That Bitch is the podcast about becoming her.
Real conversations about the moments that made you who you are. The obstacles, the pivots, the choice to say I deserve better and then actually do something about it.
The full messy path to choosing your highest vision again and again.
For the woman who’s done playing small and living like she’s a big deal because she knows we are all so much more capable than we’ve been told.
That bitch didn’t happen overnight, but she was always on her way.
Psychedelics, Frequency Spankings & Your Next Level: A Deep Dive w/ Modern Medicine Woman Tam Burke
Tam Burke went from internal auditor to modern medicine woman, and the turning point was a shamanic journey she didn't even see coming. Before she ever touched a psychedelic, a waking dream cracked her reality wide open and set her on a path that would eventually help her and her husband build, scale, and sell a yoga studio for multiple six figures after generating 3.2 million dollars in revenue.
Now Tam brings her signature blend of energy work, spirituality, quantum mechanics, and neuroscience to women who want to feel happy, healed, hot, and rich, from the inside out. And today she and Kim are going all the way in.
This is the episode Kim's audience has been asking for since the DMT episode broke records. We're pulling back the curtain on what it actually looks like to use psychedelics as a strategic, intentional tool for growth, not just a spiritual experience, but a business one.
We get into:
• Tam's very first 'that bitch' moment and why it happened before she ever touched a psychedelic
• The shamanic waking dream that turned an accountant into a medicine woman
• How the DARE generation got conditioned to fear the most powerful healing tools on earth
• Why high-achieving women get 'spanked' by psychedelics and why that's actually the gift
• Set and setting: what it means, why it matters, and what happens when you get it wrong
• Kim's exact mushroom ritual at home (yes, the rainbow prism office is involved)
• The difference between a pretty trip and a transformational one
• Contraindications to know before you explore psychedelics
• Why intentionality is everything — and how to set it before you journey
• Tam's work at the first legal psychedelic retreat in the world in Jamaica
• What frequency spankings actually are — and why they work
If you've been called toward psychedelics and don't know where to start, or you've done them and want to go deeper, this episode is your permission slip and your roadmap.
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📲 Connect withTam Burke on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/tam.burke/)
Learn more about frequency spankings and Tam's work at tamburke.com (https://www.tamburke.com/)
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🔥 Tam was in Kim's Mastermind and is now inside the [Femme Power Grid (https://thefemmepowergrid.com/)] if you want to be in the room where this level of conversation happens, this is it
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30 Sept 2026
Not Owning Who You Are Is Costing You Millions
That bitch owns her shit and it's literally making her more money.
In this episode, Kim breaks down one of the most expensive habits women entrepreneurs have: refusing to fully see themselves. Not because they're not talented. Not because they don't have the receipts. But because somewhere along the way, they decided that owning their greatness was too much, too braggy, too risky.
Spoiler: that decision is costing you thousands, possibly millions, a year.
Kim pulls from a recent conversation with guest Abrielle about the "quiet standard" that doubled (then tripled) her rates practically overnight, not because she changed her skills, but because she finally saw the value she'd been sitting on. Then Kim gets real about her own experience as a Human Design Reflector, why seeing herself is her greatest challenge, and why your perceived value is the single most powerful lever in your business.
This episode is a direct line to the part of you that already knows you're the fucking shit, and just needs permission to stop hiding it.
HIGHLIGHTS
→ Why not owning who you are is quietly costing you millions
→ The Abrielle story: how seeing your own value forces the market to respond
→ Why your resume brag energy needs to show up in your business too
→ The difference between arrogance and fully owning your power
→ How your perceived value affects your messaging, pricing, offers, and opportunities
→ Why protecting other people from your greatness is actually a trauma response
→ What congruence between internal value and external positioning actually looks like
→ Kim on why her brain is worth millions — and how she knows
0:00 Intro
1:30 The real cost of not owning who you are
4:00 The Abrielle story: from assistant energy to premium pricing overnight
7:15 Why your resume brag energy should show up in your business
9:45 "It's not bragging, it just is" — owning your greatness without apology
12:00 Kim's Human Design Reflector moment: the hardest person to see is yourself
14:30 There's nothing wrong with having more greatness than the people around you
17:00 Why hiding your value is a hypervigilance, trauma-based response
19:45 Perceived value: the internal thermometer that changes everything external
22:30 Closing the skill gap vs. owning the value you already have
25:00 "Everything I touch turns to gold" — Kim on her own receipts
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23 Sept 2026
From NOLA to Texas, Canva to Creative Director: How Abrielle Laurent Built Her Legacy Brand
She left her job as an assistant principal mid-year, moved to a new city where she knew nobody, bought a house with zero income, and had two kids depending on her. And she did it anyway — on nothing but a vision.
Kim sits down with her own creative brand director, Abrielle Laurent, and they go ALL the way in. From growing up in New Orleans to climbing to the top of her education career, leaving it behind to move to Texas, teaching Canva tutorials on Instagram, and evolving into a sought-after creative director and brand strategist — Abrielle's story is a masterclass in choosing yourself before you have the evidence to back it up.
This one is for every woman who's been told her pivot doesn't make sense on paper.
We cover:
• Why Abrielle walked away from a career she'd worked years to build — mid-year, with no plan B
• What it actually felt like to move to a new city with no income, two kids, and a husband on the edge of a breakdown
• How a pandemic journal side project turned into a full business pivot
• The truth about reinventing yourself in public — and why it's harder than it looks
• How she went from Canva tutorials to becoming a creative director for top entrepreneurs
• The identity shifts required every time you level up (and how to coach yourself through them)
• What it means to build a "legacy brand" and uncover your true body of work
0:00 Intro — Meet Abrielle Laurent
2:00 What a "That Bitch" moment actually means
2:45 The decision: leaving assistant principal mid-year
3:45 Moving to Texas with no job, no income, two kids
5:30 The fear of reinventing yourself in public
6:00 No income, new home, and a husband freaking out
7:15 Why she left New Orleans — and what Texas represented
8:00 Moving before you have the evidence
8:15 How Abrielle came into Kim's mastermind
8:45 Teaching Canva on Instagram — where it all started
Also search:
How to start over in a new city as an entrepreneur
Leaving a stable career to start a business
How to reinvent yourself when you have no backup plan
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From teacher to entrepreneur success story
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