Remodeled Love is a podcast whose mission is to help expand the cultural narrative on healthy relationships, polyamory, parenthood, and love. It is produced and hosted by polyamorous mama, Jessica Daylover, and most often co-hosted with her husband and babydaddy, Joseph Daylover (and beginning in 2024, her whole polycule!)
You can find Remodeled Love on all major social media platforms, @RemodeledLove, and online at www.remodeledlove.com.
Jessica Daylover and Skylar Mundy explore profound polyamory wisdom, discussing dating married people, communication, and radical self-acceptance in this interview.
19 Feb 2026
41: Blackity Black Polyamory [with Chaneé Jackson Kendall & Evita Sawyers]
IT'S A REMODELED LOVE PODCAST TAKEOVER! Featuring our two favorite Black polyam icons, Chaneé Jackson Kendall and Evita Sawyers.
Check out Evita's Website (https://www.evitasawyers.com/)
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00:00 Introduction and Personal Signals
02:54 Celebrating Black History Month and Polyamory
06:01 Building Community in Non-Monogamy
09:02 Navigating Ideological Differences in Polyamory
12:01 The Importance of Friendships in Non-Monogamy
15:04 Creating Spaces for Black Polyamory
18:03 The Metamour Bill of Rights
20:57 Cultivating Compersion in Relationships
24:03 The Rise of Polyamory During the Pandemic
27:00 Defining Polyamory and Community Integrity
30:02 The Evolution of Non-Monogamous Practices
33:11 Current Projects and Future Directions
35:54 Reflections on Black Polyamory and Closing Thoughts
5 Feb 2026
39: The 40rgy (aka: Jes's 40th Birthday Orgy) Tell-All
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It's here (finally), it's queer (always), and it's definitely NSFW (at least without headphones...).
In this episode Jessica and 4 of the guests from her legendary 40th birthday orgy dig into their personal histories with sex parties, what lead them to this unique event, and a play-by-play tea-spilling session of one of the most magical nights of their lives. So strap in, and strap on if you're gay...cuz this episode is gonna take you on a ride.
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42: Vanilla with a Scorpio Stellium
Published 14 Sept 2026 · Transcript excerpt
[…] And the avoiding grief thing is so funny because it's kind of it's just this like. mindset that doesn't make sense because grief is inevitable. Grief is everywhere. Even in a 60 year monogamous relationship, it is going to end at some point. There is going to be grief somewhere. And that's not a bad thing. Like I am so grateful for the grief. I'm so grateful because then that's a reflection of the joy that was there. Yeah. Yeah, and it's a capacity thing for sure. It's a taste thing for sure. But I do like the way it existentially makes us do our death work. Yeah, absolutely. And it's like you are confronting that over and over again in non-monogamy. […]
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