If there is anything all of us can relate to its that life can be so messy and I know I have my fair share of stories to tell from toxic friendships, toxic relationships, mental health and more. Come follow me on this journey where I am going to share with you how I am trying to figure out this crazy world we live in. I am still fucking up, I am still a shit show 90% of the time but all I can say is that every day I am trying to figure it out and now I want you all to be able to do it with me and the many guests I will be inviting on this podcast.

Trying To Figure It Out
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If there is anything all of us can relate to its that life can be so messy and I know I have my fair share of stories to tell from toxic friendships, toxic relationships, mental health and more. Come follow me on this journey where I am going to share with you how I am trying to figure out this crazy world we live in. I am still fucking up, I am still a shit show 90% of the time but all I can say is that every day I am trying to figure it out and now I want you all to be able to do it with me and the many guests I will be inviting on this podcast.
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Recent Episodes

November 18, 2025
How To Survive The Holidays
The holiday season is here! Before you start freaking out about how to handle your dysfunctional family…Relax, I am here to help. As much as I love a peppermint latte or a festive throw pillow, the holidays can be really rough. This week on Trying To Figure It Out, I'm dishing out my Holiday Survival Guide to get you through these next few weeks. I share what Thanksgiving and Christmas were like in my family growing up with divorced parents, and I walk you through all the ways I've learned to cope when things start to fall apart over turkey and gravy. In this episode, you'll learn how to deal with your nosy aunt who won't stop asking you prying questions. You'll learn ways to protect your peace and set boundaries and how to make the holidays feel special even when your family doesn't look like the ones in Hallmark Christmas movies. Lastly, I spill all the details about the 25 Days of Christmas Instagrams that I'm (re)launching this year. Cozy up with your favorite holiday bevvy and enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright

November 4, 2025
Victoria Monét: Back in the Studio & Living Up To Your Past Self
Victoria Monét is on this week's episode of Trying To Figure It Out! When I started working for Victoria two summers ago, both of us realized right away that we had something special. Our work relationship turned into a real friendship and I am so happy to have her on this episode of TTFIO, revealing a side of Victoria the world hasn't seen. We reminisce on some of our wildest memories from her first headlining tour, when we spent two months living together on a tour bus. She capped off that year with seven Grammy nominations and it's been a whirlwind since then. We talk about her new music, the inspiration for her next album, and the pressure that comes with creating after achieving such success. She even spills when you can expect new music. From her mental health struggles, to how she co-parents with her daughter's dad, to her dream music collaboration, we cover it all in this episode. Enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright

October 21, 2025
Eden Malinoff: OCD, Burnout, & Taking a Break from Baked SoCal
Welcome Eden Malinoff to Trying to Figure it Out. Eden is the owner of Baked SoCal – the actual best cookies in Los Angeles. Today, we're here to talk about mental health and what led Eden to take a pause on her baking business. A few weeks ago, and for the first time, Eden shared on social media that she struggles with obsessive compulsive disorder and an eating disorder. In this episode, we dive into those struggles and discuss how OCD led Eden to start baking in the first place. Eden opens up and shares her whole story. She moved to New York City freshman year to attend NYU in the dark days of the pandemic. She dropped out to move back home with her parents, and explains from there how she ended up living in LA making the best cookies in the second biggest city in the country. CONTENT WARNING: THIS PODCAST CONTAINS CONVERSATIONS ABOUT EATING DISORDERS Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright
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