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Said Out Loud

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by Elyse Davis @busybeingelyse

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this isn’t a parenting podcast. it’s a survival journal. for the moms trying to find themselves again. for the women who want more, even when they’re tired. for the ones navigating mental health, motherhood, healing, and identity—without a script, a filter, or a plan. cozy voice-note-style episodes full of honest conversations, personal growth, making money, neurodivergent realness, and the messy in-between. we’re saying the things that usually get shoved down. the “what the fuck is happening” things. the “is it just me?” things. no fake positivity. no toxic productivity. just small moments of truth, reflection, and maybe even healing. new episodes weekly(ish). subscribe for cozy chaos, soft rebellion, and a safe space to figure it out - out loud. <br/><br/><a href="https://elysejdavis.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast">elysejdavis.substack.com</a>

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Episode thumbnail for ep. 9: self control - 0, personality - 10.

August 5, 2025

ep. 9: self control - 0, personality - 10.

<p><p>Thanks for listening to Said Out Loud-ish! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.</p></p><p></p><p>welcome back to said out loud—the podcast where we say the things out loud, even when they’re weird, slightly unhinged, or kind of uncomfortable.</p><p>Self-control. I have zero self-control. And I'm learning that that is not godly. I always say I'm going to do something, and I don't do it. And I don't hold myself accountable. And I don't tell anybody else because then they can't hold me accountable. But then I keep myself in this cycle of like disappointment and guilt and shame because I didn't do those things. Like you're going to go to bed early and you're going to wake up early. You're going to ride your bike. You're going to have this whole plan in the morning and you're going to do your things and get it all done. And then I stay up late and then I can't wake up in the morning because I'm so tired and then I always make excuses like if you wake up too early your head's gonna hurt or if you wake up too early you're not gonna feel well or you know it rest. You deserve to rest.</p><p>And I think, I don't know where that comes from or where I started learning that. I think I remember as a kid, like if my mom didn't want to go to work, she just would not go. And she'd find an excuse and call off. And I think that just kind of showed me that you could do that. Which is not right. I think it's important to show up and go to work no matter what. That's your responsibility and your commitment. I think that might have been part of it. She also was somebody who didn't have a lack of self-control and I think it's led towards dopamine and feeling wanting to feel good and feel happy. And when you're sad or angry or something doesn't go your way or even when you're happy and excited, well for me, I want to eat something yummy or buy myself a treat or I want to go shopping. I think I deserve a little present because of the thing I just went through or achieved. Go out to dinner or, you know, cancel plans for the rest of the day or cancel work. Like, well, I did this, so now I can take a break.</p><p>But I need help in not doing that anymore. Because if I'm going to change my life, then I need to change that. Because that is down near the root of where everything is going to happen. And I think like the thing about it is that you can still do those things that you want to do. You just have to make time or make plans for them. Like maybe you stay up later but it's on the weekends so that you can sleep in in the morning. You don't have to get up and worry about things. But on Sunday night you go to bed early because you have to wake up on Monday and get your day started at 6. Because if I don't wake up early enough and get all my stuff done, then I'm behind.</p><p>Like today, I slept in until almost 8 o'clock. I just kept hitting the snooze and kept hitting the snooze and kept in my head justifying that I needed to sleep. And now I feel a little anxious and rushed because Mia has a sign language lesson at 9:30. It's already 8:47. She's not even awake yet. And I also think that I need to like steward that in my kids too because they're seeing what I'm doing and they're staying up late. So I need to teach them self-control. So I need God's help in figuring out how to do that. Because, like my other lesson for the day, I don't know what I'm doing here in motherhood. And I need help.</p><p>And I think it is just wild that we are given these humans to raise. And I've literally never done this before. I have no idea what I'm doing from day to day. And every day is so hard. And I don't want it to be hard. I want it to be joyful and nice. And there's some days where I feel like I don't even talk to my kids because I just want them to like go be in their rooms and away from me and that's pretty awful. And I feel like is it too late? Have I messed up already? Like I read these things about like when you're cleaning the house or cooking and doing things that you should have them be involved with you and doing it by your side, and not, you know, entertained in another room, like watching TV or on their iPads or something, keeping them busy. Their busy should be helping you in your home.</p><p>And I feel like that's something I want to try and do more of. Like there's no reason Cooper can't stand with me while I'm cooking dinner and help. He can learn how to chop things. He can learn how to season things. He can learn what things go with what. </p><p>from here i went off on a strange detour. hold on to your butts. </p><p></p><p> literally a rambling of my thoughts, unedited, unfiltered </p><p>i want to hear from you about this</p><p></p> <br/><br/>This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit <a href="https://elysejdavis.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_1">elysejdavis.substack.com</a>

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July 29, 2025

ep. 8: my inner martha needs to calm it down

<p>*heads up* at marker 2:08-2:49 my kid comes in and there’s a little side moment. feel free to skip that if you want.</p><p></p><p>welcome back to said out loud—the podcast where we say the things out loud, even when they’re weird, slightly unhinged, or kind of uncomfortable.</p><p>hi hello how are you, so glad you’re here!</p><p>i’ve been thinking about this line i heard recently—</p><p>“if the devil can’t tempt you with sin, he’ll distract you with busyness.”</p><p>and honestly? that one hit.</p><p>life’s been moving way too fast lately.</p><p>not necessarily in a big, dramatic way… just in that nonstop, “who even runs this house?” kind of way.</p><p>laundry, groceries, work, kids, cleaning up after pets, trying to be a good partner, a good mom, a good human, and still find time to create something that matters.</p><p>i’m tired. not just in my body. tired in my soul.</p><p>a friend of mine recently took two weeks off social media.</p><p>like—really off. no posting, no scrolling, no content, no pretending.</p><p>and it made me wonder… could i do that too? should i?</p><p>this morning i sat in the living room for a minute—sunlight coming through the window—and i opened my bible. and then i opened my son’s kids devotional because honestly? sometimes that one hits harder. the simplicity, the clarity. no commentary or debate—just, here’s the truth.</p><p>i’ve been reading through the story of joseph again.</p><p>and wow… i forgot how much is packed in there.</p><p>it’s basically a whole netflix series. betrayal, loss, waiting, growth, redemption.</p><p>but what’s standing out to me most right now is the way joseph moved through it all—</p><p>not just what happened, but how he trusted anyway.</p><p>how he didn’t always understand, but he stayed open.</p><p>how god was still working behind the scenes even when it looked like nothing was happening.</p><p>meanwhile, i’ve been caught up in the grind.</p><p>comparing myself to everyone.</p><p>feeling behind.</p><p>feeling like i’m never doing enough.</p><p>feeling like i’m not even sure what the point is anymore.</p><p>like martha in the bible—always doing instead of just being.</p><p>i think the hardest part is knowing i want to help people.</p><p>i want to give freely. support causes i care about. buy meaningful gifts. sponsor things. show up for people financially.</p><p>but right now i can’t. and that’s hard.</p><p>especially with mia.</p><p>i think about her future more than anything else.</p><p>who will take care of her when i’m gone?</p><p>what will she need? how do i make sure her life is safe and supported?</p><p>will cooper be okay with that?</p><p>how much will it all cost?</p><p>and yet…</p><p>i keep thinking back to april and may, when i was pushing for district manager.</p><p>i felt focused then. anchored.</p><p>and now? i feel like i’m flailing again.</p><p>but maybe that’s the point of reading joseph right now.</p><p>maybe god’s reminding me:</p><p>you don’t need to control everything.</p><p>you just need to trust again.</p><p>ok that’s all i got for now</p><p>love ya mean it</p><p>catch ya next time</p><p><p>Thanks for reading Said Out Loud-ish! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.</p></p><p></p> <br/><br/>This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit <a href="https://elysejdavis.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_1">elysejdavis.substack.com</a>

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June 3, 2025

ep. 7: we probably won't be friends if you're ok with this

Host ELYSE J DAVIS shares her love for summer with her children, prioritizing unstructured play and limited screen time to foster imagination and connection.

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What is Said Out Loud?

this isn’t a parenting podcast. it’s a survival journal. for the moms trying to find themselves again. for the women who want more, even when they’re tired. for the ones navigating mental health, motherhood, healing, and identity—without a script, a filter, or a plan. cozy voice-note-style episodes full of honest conversations, personal growth, making money, neurodivergent realness, and the messy in-between. we’re saying the things that usually get shoved down. the “what the fuck is happening” things. the “is it just me?” things. no fake positivity. no toxic productivity. just small moments of truth, reflection, and maybe even healing. new episodes weekly(ish).

subscribe for cozy chaos, soft rebellion, and a safe space to figure it out - out loud. <br/><br/><a href="https://elysejdavis.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast">elysejdavis.substack.com</a>

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