- 14
- Episodes
- Monthly
- Cadence
- 2026
- First episode
About The Anele Podcast
Inspired by the First For Woman's - Her and Now report, Anele has decided to invite some of her friends to sit down and have bold and candid conversations about their own lives covering a variety of issues that connect with many woman across the continent and South Africa.
- Publisher
- Anele Mdoda
- Category
- education · kids & family · society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- No
- First episode
- 5 May 2026
- Latest episode
- 15 Oct 2026
Latest episodes
14 episodes in the feed.
15 Oct 2026
Sibu Mabena: Apologies in advance to everyone I am going to disappoint
There are few people who can so elegantly balance success and humility, access and restraint, familiarity and boundaries. Fewer still can distil brilliant ideas into practical execution with such finesse. Sibu Mabena is one of them. At just 34, Sibu is the founder and chief creative officer of award-winning creative communications agency Duma Collective, as well as the founder of Golden Thread African Agency, which manages some of the continent’s most bankable talent. She also sits on the boards of the Effie Awards and the Creative Circle, and has been named to the Cannes Lions shortlisting jury and the Recording Academy Class of 2026. But perhaps the most remarkable thing about Sibu’s success is her determination to bring other women up with her. She started her business without capital, a payslip or assets, and quickly encountered the brick wall of traditional banking, where informal or fluctuating income can make access to finance difficult. According to Her & Now 2026/27, it’s a battle many women face, with close to 60% feeling overlooked or dismissed by financial institutions. Through Golden Thread, Sibu is creating the kind of infrastructure that other women can build on. In today’s episode, she joins internationally awarded show host Anele and brilliant broadcaster Mantsoe on a journey into her past, exploring where her remarkable ability to balance ambition, creativity and restraint comes from. Her dad was the dreamer; her mom, the practical one. From both, she learnt lessons that continue to shape her. She comes from a big, blended family, held together by love, a foundation that has served her well as she continues to navigate the present and trailblaze into the future. For Sibu, success isn’t simply about how far you can go. It’s about who you bring with you, what you build along the way, and knowing when to dream big, and when to stay grounded. The short-term Insurer of the Decade, based on the Ask Africa Orange Index Short-Term Insurance category rankings from 2017 to 2027. 1st for Women is a licensed non-life insurer and FSP. T's and C's online. 📲 Follow the Conversation First for Women Facebook: @1stforWomenSA Instagram: @1stforwomensa X: @1stforWomen Anele Mgudlwa Instagram: @zintathu (https://www.instagram.com/zintathu/) X: @Anele (https://x.com/Anele) Mantsoe Pout Instagram: @mantsoepout (https://www.instagram.com/mantsoepout) Facebook: @mantsoepout (https://www.facebook.com/mantsoepout) X: @mantsoepout (https://x.com/mantsoepout) Sibu Mabena Instagram: @sibumabena (https://www.instagram.com/sibumabena/) TikTok: @sibumabena (https://www.tiktok.com/@sibumabena) X: @sibumabena (https://x.com/sibumabena)
8 Oct 2026
Rami Chuene: The currency of kindness
Fresh out of Limpopo, Rami Chuene experienced an act of kindness that kick-started her career over 25 years ago. It came in the form of velvet shoes and a delightful little dress. A winning combination for a woman on her way to becoming one of the most-loved entertainers in South Africa. Since then, kindness has truly become her currency, but it hasn’t come without a price. Rami is known for calling out injustice in the entertainment industry, paving the way for a fairer future for the next generation of actors. Although her ‘outspokenness’ cost her dearly, she has no regrets. Paying it forward is worth every cent lost and every moment of joy gained. In this no-holds-barred episode, Rami shares the moments that have shaped her life, from the most gruelling to the most glorious. She started out on shows including Muvhango, Scandal! and Backstage before becoming Gracious "TGom" Mabuza on The Queen. TGom was killed off, and were it not for her sheer resilience, her career would have been too. Despite the hurdles Rami has faced, she remains absolutely unapologetic and is brimming with wisdom, which she generously shares with critically acclaimed show host Anele and fellow media personality Mantsoe. Anele describes Rami as the ultimate girls’ girl, who puts the sass in sassy and shows kindness with a good sprinkling of spice. Rami Chuene’s journey is a masterclass in resilience, kindness and knowing when to speak up. Press play for the stories, the sass and the lessons from a woman who refuses to let anyone dim her light. The short-term Insurer of the Decade based on the Ask Africa Orange Index Short-Term Insurance category rankings from 2017 to 2027. 1st for Women is a licensed non-life insurer and FSP. T's and C's online. 📲 Follow the Conversation First for Women Facebook: @1stforWomenSA Instagram: @1stforwomensa X: @1stforWomen Anele Mgudlwa Instagram: @zintathu X: @Anele Mantsoe Pout Instagram: @mantsoepout (https://www.instagram.com/mantsoepout) Facebook: Mantsoe Pout (https://www.facebook.com/share/18nQdi...) X: @mantsoepout (https://x.com/mantsoepout?s=11) Rami Chuene Instagram: @ramichuene X: @ramichuene TikTok: @ramichuene
1 Oct 2026
Zuraida Jardine: What it means to be BRAVE
Breathe in. And out. Hold the exhale a little longer. A single intentional breath is the starting point for the practical yet powerful BRAVE framework. Its creator, Zuraida Jardine, went from making history as the first woman to host a daytime slot on 5FM to making her mark in mental fitness. After fronting the second season of Big Brother and winning the inaugural season of Strictly Come Dancing, the then 40-year-old Zuraida left the high-flying life behind and landed firmly on the ground. She traded stilettos for sneakers and headed to university. A decade later, the girl with grit who once scraped through school now holds four degrees and is pursuing a PhD. Her research explores the impact of mindfulness on human behaviour. For Zuraida, being present isn’t a woo-woo abstraction. It’s a signal to your nervous system that you’re safe. According to the First for Women Her & Now 2026/27 Report, safety remains a critical concern for South African women. Zuraida’s research explores what sustained vigilance does to a nervous system that never gets to downregulate. Together with multi-award-winning show host Anele and critically acclaimed co-host Cindy Poluta, Zuraida describes her mid-life awakening, from witty anecdotes to profound, life-changing moments. So go ahead. Take a breath. Then watch. You may never think about bravery, or your nervous system, the same way again. Powered by First for Women: car, home, business, and pet insurance designed for women. The short-term Insurer of the Decade based on the Ask Africa Orange Index Short-Term Insurance category rankings from 2017 to 2027. 1st for Women is a licensed non-life insurer and FSP. T&Cs online. Follow the conversation First for Women Facebook: @1stforWomenSA Instagram: @1stforwomensa X: @1stforWomen Anele Mdoda Instagram: @zintathu X: @Anele Cindy Poluta Instagram: @cindy_poluta Zuraida Jardine Instagram: @zuraidajardine Facebook: Zuraida Jardine X: @ZuraidaJardine TikTok: @zuraidajardine
23 Sept 2026
Bontle Moloi: Pleasing & Pricing – What it costs to keep everyone happy
Can you pinpoint a moment in childhood that shaped your inner voice? A moment in which you decided your worth in the world? For Bontle Moloi that moment happened at 6 years old. In today’s episode this award-winning multi-disciplinary artist, choreographer and dance educator, shares how she is challenging her inner voice, to honour the woman she’s become. Together with internationally-acclaimed show host, Anele, and leading sports presenter and fellow media personality, Cindy Poluta, Bontle comfortably opens up about her life’s journey. From the strength of her marriage and the critical role of dance, to the healing power of her children and the power of vulnerability. The conversation naturally flows to the lived experience of all South African women – how are they feeling and why? In the second edition of the First for Women Her & Now Report, over 6 500 women easily answered the ‘how’ part of the question but the ‘why’ was much harder. Anele, Cindy and Bontle explore why this is, offering their own profound insights. If your inner voice needs fine-tuning or a full overhaul, and you’re keen to spend an hour with three inspiring and entertaining women, this episode does not disappoint. Powered by First for Women: car, home, business, and pet insurance designed for women The Short-term Insurer of the decade based on the Ask Africa Orange Index Short-Term Insurance category rankings from 2017 to 2027. 1st for Women is a licensed non-life insurer and FSP. T's and C's online. 📲 Follow the conversation: First for Women Facebook: @1stforWomenSA Instagram: @1stforwomensa X: @1stforWomen Anele Mgudlwa Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zintathu (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUZZTVljSFp1U3k3UzBIOGYyMzFSQmV0QmdoZnxBTl9pYzRjUWRqZjVjSVlOci10S1NINTFSejE3WHJ2anItT3gySTJia3R2eXhDeXBMQmEwOHdSNUFsQ3pKVDlEU09SZWFuZGRzdjZNem9iTHMyNFBNVWZ1bm1xdlVnMzU4UnBf&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fzintathu&v=_-Ye7EIzaMo) X: https://x.com/Anele (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUZZTVljRm54TkJPRDRXTjgxTkFDcnpuZm0zcnxBTl9pYzRkTzEtejBFRGhYRThEaDkxRk9LYkVIcjk0bHNuZ1hmNVg2Y1JwTjZ0RnlKWkptYlItN1V5VVlPTUF4TXZRbE1VVlh0X0F0TlpJNGs0OG0zcXpYRFNoVkpfQm5aZHJt&q=https%3A%2F%2Fx.com%2FAnele&v=_-Ye7EIzaMo) Cindy Poluta Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cindy_poluta/ (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUZZTVljRWt5UjRpa0FYTWx0U3pFMUhoMHRBZHxBTl9pYzRlQV9veUhaQnlyeXNIOUpyRzhQcm1KQXkxRmVjQnRvLWNrM0dNRk9NNWUzeGV4Wk9hdzNYV092UFBEWVdfaDF5aUtXOVdUNjRwM2JBUTdKNUw5SXRQUlFOdWhpU0dT&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fcindy_poluta%2F&v=_-Ye7EIzaMo) Bontle Moloi Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bontle.modi... (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUZZTVljRlpROFFONWtIQVBYSVZ6bWtIRXdNeHxBTl9pYzRlRm0yOGppc0VlSmZtN2FCeGhyeGdoa3hweXQ0X2dJSmVhVi1hT0tMY2pIbHpOYV9GSWdRVlVScWJrdnZ6N1hkdkpZWloxR29UUlE3bENqb2ctVzBMSTBKWHNSVGJh&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fbontle.modiselle%2F&v=_-Ye7EIzaMo) TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bontle_ba_afrika (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUZZTVljR3Z2NzZBUkU2ZkhiMk1xNi1mOU5jNXxBTl9pYzRjVEZCbUs0a1FVTFI3OUotQ2F3MlRfY0lPS0huQUlQWllrVHVtV2lWNFQwNW5TOFdyZlhHTWl1NnJ3b1kwamJFVXBscW1kZ19LN2pLS3BxTFlYOElrV0RHRDdaMllr&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40bontle_ba_afrika&v=_-Ye7EIzaMo) X: https://x.com/BontleModiselle (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUZZTVljSEYwSkxiM3dqaklCOWdaSFg1Z0pCQXxBTl9pYzRkeGtSc1RWOFFZaElLU0tyZno1Z1hPUGNrakFnYktENXdrbVpsVmhKMVdwTFQ3VFNNQmpUZWhwUVJGal9oM2NGTEJXOWZjdTJHVFEwTEVjdGw5Vm1FeTJzTXF5Ui1N&q=https%3A%2F%2Fx.com%2FBontleModiselle&v=_-Ye7EIzaMo) YouTube: @bontlemodisellemoloi (https://www.youtube.com/@bontlemodisellemoloi)
11 Sept 2026
Morongwe & Michelle Mokone (Mo’s Crib): Ladies, let's talk business!
You can’t outrun your passion. And if you have the innovative and entrepreneurial spirit of the Mokone Sisters, that passion can take you from small-time business to a booming global empire. But make no mistake: their road to success was neither easy nor direct. It was a bumpy ride, but one they recall with humour, grace and gratitude. Sisters Mo and Michelle Mokone share their incredible story, which started with a folded paper swan at a market stall. After a stint at international markets, a stay in Switzerland and hitting rock bottom on their return to South Africa, they hustled their way to becoming one of Africa’s largest exporters of handcrafted décor. Today, they supply global and local retailers including Crate & Barrel, CB2, Target, Woolworths Home, @Home and Mr Price Home, while employing around 300 people, the overwhelming majority of them women. Reaching these monumental milestones required one critical enabler: money. One of the key challenges the sisters faced is also a key theme in Her & Now Edition 2: A World Built for Someone Else. For the Mokone Sisters, a lack of support from formal financial institutions became apparent during their search for funding. But through research, resourcefulness and relationship-building, they secured alternative, sustainable funding — a golden takeaway for any woman looking to start or scale a business. Join internationally acclaimed show host Anele, her close friend and radio personality Mantsoe, and their two incredible guests for a power hour on strengthening your hustle muscle and pursuing your passion. Powered by First for Women Car, home, business and pet insurance designed for women. Follow the conversation First for Women Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1stforWomen (https://www.facebook.com/1stforWomen) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/1stforwomen/ (https://www.instagram.com/1stforwomen/) X: https://www.x.com/firstforwomen (https://www.x.com/firstforwomen) Anele Mgudlwa Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zintathu/ (https://www.instagram.com/zintathu/) X: https://www.x.com/anele (https://www.x.com/anele) Mantsoe Pout Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mantsoepout/ (https://www.facebook.com/mantsoepout/) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantsoepout/ (https://www.instagram.com/mantsoepout/) X: https://www.x.com/MantsoePout (https://www.x.com/MantsoePout) Mo’s Crib Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mos.crib/ (https://www.instagram.com/mos.crib/) Website: https://moscrib.co.za/ (https://moscrib.co.za/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MozCrib/ (https://www.facebook.com/MozCrib/) TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moscrib (https://www.tiktok.com/@moscrib)
3 Sept 2026
Zizo Beda - The Good Woman Trap
Anele Mgudlwa in conversation with Zizo Beda. Prepare to be invigorated by this captivating season premiere. Within moments, you’ll be welcomed into an intimate circle of friendship and be fully immersed in every laugh shared and tear shed. That’s the profound effect of today’s guest, Zizo Beda. While she is best known as beloved show host of Selimathunzi and winner of Miss Teen SA 2006, her most apt title is that of ‘present soul’. Zizo has the rare ability to make everyone in the room feel seen. Deeply spiritual and entrenched in community, this renowned broadcaster and media entrepreneur shares in vivid detail the journey of her incredible life. From the places she calls home, navigating motherhood and the loss of her own mother, to co-parenting and the power of intentionality. Together with multi-award-winning show host, Anele, and her good friend and media personality, Mantsoe, their discussion naturally weaves in key insights from the 1st for Women Her & Now Edition 2: A world built for someone else. From the good woman trap and the burden of strength that underpins it, to financial security, family responsibility and black tax. Get ready for an hour filled with effervescent energy, refreshing honesty, mike-drop moments and more. Powered by First for Women: car, home, business, and pet insurance designed for women. 📲 Follow the conversation: First for Women Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1stforWomen (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rU2RDTENUSS1fOWhIekdxMFNpTi1TenxBTl9pYzRlY1hEQ2dOTzh3eUJkdnZBT0c4NWZMQS01VWVqUWNXMXkwN2F4VUVJUTFHLVdCTEFyLThydERpSzlodldfRkFSbkM0NnZKS3l1alp2S25IczlnOXZZOTFxeFhOUlRF&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2F1stforWomen&v=jcd6ptLkRzs) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/1stforwomen/ (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rUV9UdExPc0J2ZkVzREV2LXE5dHdPbnxBTl9pYzRlOTZ6T1J4aEZYZlNXb19IRUlxOUF5WW53aEhvUFo3NzYyWVFHWUhCSXluSk1QMWdUbWQ1NTVRVW5xM0ZBUERPLS1oYTdmTDVmR3FrVEJCOV90ekJJUi0xcXNzY0Yy&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2F1stforwomen%2F&v=jcd6ptLkRzs) X: https://www.x.com/firstforwomen (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rU0RkZWFvb00zelB2dFNvYmFld0VFdXxBTl9pYzRmTC1KUEZ5Z0QxMC1TY0JwMXFoeFJOZUEzTGYtd0FCR1BaZmZ1empIdWlITERnd0lmRzEwcTdtN0p4dVdBS2ZHdWJDX1NHRHUtWWlpSG5fM2Z2ZmdkV3hBTXJYcTBv&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.x.com%2Ffirstforwomen&v=jcd6ptLkRzs) Anele Mgudlwa Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zintathu/ (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rUWY0UWlHTU9aVWJSTG1jSHJPRWVySXxBTl9pYzRmaF96QklWaTV1dlBZM0N4QUNtRXFTNldXVTV1NHk5QlZHTkVzWTdxbDRyOVRmUGFmRDN0aV93UTluY000bVkxWkJNUGVMRFRpZHZXcWpOVzBvNGI5bFM5RFRxWkZa&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fzintathu%2F&v=jcd6ptLkRzs) X: https://www.x.com/anele (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rUnljdHh5TkpfRi1TMHFVYks1TFJkMXxBTl9pYzRmOXlFTlliZFZXRV8yaFpsZngwSUxnVGJsTzZqLWE1cERueHJuNFRpVTZwel9UTFpULUI2bm9hd1dCRjk4Wm5mNEZhMGxINTF2Vi1qc2hqNlUteVRva25vOG9TQWxG&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.x.com%2Fanele&v=jcd6ptLkRzs) Mantsoe Pout Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mantsoepout/ (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rU2VuQXVrdmFaQnpseFBJTHhIbnRKSnxBTl9pYzRkeExvOUVVVzlkWk9uT0U5TlFUSUVoZWk2RVdQdFJIM1FSRy0xYW44dFlITHoyYndla1MxYVFYU1paaVlGUHlPdFJ1VkowV3FRV0hVQ2k0OEd3YmhILU1mV055Q0Et&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fmantsoepout%2F&v=jcd6ptLkRzs) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantsoepout/ (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rUlBKUXRtUUZNbUNCV25UbFAyMXZxcXxBTl9pYzRlWkhqbzJpYkFOdGJWNVNSQXZrUHlHQmFScUJrY0oxYnExdG1ZMlNfZU5oamxuQ0xHSW9oQWhTWVl2SF8tbl9FUkN6d2xVanNWek12V3I3eXF6T1J6aHRXN0R6OEZk&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fmantsoepout%2F&v=jcd6ptLkRzs) X: https://www.x.com/MantsoePout (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rU3NYNTRKb1NjMFJidHZsTUhlblp0c3xBTl9pYzRjQXdNSXBreFBiVHRLYTBOVHBpNGVhYlFJS1QtUzNkVEI3U09VeGwxNy0xdGc1aWppWTlDT0wwNDhKZXQ2ZDUzdGdfUlZxM0FfSXExY3BKekVQalNFYkxOT1plVmpM&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.x.com%2FMantsoePout&v=jcd6ptLkRzs) Zizo Beda Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zizotshwete/ (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rUUY5YXd3ZTlQTkY2QWRhbjhnWUxBa3xBTl9pYzRmOTU1VDlhaDZEVmV5UU1fd1JhX3E4V1RQU29QbllGMHlOY3ZqckhXdG5ySWZqUDA1LW00OU5VdVFKOGRfMzZ1WTRxbXYzU3FPR3RFdTVrQWZwRFpFMUJHcjl5SDlp&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fzizotshwete%2F&v=jcd6ptLkRzs) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/100051043520... (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rUVVWeUV0STZqYWJqaTZtcmRJLVQyRHxBTl9pYzRjcU1BdlFtLUt1aHlJUE93WmVMUXduWXdNX1l3NnJWRHNrUlJXdUZ2TUxNY1BBNVBlbTBUcVNFVVgxRHRHMTNsUWh1QTlSbC1rZk5KVG42MG80dDVaQlRhVmpvQ2J2&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2F100051043520610%2F&v=jcd6ptLkRzs)
25 Jun 2026
Charm vs. Competence & Other Great conversations
Welcome to the inspiration station. Hop aboard as we ride full-steam ahead in Part 2 of our fantastic finale. Today, internationally-acclaimed media personality and show host, Anele, is joined by a dynamic group of guests, for a journey filled with lively debate, insights, anecdotes, LOL moments and much more. Here’s an idea of what to expect… The beautiful, bubbly and brilliant, Pearl Thusi, is as unapologetic as they come. This Netflix star, renowned model and TV and radio presenter, is feisty, fiery and very funny. The yin to her yang is her equally incredible daughter, the diplomatic, measured, multi-talented and multi-lingual, Thando Mokoena. Their relationship goes beyond that of mother and daughter, they are the best of friends. This is a rare privilege, as Anele’s good friend and much-loved radio host, Mantsoe, points out. Relationships, love and friendship are explored further, as we welcome back Sinovuyo Mondliwa, founder of South African haircare brand Love Kinks, and internationally-acclaimed actress, Masasa Mbangeni. Anele effortlessly steers the conversation, with thought-provoking questions that inspire robust debate. Get ready for an unmissable episode, that will surprise and delight, inspire and ignite. Powered by First[LM1] (#_msocom_1) for Women: car, home, business, and pet insurance designed for women. Read the full First for Women Her & Now Report here: Welcome to First for Women Insurance | Comprehensive Coverage (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/) Powered by First for Women Insurance Learn more about car insurance made for women Car Insurance with 24/7 Safety & Dedicated Roadside Fleet | First for Women (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/car-insurance/) Home insurance made for women First for Women Foundation | Empowering Women | Supporting Communities (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/products/home-contents-insurance/) Business insurance made for women Business Insurance for Women: Tailored & Affordable (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/business-insurance/) Pet insurance made for women Pet Insurance | Purrfect Cover for Cats & Dogs | 1st for Women Insurance (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/pet-insurance/) The First for women Foundation #GenerationNone (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/foundation/) 📲 Follow the conversation: First for Women Facebook: @1stforWomenSA Instagram: @1stforwomensa X: @1stforWomen Anele Mdoda Instagram: @zintathu X: @Anele Mantsoe Pout Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantsoepout?igsh=YnR5a2thaWdudjQ0 (https://www.instagram.com/mantsoepout?igsh=YnR5a2thaWdudjQ0) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/18nQdiLHx1/?mibextid=wwXIfr (https://www.facebook.com/share/18nQdiLHx1/?mibextid=wwXIfr) X: https://x.com/mantsoepout?s=11 (https://x.com/mantsoepout?s=11) Pearl Thusi Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pearlthusi?igsh=MTVqODhxbXRoOGtjZQ== (https://www.instagram.com/pearlthusi?igsh=MTVqODhxbXRoOGtjZQ==) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1E4WdcnGtP/?mibextid=wwXIfr (https://www.facebook.com/share/1E4WdcnGtP/?mibextid=wwXIfr) Sinovuyo Mondliwa Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sinovuyomondliwa (https://www.instagram.com/sinovuyomondliwa) X: https://x.com/sinovuyo001?s=11 (https://x.com/sinovuyo001?s=11) Masasa Mbangeni Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madlomo2 (https://www.instagram.com/madlomo2) [LM1] (#_msoanchor_1)I realised I didn’t change ‘1st’ to ‘First’ in this section so have done so now.
18 Jun 2026
The Profile of Purpose: Owning Your Success
From vices to victories. From legwork to legacy. From crowning beauty to cushions of compassion. From 9 to 5 to 24/7 thrive. We explore it all in today’s fantastic finale. Setting the scene is globally-award-winning media personality and show host, Anele and fellow media star, Mantsoe. Together they welcome two of the loveliest legends: double honours professional and founder of South African haircare brand, Love Kinks, Sinovuyo Mondliwa and internationally-acclaimed actress and prolific thespian, Masasa Mbangeni. The ladies take an inspiring trip down memory lane, sharing their fascinating journeys. Sinovuyo, the accidental entrepreneur, who blew up Instagram on her quest to create a hair-loving community. Masasa, who refused to believe she’d battle to succeed, landing a leading role on Scandal, fresh out of acting college. Both have taken every opportunity in life to embrace their true purpose. Get ready for aha moments and haha moments, love, learning and legacy. It’s all coming right up. Powered by First[LM1] (#_msocom_1) for Women: car, home, business, and pet insurance designed for women. Read the full First for Women Her & Now Report here: Welcome to First for Women Insurance | Comprehensive Coverage (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/) Powered by First for Women Insurance Learn more about car insurance made for women Car Insurance with 24/7 Safety & Dedicated Roadside Fleet | First for Women (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/car-insurance/) Home insurance made for women First for Women Foundation | Empowering Women | Supporting Communities (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/products/home-contents-insurance/) Business insurance made for women Business Insurance for Women: Tailored & Affordable (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/business-insurance/) Pet insurance made for women Pet Insurance | Purrfect Cover for Cats & Dogs | 1st for Women Insurance (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/pet-insurance/) The First for women Foundation #GenerationNone (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/foundation/) 📲 Follow the conversation: First for Women Facebook: @1stforWomenSA Instagram: @1stforwomensa X: @1stforWomen Anele Mdoda Instagram: @zintathu X: @Anele Mantsoe Pout Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantsoepout?igsh=YnR5a2thaWdudjQ0 (https://www.instagram.com/mantsoepout?igsh=YnR5a2thaWdudjQ0) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/18nQdiLHx1/?mibextid=wwXIfr (https://www.facebook.com/share/18nQdiLHx1/?mibextid=wwXIfr) X: https://x.com/mantsoepout?s=11 (https://x.com/mantsoepout?s=11) Sinovuyo Mondliwa Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sinovuyomondliwa (https://www.instagram.com/sinovuyomondliwa) X: https://x.com/sinovuyo001?s=11 (https://x.com/sinovuyo001?s=11) Masasa Mbangeni Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madlomo2 (https://www.instagram.com/madlomo2)
11 Jun 2026
All the business. None of the BS.
Ladies, shut the door, set your phone to ‘do not disturb’ and put on your noise-cancelling headphones. You don’t want to miss a moment of this. Raucously funny and brutally honest, today’s episode is jam packed with truth bombs and golden nuggets as Anele sits down with two brilliant businesswomen, who are rocking their industries and the world. From calculating salaries at 12 years old, to selling clothes from her boot at varsity, to self-funding her own mega-successful empire, Amanda du-Pont is a powerhouse business mastermind. She is purpose driven and leads with grace, elegance and impact. Building the fastest-growing skincare brand out of Africa, she is research-obsessed, customer-focused and committed to diversity. Amanda is truly unapologetic, owning her success and putting naysayers in their place. Neo Nontso was creating business plans at the tender age of 5. She shares the sheer satisfaction of building her various businesses, the joy of generating her own wealth and the power of being underestimated. An internationally-awarded cookbook author, chef and beloved TV personality, Neo is driven by creativity and innovation. Stylish, sophisticated and super-talented, she is a force to be reckoned with. Anele, arguably the most iconic voice on South African radio, and a brilliant businesswoman in her own right, effortlessly guides this captivating conversation. She fires tough questions and drops truth bombs that leave even her well-articulated guests, speechless. But after an ‘eish’ here and a ‘yoh’ there, they snap back into conversation, with wit and wonderful words of wisdom. Buckle up for an unmissable episode, that will have you fired up and ready to take on the world. Powered by First for Women: car, home, business, and pet insurance designed for women. 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4 Jun 2026
Motherhood in 2026: Where’s the Guidebook?
From eyebrows and edges, to conversations and conflict. From putting on a brave face, to putting down boundaries. From taking the hard knocks to finding the soft spots. Navigating motherhood in 2026 is a constant learning experience. The tests are hard, and the lessons can be even harder. While there’s so much information out there, many women still wonder if they’re getting it right. And what does ‘right’ look like anyway? In today’s episode we explore the universal, and more personal challenges, facing moms today. Award-winning media personality, MC, and radio host, Anele, is joined by her good friend, Cindy Poluta. Cindy’s is a renowned Sports Broadcaster, MC, keynote speaker and podcaster. The two welcome Rachel Kolisi, humanitarian, business owner, author, director and speaker. While they have varied careers, and their lives have taken different paths, they have one thing in common. They are all mothers, trying to raise well-rounded children, in a world that throws constant curve balls. Today, they open up about their journeys, and the many challenges facing mothers today. From the ongoing social media debate, to untapped trauma. How to lead by example, when you don’t feel you’re setting the best one. From their own powerful revelations to strength, resilience and bouncing back. Join us for an episode that will have you nodding and laughing along. And one which will leave you saying ‘wow, I am a good mom!’. Powered by First[LM1] (#_msocom_1) for Women: car, home, business, and pet insurance designed for women. Read the full First for Women Her & Now Report here: Welcome to First for Women Insurance | Comprehensive Coverage (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/) Learn more about car insurance made for women Car Insurance with 24/7 Safety & Dedicated Roadside Fleet | First for Women (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/car-insurance/) Home insurance made for women First for Women Foundation | Empowering Women | Supporting Communities (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/products/home-contents-insurance/) Business insurance made for women Business Insurance for Women: Tailored & Affordable (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/business-insurance/) Pet insurance made for women Pet Insurance | Purrfect Cover for Cats & Dogs | 1st for Women Insurance (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/pet-insurance/) The First for women Foundation #GenerationNone (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/foundation/) First for Women is a licensed non-life insurer and FSP. Ts & Cs online. [LM1] (#_msoanchor_1)I realised I didn’t change ‘1st’ to ‘First’ in this section so have done so now.
28 May 2026
A Gentle Rebellion: Redefining Power and Success
In a hotel room in Spain, in a quiet broadcasting studio, on an international sabbatical, three women finally feel the right to exhale. The right to grieve the loss of a loved one or the loss of themselves. Because for days, months or even years, they’ve been holding it altogether. Continually pouring into others. But no one was pouring back into them. This is an experience shared on today’s episode, and one that 94% of South African women* share too. Sinenjabulo Zungu is one of them. A prominent South African business leader and CEO of AmaZulu FC, Sinenjabulo is a quiet trailblazer. With measured eloquence, she recalls the loss of her grandmother and her beloved husband. She reflects on a moment of exhalation, all the way in Spain. Similarly, globally acclaimed media personality, Anele, shares how she too finally ‘exhaled’ while on sabbatical. And Anele’s friend and renowned podcaster, Mantsoe, shares the moment she exhaled, after losing her mother. The three women effortlessly shift from loss to leadership and loved ones. Sinenjabulo shares her soft power leadership style, which comes naturally to her. She speaks endearingly about her father, and with wit and adoration about her son, Lelo. Join us for another captivating conversation, filled with feel-good moments, inspiration and insight. Read the full First for Women Her & Now Report here: Welcome to First for Women Insurance | Comprehensive Coverage (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/) Powered by 1st for Women Insurance Learn more about car insurance made for women Car Insurance with 24/7 Safety & Dedicated Roadside Fleet | First for Women (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/car-insurance/) Home insurance made for women First for Women Foundation | Empowering Women | Supporting Communities (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/products/home-contents-insurance/) Business insurance made for women Business Insurance for Women: Tailored & Affordable (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/business-insurance/) Pet insurance made for women Pet Insurance | Purrfect Cover for Cats & Dogs | 1st for Women Insurance (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/pet-insurance/) The First for women Foundation #GenerationNone (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/foundation/) First for Women is a licensed non-life insurer and FSP. Ts & Cs online.
21 May 2026
The Price of Joy: From Surviving to Thriving
Why is joy so expensive? And why does it feel so hard to come by? If you’re in this predicament, you’re not alone. 96% of South African women say joy doesn’t come easily (First for Women Here & Now Report). For most, it takes a lot of planning, effort, and even permission. And when we have the financial freedom to activate that joy, we still feel the need to explain ourselves. Today we unravel the deep-seated cultural and societal beliefs that have shaped how we perceive, receive and harness joy. Leading the conversation is multi-award-winning host, and one of South Africa’s most dynamic media personalities, Anele. She is joined by her co-host and friend of 24 years, Zimkhita, and today’s guest Tumi Morake. Tumi, South Africa’s First Lady of Comedy, is one of the country’s most sought-after comedians. She is an actress, businesswomen and writer. But beyond that, she is also a woman navigating a post-divorce journey that is both liberating and costly, on every level. She talks about ‘Tumi Time’ and the hefty price she’s paid for it. Zimkhita, a PR maverick and communications expert shares the joy she derives from spending money on herself and the ‘small little pleasures’ that make all the difference. Considering that 64% of South African women feel guilty spending money on themselves (First for Women Here & Now Report) this is quite a feat. Together the conversation naturally moves from their upbringings to their friendships, personal relationships and careers, sharing inspirational insights that reveal their own understanding and experience of joy. Stay tuned for a no-holds-barred conversation that will have you listening, learning and laughing. Powered by 1st for Women: car, home, business, and pet insurance designed for women. Read the full First for Women Her & Now Report here: Welcome to First for Women Insurance | Comprehensive Coverage (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/) Powered by First for Women Insurance Learn more about car insurance made for women Car Insurance with 24/7 Safety & Dedicated Roadside Fleet | First for Women (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/car-insurance/) Home insurance made for women First for Women Foundation | Empowering Women | Supporting Communities (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/products/home-contents-insurance/) Business insurance made for women Business Insurance for Women: Tailored & Affordable (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/business-insurance/) Pet insurance made for women Pet Insurance | Purrfect Cover for Cats & Dogs | 1st for Women Insurance (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/pet-insurance/) The First for women Foundation #GenerationNone (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/foundation/) First for Women is a licensed non-life insurer and FSP. Ts & Cs online. 📲 Follow the conversation: 1st for Women Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/1stforwomen?igsh=dmJ5ZWF6aWF5ZXVm (https://www.instagram.com/1stforwomen?igsh=dmJ5ZWF6aWF5ZXVm) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1stforWomen?mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfr (https://www.facebook.com/1stforWomen?mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfr) X: https://x.com/firstforwomen?s=11 (https://x.com/firstforwomen?s=11) Anele Mdoda: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zintathu?igsh=ZXd4dTdwODZrODRp (https://www.instagram.com/zintathu?igsh=ZXd4dTdwODZrODRp) X: https://x.com/anele?s=11 (https://x.com/anele?s=11) Tumi Morake: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tumi_morake?igsh=NGZuYXpuOTFmZG5i (https://www.instagram.com/tumi_morake?igsh=NGZuYXpuOTFmZG5i) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TumiMorakeSA?mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfr (https://www.facebook.com/TumiMorakeSA?mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfr) Zimkitha: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zimkhita_mafanya?igsh=NjJ4aG11ajA3b3o= (https://www.instagram.com/zimkhita_mafanya?igsh=NjJ4aG11ajA3b3o=) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1P9hsz9MhB/?mibextid=wwXIfr
12 May 2026
The Burden of Strength: How Control Drains Your Soul
“Beef or oxtail bouillon cube for the stew?” can you think of a more frivolous question to answer while choosing a coffin for your mother’s funeral? Today’s guest, Nozipho Tshabalala can answer that – and how this moment illuminated her relationship with control. A relationship that began at the tender age of 5. Imagine surviving a petrol bomb, being smuggled off to another family, having to change your name and appearance, and then trying to normalise your life. Nozipho did it all, without even realising the incredible feat she had achieved. But also, without realising (until that bouillon cube moment) how control had become a default response to everything. Control was the safety net she depended on for survival. In today’s episode, Nozipho shares how her formative years shaped the woman she is today and the many lessons she’s learnt along the way. As a conversation strategist, she finds herself in perfect company, with two esteemed conversationalists – Anele and Mantshoe. Together the three travel down memory lane, sharing the moments that shaped their lives. Anele will have you in stitches with her pre-school shenanigans, which led to an intoxicating sense of control. Mantshoe shares her performative nature as a child, how it led to her own desire for control – and its detrimental effect on her adult relationships. Like 67% of South African women, they’re exhausted from having to “keep it all together” all the time. Yet another insight revealed by the 1st for Women Her & Now 2025 Report. Stay tuned for a whole new perspective on control and how to harness it. You won’t want to miss this one! Read the full First for Women Her & Now Report here: Welcome to First for Women Insurance | Comprehensive Coverage (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/) Powered by First for Women Insurance Learn more about car insurance made for women Car Insurance with 24/7 Safety & Dedicated Roadside Fleet | First for Women (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/car-insurance/) Home insurance made for women First for Women Foundation | Empowering Women | Supporting Communities (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/products/home-contents-insurance/) Business insurance made for women Business Insurance for Women: Tailored & Affordable (https://www.firstforwomen.co.za/business-insurance/)
5 May 2026
Lynn Forbes (AKA's Mom) and Pilani Bubu
Lynn Forbes, widely known as AKA’s mom, joins Anele Mdoda alongside her best friend of 25 years, Pilani Bubu. Together, they open up about the profound loss of loved ones. Sharing the things left unsaid, the weight of grief, and how these experiences have reshaped their lives. The conversation also turns to independence and entrepreneurship. Unpacking the realities of being your own boss, the highs and lows that come with it, and the kind of spirit it takes to leap into the unknown and build something on your own terms.
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