Phil Askew and Jamie Robins, two coaches living in England, who acted on their urge to launch a Podcast for men in the thick of the global 2020 pandemic. The intention is to create open and authentic, conversational shows exploring a wide range of topics from mental health and mindset through to purpose, mission and direction.
Season 3 - Jamie is now flying solo interviewing man from all around the world about what it means to be a man in this modern time. Please like and subscribe to my podcast that will help us reach more men and continue to have these amazing conversations!
S4 Ep7: I Had 60 Mates. I’d Never Felt So Alone - Phil Askew
The conversation explores the evolution of male friendship and the challenges of making friends as an adult. It delves into the origins of Safe Harbour, the context of connection, and the unique challenges faced by men in forming and maintaining friendships. The conversation delves into the themes of creating safe spaces for connection, navigating loneliness and being alone, the value of deep friendships, understanding connection and friendship, seeking connection and meaningful interaction, the dynamics of friendship and connection, and the experience of loneliness and growth. The conversation explores the themes of risk, vulnerability, curiosity, and compassion in building meaningful connections. It delves into the disruptive power of connection, the role of acknowledgment in overcoming vulnerability, and the importance of connection and safety in human interaction.
Takeaways
Male friendship
Challenges of making friends as an adult Connection and friendship require safety, context, and holding
Loneliness and being alone are distinct experiences that can lead to growth and resilience Risk and vulnerability lead to meaningful connections
Curiosity and compassion are key to building connections
Chapters
00:00 The Origins of Safe Harbour
01:56 The Evolution of Friendship
07:00 The Context of Connection
08:02 The Challenge of Making Friends
20:07 Creating Safe Spaces for Connection
21:43 Navigating Loneliness and Being Alone
22:24 The Value of Deep Friendships
25:08 Understanding Connection and Friendship
30:14 Seeking Connection and Meaningful Interaction
38:13 The Dynamics of Friendship and Connection
43:34 The Experience of Loneliness and Growth
47:44 Risk and Vulnerability in Connection
48:55 The Power of Curiosity and Compassion
51:11 Disrupting the Matrix: Connection and Joy
59:01 Overcoming Vulnerability: Acknowledgment and Connection
01:03:27 The Importance of Connection and Safety
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3 Sept 2026
S4 Ep6: She had cancer. He had no idea what to say - Vikki Feltham
The conversation explores the emotional experiences of Vikki Feltham, particularly in the context of her relationship with her husband and her journey through cancer. It delves into the challenges of emotional expression, fear, and the impact of illness on personal and relational dynamics. The conversation delves into the challenges men face in expressing emotions and providing emotional support, as well as the impact of this on their partners. It also explores the importance of creating permission and safety for men to open up and seek support. The conversation delves into the importance of creating spaces for men to open up and share their emotions, the role of women in providing permission and safety, and the exploration of masculine and feminine energies. It also highlights the need for balance and acceptance of the emotional spectrum within both men and women.
Takeaways
Emotional expression and exploration are complex and challenging processes that require time, effort, and support.
The experience of illness and fear can deeply impact personal and relational dynamics, highlighting the need for open communication and emotional support. Emotional support and vulnerability are challenging for many men.
Creating permission and safety for men to open up is crucial for healthy communication and support. Creating safe spaces for men to share is essential
Balancing masculine and feminine energies is important for emotional well-being
Chapters
00:00 Navigating Emotional Expression
03:03 The Impact of Emotional Range on Relationships
08:10 Journey Through Illness and Fear
23:54 Challenges of Emotional Expression for Men
25:08 Impact on Partners and Relationships
27:01 Creating Permission and Safety for Men
31:00 Supporting Men's Emotional Well-being
45:51 Men's Sharing Spaces
46:49 Creating Safe Spaces for Men
47:44 The Role of Women in Providing Permission and Safety
51:02 Exploring Masculine and Feminine Energies
55:18 The Importance of Emotional Balance
17 Jul 2026
S4 Ep5: How my diagnosis changed everything - Robin Waite
Most men who are miserable in their work do not leave.
They stay. They push through. They tell themselves it could be worse. They carry on because that is what men do.
Robin Waite ran his marketing agency for twelve years. It was successful. It paid for his first house. It looked good from the outside.
On the inside he was completely and utterly miserable.
In this mini episode from Safe Harbour, Robin shares what happened the day everything changed. A Sunday cycle ride. A descent at 52.5 miles an hour. The adrenaline wearing off at the bottom of the hill. And then floods of tears that he could not explain to his cycling mates.
He ended up alone near a railway line just to process.
And in that moment of complete stillness, stripped of everything, he made a decision.
He was done.
The next day he sat his team of four around the boardroom table and told them he was closing the agency. Immediately.
What happened next is one of the most quietly beautiful moments in the whole episode.
And then Jamie shares something that every man who has ever taken a leap into the unknown will recognise.
The universe has a habit of catching you when you fall backwards.
But you have to fall first.
In this mini episode we explore:
What it feels like to run a successful business while being completely miserable inside
The breaking point that comes when a man has been pushing too long in the wrong direction
Why the most important decisions in life often come from the most unexpected moments of stillness
What Robin found sitting alone near a railway line with his daughter three weeks from being born
The team who said we were just waiting for the when not the if — and what that revealed about the man Robin actually is
Why regret about presence with your first child is one of the most common things men carry
Stepping into the not knowing, why the hardest part is always the leap not the landing
Andy's Man Club and why walking through a door you are scared of is the same as every other leap
What happens when life figures it out for you after you finally make the decision
If you are a man who knows he is in the wrong place but cannot seem to find the courage to step away, this is the episode to watch today.
Robin Waite is a business coach, speaker, author and founder of Fearless Business. He helps coaches, consultants and freelancers package their offers, price with confidence and build more profitable businesses. He is also the host of The Fearless Business Podcast and author of books including Take Your Shot, Online Business Startup and Fearless Pricing.
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