedin.com/in/donny-rocci-60bb795a/</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Nominate a veteran to be a RealTOC guest: <a href="https://bit.ly/4bIczd7" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://bit.ly/4bIczd7</a></p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Find the Best Deals and Maximize Your Benefits:</strong></p><p><strong>Veteran Auto Insurance Rates:</strong><a href="https://veteran.com/lp/auto-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=auto_insurance" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6</strong></a></p><p><strong>Buy a Home with $0 Down (VA Loan):</strong><a href="https://veteran.com/start/?desc=zerodown&src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_loans" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0</strong></a></p><p><strong>Compare Home Insurance Rates & Save:</strong><a href="https://veteran.com/lp/home-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_insurance" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH</strong></a></p><p><strong>Top Credit Cards & Perks for Veterans:</strong><a href="https://veteran.com/best-credit-cards-veterans/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=credit_cards" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/4cY013P" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>https://bit.ly/4cY013P</strong></a></p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Support Veteran-Owned:</strong></p><p><strong>30% Off Black Rifle Coffee (Code: GET30):</strong><a href="https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2170331/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0</strong></a></p><p><strong>30% Off BRCC Subscriptions (Code: COFFEE30):</strong><a href="https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2124191/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/3PglBqe" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>https://bit.ly/3PglBqe</strong></a></p><p><br /></p><p>#VeteranStories #ArmySniper #SpecialEducation</p>
June 25, 2026
<p>In this episode of RealTOC, host Cameron Hardin sits down with Ben Hammond for a raw and honest conversation that goes far beyond the bike trails of Blankets Creek Trail in Georgia. Ben opens up about his journey from serving in the military to transitioning into civilian life, a path marked by challenges, introspection, and the pursuit of true purpose.</p><p>We dive deep into the essential, often-overlooked topics of modern masculinity and what it truly means to be a "competent man" in today’s society. Ben shares his personal experiences with fatherhood, the importance of faith in navigating life’s toughest transitions, and how he uses his passions, like mountain biking, as a necessary mental reset. </p><p>This episode isn’t just about gear or trails; it’s about the struggle to find balance, the necessity of silence in a distracted world, and the intentional effort required to raise the next generation of leaders.</p><p>Whether you're a veteran seeking connection, a father looking for guidance, or someone simply trying to navigate the complexities of life with faith and resilience, this conversation offers a profound perspective. Ben’s story is a powerful reminder that our past struggles don’t define us; they shape us into who we are becoming.</p><p>Join us as we explore what it means to lead well, love intentionally, and remain grounded through it all. </p><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with RealTOC:</strong></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/</a></p><p>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast</a></p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast">https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast</a></p><p>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc">https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc</a></p><p>Website: <a href="http://realtoc.com">RealTOC.com</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Ben Hammond:</strong></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-hammond-bab74b189/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-hammond-bab74b189/</a></p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/BenBlock15" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.facebook.com/BenBlock15</a></p><p><br></p><p>Nominate a veteran to be a RealTOC guest: <a href="https://bit.ly/4bIczd7">https://bit.ly/4bIczd7</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Find the Best Deals and Maximize Your Benefits:</strong></p><p><strong>Veteran Auto Insurance Rates:</strong><a href="https://veteran.com/lp/auto-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=auto_insurance"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6"><strong>https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6</strong></a></p><p><strong>Buy a Home with $0 Down (VA Loan):</strong><a href="https://veteran.com/start/?desc=zerodown&src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_loans"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0"><strong>https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0</strong></a></p><p><strong>Compare Home Insurance Rates & Save:</strong><a href="https://veteran.com/lp/home-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_insurance"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH"><strong>https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH</strong></a></p><p><strong>Top Credit Cards & Perks for Veterans:</strong><a href="https://veteran.com/best-credit-cards-veterans/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=credit_cards"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/4cY013P"><strong>https://bit.ly/4cY013P</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Support Veteran-Owned:</strong></p><p><strong>30% Off Black Rifle Coffee (Code: GET30):</strong><a href="https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2170331/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0"><strong>https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0</strong></a></p><p><strong>30% Off BRCC Subscriptions (Code: COFFEE30):</strong><a href="https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2124191/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/3PglBqe"><strong>https://bit.ly/3PglBqe</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>#Masculinity #Fatherhood #VeteranStories</p>
June 18, 2026
<p>On this episode of RealTOC, host Cameron Harding joins Aaron Lasenyik on his grueling 22 kilometer walk for a very special cause.</p><p>Prepare for an authentic look into the transition from active duty to civilian life. Aaron covers the specific challenges faced by veterans and first responders, offering insight into the mental and physical demands of these professions. </p><p>This conversation is not a traditional story; it’s a detailed blueprint of what it means to lead a life dedicated to service, no matter the obstacle. Aaron doesn't hold back as he details his remarkably varied path, from his early days in the Marine Corps through a transition into the Air Force, and ultimately finding his purpose as a firefighter and paramedic.</p><p>We dive into his experiences on the front lines, both in the military and in the intense struggle against COVID-19. Aaron discusses the challenges of being a public servant, overcoming significant personal setbacks like a DUI, and the invaluable lessons he’s learned along the way. His story is one of unwavering resilience, constant adaptation, and the critical importance of creating supportive, collaborative communities for our veterans. </p><p>Subscribe for weekly RealTOC stories, and comment below with your thoughts on the most challenging aspect of transitioning from service to civilian life. Be sure to hit that like button to support Aaron’s journey, and tap the notification bell for more powerful, deep-dive RealTOC interviews with the everyday heroes making an impact in our communities.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with RealTOC:</strong></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/</a></p><p>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast</a></p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast">https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast</a></p><p>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc">https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc</a></p><p>Website: <a href="http://realtoc.com">RealTOC.com</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Aaron Lasenyik:</strong></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronlasenyik/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronlasenyik/</a></p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/aaronl76" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.facebook.com/aaronl76</a></p><p>MilVet Community: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/milvetcommunityorg/?locale=ms_MY" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.facebook.com/milvetcommunityorg/?locale=ms_MY</a></p><p><br></p><p>Nominate a veteran to be a RealTOC guest: <a href="https://bit.ly/4bIczd7">https://bit.ly/4bIczd7</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Find the Best Deals and Maximize Your Benefits:</strong></p><p><strong>Veteran Auto Insurance Rates:</strong><a href="https://veteran.com/lp/auto-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=auto_insurance"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6"><strong>https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6</strong></a></p><p><strong>Buy a Home with $0 Down (VA Loan):</strong><a href="https://veteran.com/start/?desc=zerodown&src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_loans"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0"><strong>https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0</strong></a></p><p><strong>Compare Home Insurance Rates & Save:</strong><a href="https://veteran.com/lp/home-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_insurance"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH"><strong>https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH</strong></a></p><p><strong>Top Credit Cards & Perks for Veterans:</strong><a href="https://veteran.com/best-credit-cards-veterans/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=credit_cards"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/4cY013P"><strong>https://bit.ly/4cY013P</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Support Veteran-Owned:</strong></p><p><strong>30% Off Black Rifle Coffee (Code: GET30):</strong><a href="https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2170331/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0"><strong>https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0</strong></a></p><p><strong>30% Off BRCC Subscriptions (Code: COFFEE30):</strong><a href="https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2124191/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://bit.ly/3PglBqe"><strong>https://bit.ly/3PglBqe</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>#veteranstories #usairforce #usmarines #milvet</p>
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RealTOC: The Tactical Operations Center for Life In and After Service
RealTOC is a veteran-led show built for the next generation of service members and veterans. We bring accomplished veterans together for honest conversations about career, money, family, identity, and life after the uniform.
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