You're Doing It Wrong
Mia Schachter and Risdon Roberts
4.6from 20 ratings
- 19
- Episodes
- 20
- Ratings
- Monthly
- Cadence
- 2023
- First episode
- 143K
- YouTube views
About You're Doing It Wrong
A twink, Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry), and a whore, Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy), talk consent 2.0, beyond yes and no.
- Publisher
- Mia Schachter and Risdon Roberts
- Category
- education · society & culture · society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- Yes
- First episode
- 21 Sept 2023
- Latest episode
- 30 Sept 2026
Latest episodes
19 episodes in the feed.
30 Sept 2026
How to Do Consent (Without Sounding Like A Robot)
Personal responsibility, falling in love, and doing it all wrong.
15 Apr 2026
Power, Responsibility, and Chat GPT
Do creators online have a responsibility to generate legitimate content and vet their sources when creating content? And what happens when Chat GPT tells you exactly what you want to hear?
2 Dec 2025
Mia Interviews Risdon
Mia Interviews Risdon for their upcoming book!
12 Mar 2025
Intimacy coordinators discuss justin baldoni vs. blake lively
We share our takes as intimacy coordinators on wtf is going on with Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni.
20 Nov 2024
Kelly talks about the Left Eating Our Own
Kelly Moore reveals how Cancel Culture can lead to the downfall of social justice projects when the Left turn on each other.
24 Sept 2024
Daddy?
We talk with Mischa Byruck about men and all the worst things you've ever done.
11 Sept 2024
We got too high and had sex anyway
We talk about getting high and having sex anyway, regret, blame, and punishment.
23 May 2024
My needs don't change because of your needs
Video version on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry) with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats (https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration/hat-ydiw-1)!!! Upcoming classes (https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs). Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator (https://sharetheloadinc.com/), Intimacy Coordinator (http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/) for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster (https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1), artist, musician (http://maxsilvermakesart.com/), living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes (https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs) online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry (https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/) and you can subscribe on Substack (https://sharetheload.substack.com). Risdon Roberts (https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com) (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria (http://aspireiq.go2cloud.org/aff_c?aff_id=28057&offer_id=8051). I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema (https://erikalust.com) to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. (https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Plot driven feature lengths. (https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Soft stuff. (https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate)
19 Apr 2024
Brad Stops By
Our friend Brad stops by. He runs @nature.is.not.metal (https://www.instagram.com/nature.is.not.metal) on IG. We talk about incest, taboo, the moralization of science, and so much more. Video version on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry) with subtitles. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator (https://sharetheloadinc.com/), Intimacy Coordinator (http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/) for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster (https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1), artist, musician (http://maxsilvermakesart.com/), living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry (https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/). Risdon Roberts (https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com) (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria (http://aspireiq.go2cloud.org/aff_c?aff_id=28057&offer_id=8051). I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema (https://erikalust.com) to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. (https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Plot driven feature lengths. (https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Soft stuff. (https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate)
29 Mar 2024
The One About Incest
CW: Incest, CSA. We talk about incest, taboo, the moralization of science, and so much more. Video version on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry) with subtitles. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator (https://sharetheloadinc.com/), Intimacy Coordinator (http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/) for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster (https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1), artist, musician (http://maxsilvermakesart.com/), living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry (https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/). Risdon Roberts (https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com) (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria (http://aspireiq.go2cloud.org/aff_c?aff_id=28057&offer_id=8051). I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema (https://erikalust.com) to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. (https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Plot driven feature lengths. (https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Soft stuff. (https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate)
16 Feb 2024
Literal Violence
We talk about when your body does stuff that confuses your mind, how being allowed to change your mind also comes with having to stand by the choices you make, and literal violence. Video version on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry) with subtitles. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator (https://sharetheloadinc.com/), Intimacy Coordinator (http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/) for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster (https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1), artist, musician (http://maxsilvermakesart.com/), living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry (https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/). Risdon Roberts (https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com) (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria (http://aspireiq.go2cloud.org/aff_c?aff_id=28057&offer_id=8051). I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema (https://erikalust.com) to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. (https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Plot driven feature lengths. (https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Soft stuff. (https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate)
1 Feb 2024
People Pleasing, Regret, and Fingers in Butts
We talk about people pleasing, regret, dry fingers in butts, retroactively being upset, consent not taking place vs being violated, and members of oppressed groups thinking they can oppress others. Video version on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry) with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator (https://sharetheloadinc.com/), Intimacy Coordinator (http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/) for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster (https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1), artist, musician (http://maxsilvermakesart.com/), and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry (https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/). Risdon Roberts (https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com) (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria (http://aspireiq.go2cloud.org/aff_c?aff_id=28057&offer_id=8051). I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema (https://erikalust.com) to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. (https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Plot driven feature lengths. (https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Soft stuff. (https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate)
2 Nov 2023
When Consent Is Not the Priority
We talk about mosquito slaps, cults, facilitating makeouts, boarding school, and when consent is not the top priority. Video version on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry) with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator (https://sharetheloadinc.com/), Intimacy Coordinator (http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/) for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster (https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1), artist, musician (http://maxsilvermakesart.com/), and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry (https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/). Risdon Roberts (https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com) (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria (http://aspireiq.go2cloud.org/aff_c?aff_id=28057&offer_id=8051). I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema (https://erikalust.com) to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. (https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Plot driven feature lengths. (https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Soft stuff. (https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate)
26 Oct 2023
The Falleability of Memory
We talk about the fallibility of memory, believing women, and whether or not mia can make risdon orgasm on command. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator (https://sharetheloadinc.com/), Intimacy Coordinator (http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/) for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster (https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1), artist, musician (http://maxsilvermakesart.com/), and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry (https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/). Risdon Roberts (https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com) (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria (http://aspireiq.go2cloud.org/aff_c?aff_id=28057&offer_id=8051). I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema (https://erikalust.com) to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. (https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Plot driven feature lengths. (https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Soft stuff. (https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate)
19 Oct 2023
Mia Gets Canceled By Israel
We talk about Gigi Hadid and the Israeli government’s IG account resharing Mia’s post, surveillance, surrogate partner therapy, and cognitive dissonance. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator (https://sharetheloadinc.com/), Intimacy Coordinator (http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/) for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster (https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1), artist, musician (http://maxsilvermakesart.com/), and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry (https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/). Risdon Roberts (https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com) (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria (http://aspireiq.go2cloud.org/aff_c?aff_id=28057&offer_id=8051). I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema (https://erikalust.com) to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. (https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Plot driven feature lengths. (https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Soft stuff. (https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate)
13 Oct 2023
Be/Do, Bisexuals, and RENT
We talk about the queer be/do phenomenon, biphobia, RENT the musical, being shy, and making out. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator (https://sharetheloadinc.com/), Intimacy Coordinator (http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/) for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster (https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1), artist, musician (http://maxsilvermakesart.com/), and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry (https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/). Risdon Roberts (https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com) (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria (http://aspireiq.go2cloud.org/aff_c?aff_id=28057&offer_id=8051). I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema (https://erikalust.com) to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. (https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Plot driven feature lengths. (https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Soft stuff. (https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate)
5 Oct 2023
Capacity
Two people who are doing capacity wrong talk about capacity, dishonesty, and the veil between you and yourself. We can’t figure out wtf is wrong with our mics. We are working on it. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator (https://sharetheloadinc.com/), Intimacy Coordinator (http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/) for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster (https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1), artist, musician (http://maxsilvermakesart.com/), and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry (https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/). Risdon Roberts (https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com) (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria (http://aspireiq.go2cloud.org/aff_c?aff_id=28057&offer_id=8051). I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema (https://erikalust.com) to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. (https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Plot driven feature lengths. (https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate) Soft stuff. (https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate)
28 Sept 2023
Repentance
Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry) and Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy) talk consent 2.0, beyond yes and no. We talk about Yom Kippur, cycles of harm and repair, mercy, and our own list of murderable offenses. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator (https://sharetheloadinc.com/), Intimacy Coordinator (http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/) for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster (https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1), artist, musician (http://maxsilvermakesart.com/), and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry (https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/). Risdon Roberts (https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com) (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music.
21 Sept 2023
You're Doing It Wrong!
Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry) and Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy) talk about consent, sex, sex work, cancelation, divesting from binaries, and leftist pillow talk. We introduce ourselves, talk about how we got into this work, our approaches, and what consent means to us. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator (https://sharetheloadinc.com/), Intimacy Coordinator (http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/) for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster (https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1), artist, musician (http://maxsilvermakesart.com/), and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry (https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/). Risdon Roberts (https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com) (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music. Check out their ceramics (https://maxsilvermakesart.com/hold-water-ceramics-1) and music (https://songwhip.com/maxsilver/costumesps://songwhip.com/maxsilver/costumes)!
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- YouTube views
- 143,168
- Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
- Apple Podcasts (US)
- 4.3 / 5
- 12 ratings
- Spotify
- 5.0 / 5
- 8 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 32 / 100
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- Quality
- 1
- Social presence
- 0
- YouTube
- 82
- Engagement
- 75
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