This weekly show pairs international sex expert Tracey Cox (www.traceycox.com) and comic Kelsey Chittick as they discuss three anonymously sourced question each week about sex and relationships.
Laugh-out-loud funny, irreverent, British, international sex expert and author of 17 books Tracey answers questions posed by witty author and former stand-up comedienne Kelsey Chittick, such as:
How much should I really share with my girlfriends?
What do I do about my husband's work wife?
How often should we really be getting it on?!
Have your own questions?! Enter them anonymously at www.sextokpod.com (www.sextokpod.com).
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Music by Morning Moon Music (https://www.morningmoon.com/music)
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S15 Ep. 10: How to Be Wild, Ask for a Threesome, and a Round Up of Our Final Advice on How to Have a Happy Sex Life and Relationship
Tracey Cox and Kelsey address anonymous listener questions about feeling like a boring lover, wanting a threesome, and offer final advice for maintaining a happy sex life and relationship.
14 Jan 2026TRANSCRIPT
S15 Ep.9: Men Faking, Women Not Reciprocating, and Should I Warn Lovers My Penis Is Small?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:
1) I’m dating again after a divorce and have met a new man I really like, but I’m convinced he’s faking orgasms. Why would he do this, and should I say something?
2) I’ve been with my new girlfriend for four months, and although I’ve given her oral sex every single time we make love, not once has she offered to reciprocate. I’ve made jokes about it, but she says it's just never been something she's keen on, although she doesn't have any real objections. I thought things would change as she felt more comfortable, but they haven’t. How do I handle this?
3) I have a smaller than average penis. It’s never been a problem with girlfriends because I give lots of oral sex. It doesn’t bother me—if anything, it’s made me a better lover because I can’t rely on penetration. But every girlfriend has registered surprise when she first sees it. Should I warn potential lovers beforehand, or just make a joke when all is revealed, which is what I do now? I don’t want to make women feel uncomfortable.
To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelU (https://sextokpod.com/anonymous-questions)
Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com (https://www.chroniclebooks.com/) for 30% off!
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7 Jan 2026TRANSCRIPT
S15 Ep. 8: High Libido, Quiet Sex, and Power Games
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:
1) My wife has an extremely high libido. I know that sounds like every man’s dream, but it’s not. My sex drive has never been that high, but hers is through the roof. I thought we’d even out when we had kids, and her libido did calm down for a while. But three years later, she’s wanting sex every day. It’s emasculating, and I don’t know how to deal with this. She’s okay when I say 'no,' but I worry she’ll seek sex elsewhere.
2) I’ve just gotten together with my boyfriend and we’re going to stay with my parents for the holidays. We’re in our early 20s and don’t want to go without sex for two weeks, but I also would die if my parents heard us or guessed. Any tips for quiet, undetectable sex?
3) My new girlfriend is really into what she calls 'power games.' I have never tried anything like that but am intrigued. She knows all about it and I am guessing she will take charge, but can you give me a heads up for the type of thing I might expect?
To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelU (https://sextokpod.com/anonymous-questions)
Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com (https://www.chroniclebooks.com/) for 30% off!
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.
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Podcast Authority Score: 54 / 100
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