You Still Belong

About You Still Belong

I’m a pastor taking responsibility for what we got wrong. If you walked away feeling heart-sick or crazy, this is your proof that you weren't wrong to leave. You Still Belong is a podcast for the survivors of church hurt, spiritual gaslighting, and the "visceral glitch" of modern religion. Hosted by Dr. Nathan McWherter, this show is a safe harbor for those who are done with the institution but still hungry for Jesus. We explore the intersection of neuroscience, theology, and spiritual recovery. From the biology of disgust to the "boxes of belonging" that create others instead of co

Publisher

Dr. Nathan McWherter

Category

religion & spirituality

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

4 Mar 2026

Latest episode

18 May 2026

Latest episodes

13 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   18 May 2026

   The Season Finale: From Disgust to Delight

   "You are delightful." In the Season 1 finale of You Still Belong, Nathan McWherter tackles the ultimate remedy for the "rot" of disgust: curiosity and the image of God. We explore how the church has often traded its mission for tribalism, and why the path back to Jesus requires us to stop being victims and start being "detectives of beauty." Nathan shares the story of a life changing retreat where he had to face his own self-disgust (the stake in his chest) and learn to hear God’s true name for him. If you have ever felt like a "contaminant" or an "enemy" in religious spaces, this episode is your invitation to walk in the garden with God again. In This Episode:(0:00) The Final Episode: Dealing with the sickness in the body(2:55) Victim vs. Victor: Choosing to step back with intention(7:27) The Skunk & The Blackjack Gum: Why disgust feels so real(10:43) The Detective: Looking for the image of God in others(12:03) The Stake: Nathan’s battle with self-hatred(15:47) Delightful: Believing what God says about you(18:45) Looking Ahead: Season 2 and the "You Still Belong" book Live Q&A & Resources:We want to hear from you! We are preparing a special Live Q&A episode to answer your hardest questions. Submit questions at: www.nathanmcwherter.com (https://www.nathanmcwherter.com) Download free guides on forgiveness and identity at the website. Support the Show:Please rate and review the podcast on Spotify. It is the best way to help other "misfits" find this community. Season 2 is coming soon, but for now, remember: You are loved, you are seen, and you still belong.Terr

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   11 May 2026

   Episode 11 | Sweet Sorrow: The Grief of Leaving and the Power of Boundaries

   What do you do when the church you grew up in is no longer a safe place? In this episode, Nathan McWherter explores the heartbreak of being ostracized and the specific pain of watching friends choose the "tribe" over the relationship. We discuss how to reach out to those who have been pushed out, how to love difficult people from a distance, and why trading one "against" tribe for another only leads to more harm. This episode is a call to move past disgust and back toward a kingdom focused on grace and truth. In This Episode:(0:00) Sweet Sorrow: The reality of church displacement(2:38) To the Sideline People: Why your presence matters(4:58) Reaching Out: How to be a safe place for the ostracized(9:23) A Room Divided: A story of honesty and humanity(11:11) Forgiveness vs. Reconciliation: Letting go for your own freedom(13:01) Boundaries: Loving people from afar(18:21) Identity and Sexuality: Why "Hate the sin, love the sinner" often fails(22:54) The Misfits: Finding authenticity in unexpected places(29:07) Love and Truth: Ending the false dichotomy Articles & Resources:Download free guides on forgiveness and processing church hurt at www.nathanmcwherter.com (https://www.nathanmcwherter.com). Support the Show:Please follow and rate the podcast to help us share this message. We are heading into our Season 1 finale soon, and we want you to be part of the Live Q&A!

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   4 May 2026

   Episode 10 | Green Flags and Lobby Exits: How To Find a Safe Church

   How do you move forward when the place that was supposed to be a sanctuary became a source of pain? In this episode, Nathan McWherter provides a roadmap for reintegrating into community without sacrificing your safety. We discuss the "vulnerability tax," the power of curiosity, and why "us versus them" language is a major red flag for anyone seeking healing. Whether you are ready to walk into a church this Sunday or you need another six months to grieve, this episode will equip you with the tools to listen to your body and set healthy boundaries. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS The Church Audit: Detecting "bounded set" thinking through online messages. Green Flags: Why curiosity is the ultimate sign of a healthy leader. Cognitive Dissonance: The neurological struggle between your past wounds and your future hope. Practical Boundaries: The "Slow Walk" and the "Lobby Exit" strategies. VISIT THE BLOGRead more about these concepts and sign up for the newsletter at http://www.nathanmcwherter.com (http://www.nathanmcwherter.com). You can find resources on forgiveness, processing church hurt, and understanding the "disgust" response. SUPPORT THE MISSIONIf this podcast is helping you find your way back to Jesus, please follow the show and share this episode with a friend. We heal in community, and you still belong. Since Spotify now supports clickable timestamps in the show notes (similar to YouTube), here is the breakdown for your Spotify description. I have formatted these to be clean and clickable so your listeners can jump straight to the specific "Audit" tools you discussed. In This Episode: (0:00) Come What Come May: Facing the future after hurt(1:06) Setting Non-Negotiables: What must be true for you to stay?(2:30) Auditing the Church: Listening for "Us vs. Them" language(4:45) The Curiosity Test: How healthy leaders handle dissent(6:47) Behave: Lessons from Sapolsky and Steve Cuss(8:20) Rigid vs. Fluid Communicators: Identifying the law and the heart(10:50) Cognitive Dissonance: Staying open when your body is triggered(12:55) The Choice: Will you become curious or willfully ignorant?(18:51) Practical Tips: The "Slow Walk" back into community(23:45) The Lobby Exit: Why you have full permission to leave(25:47) The Vulnerability Tax: Protecting your story until you find trust

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   27 Apr 2026

   Episode 9 | The Past is Prologue: Why Your Body Rejects the Church

   "The past is prologue." For many of us, the trauma of our past isn't just a memory; it is a physical reality that shows up in our nervous systems every time we try to engage with faith. In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of disgust. We explore how the church often mislabels a biological "disgust response" as "spiritual discernment," leading to the shunning and rejection of people who need community the most. Whether you have been pushed out, shamed, or simply felt the "tightness in your chest" when walking into a religious space, this episode is a roadmap for understanding your body and reclaiming your belonging. KEY TAKEAWAYS Feeling vs. Thinking: Why our bodies react faster than our brains. The Wounded Healer: Using your own recovery to care for others. Responsibility vs. Fault: Why choosing to heal is not the same as taking the blame. The Restoration of Peter: How Jesus meets us on the shore after we have failed. ARTICLES & NEWSLETTERSGo beyond the audio. Head over to http://www.nathanmcwherter.com (http://www.nathanmcwherter.com) to sign up for my newsletter and read new articles on healing, community, and faith after the church screwed it up. SUPPORT THE SHOWIf you found value in today’s conversation, please follow the podcast and leave a rating. Your support helps us reach the "one sheep" who feels far away. SHARE THE HOPEKnow someone who could use this hope? Share this episode with a friend today. Remember: You Still Belong. 🎙️ Spotify Description (Copy/Paste)

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   20 Apr 2026

   Episode 8 | Why Your Brain Makes You Hate Yourself (The Truth) 🧠📉

   𝗟𝗔𝗗𝗬 𝗠𝗔𝗖𝗕𝗘𝗧𝗛 𝗜𝗡 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗖𝗛𝗨𝗥𝗖𝗛: 𝗧𝗛𝗘 "𝗢𝗨𝗧, 𝗗𝗔𝗠𝗡 𝗦𝗣𝗢𝗧" 𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗔𝗟𝗜𝗧𝗬! 🧼🚿 𝗦𝗨𝗕𝗦𝗖𝗥𝗜𝗕𝗘 𝗜𝗙 𝗬𝗢𝗨'𝗩𝗘 𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥 𝗙𝗘𝗟𝗧 𝗟𝗜𝗞𝗘 𝗔 𝗖𝗛𝗨𝗥𝗖𝗛 𝗢𝗨𝗧𝗖𝗔𝗦𝗧! 🤝✨ 🔥 𝗝𝗢𝗜𝗡 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗕𝗢𝗢𝗞 𝗪𝗔𝗜𝗧𝗟𝗜𝗦𝗧: http://www.nathanmcwherter.com (http://www.nathanmcwherter.com) ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝘂𝗿𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 "𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗲" 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗯𝗲 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆. 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗜𝗦 𝗔 𝗟𝗜𝗘. ❌ 𝗜𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲, 𝗜’𝗺 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗺𝗼𝗱𝗲𝗿𝗻 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗟𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝗠𝗮𝗰𝗯𝗲𝘁𝗵—𝘁𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝘄𝗮𝘀𝗵 𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆 "𝘀𝗽𝗼𝘁𝘀" 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗟 𝗣𝗘𝗢𝗣𝗟𝗘. 𝗪𝗲’𝗿𝗲 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗶𝗼𝗹𝗼𝗴𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗴𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗰𝗵𝘂𝗿𝗰𝗵𝗲𝘀 𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗵𝘆 𝗝𝗲𝘀𝘂𝘀 𝗡𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥 𝗿𝗲𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗯𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗮𝘀 𝗮 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗾𝘂𝗶𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴. 🚀 𝗙𝗢𝗟𝗟𝗢𝗪 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗝𝗢𝗨𝗥𝗡𝗘𝗬:📸 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗮𝗺: https://www.instagram.com/nathan.mcwherter/ (https://www.instagram.com/nathan.mcwherter/)📱 𝗧𝗶𝗸𝗧𝗼𝗸: https://www.tiktok.com/@nathan.mcwherter (https://www.tiktok.com/@nathan.mcwherter)👥 𝗙𝗮𝗰𝗲𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸: https://www.facebook.com/Nathan.McWherter (https://www.facebook.com/Nathan.McWherter) 🕒 𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗘𝗦𝗧𝗔𝗠𝗣𝗦:𝟬𝟭:𝟮𝟰 – 𝗪𝗲𝗹𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆: 𝗙𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗮 𝘀𝗵𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝗵𝗼𝗽𝗲 🕯️𝟬𝟯:𝟰𝟲 – 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗶𝗼𝗻: 𝗥𝘂𝗹𝗲𝘀 𝘃𝘀. 𝗠𝗲𝗿𝗰𝘆 ⚖️𝟭𝟱:𝟱𝟳 – 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗥𝗶𝘀𝗸 𝗼𝗳 𝗙𝗮𝗶𝘁𝗵: 𝗧𝗼𝘂𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗴𝗮𝗿𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗝𝗲𝘀𝘂𝘀 🧥𝟮𝟭:𝟮𝟱 – 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝗼𝗳 "𝗗𝗮𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗲𝗿": 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 ❤️𝟮𝟮:𝟮𝟰 – 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗥𝗘𝗤𝗨𝗜𝗦𝗜𝗧𝗘 𝗟𝗜𝗘: 𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗼𝗯𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗶𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴 🚫 ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗦𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗕𝗲𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗴 is a podcast for survivors of church hurt, gaslighting, and spiritual manipulation. Hosted by Dr. Nathan McWherter, we explore the intersection of 𝗻𝗲𝘂𝗿𝗼𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲, 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗼𝗹𝗼𝗴𝘆, and radical recovery. 𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗶𝘁𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝘂𝗻𝗴𝗿𝘆 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗝𝗲𝘀𝘂𝘀, 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗔𝗥𝗘 𝗜𝗡 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗥𝗜𝗚𝗛𝗧 𝗣𝗟𝗔𝗖𝗘. 🤝✨ #ChurchHurt #Deconstruction #Jesus #Neuroscience #SpiritualAbuse #YouStillBelong

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   14 Apr 2026

   Episode 7 | A Plague on Both Your Houses: Why the Church Traded Mercy for Disgust

   What if the feeling in your gut isn't righteous anger but a biological trap? Pastor Nathan McWherter explores how politics and the church have co-opted our primal disgust mechanism to turn brothers and sisters into contaminants and why the Jesus Way is the only path out of the tribalism destroying our souls. Episode Description We live in a world of star-crossed families. Just like Romeo and Juliet, our modern tribes (left and right, conservative and liberal) are locked in a tragedy where everyone loses simply because we have been taught to hate the other side. In this episode of You Still Belong, Nathan McWherter pulls back the curtain on the "disgust mechanism": a biological response designed to keep us from eating poison, which is now being used to make us see other humans as poisonous. Inside this episode: [02:02] The Spiritual Refugee: Why the "one" didn't wander off. They were forced out by the other 99. [03:38] Weaponized Disgust: How both ends of the political spectrum use biological triggers to gain power and rally their bases. [12:50] The 2020 Breaking Point: Reflecting on the moment churches chose "issues" over the hearts of the people sitting in the pews. [21:13] The Prison Visit Test: Why loving the "least of these" includes the people we find morally or politically reprehensible. [25:18] A Better Way, Not a Third Way: Why the Kingdom of God isn't a point on a political spectrum, but a different plane of existence entirely. Whether you have been pushed out of the church or you are currently inside feeling the "bite of the sheep," this episode is a call to take a breath, acknowledge the gaps in our understanding, and return to a faith that refuses to make enemies of humans.

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   6 Apr 2026

   Episode 6 | The Rise of the Spiritual Refugee

   Betrayal is one of the most displacing experiences a human can have. When that betrayal comes from a pastor, a small group leader, or a mentor, it does more than hurt. It strands you. It turns you into what I call a Spiritual Refugee. Inside This Episode In this episode, we stop critiquing the system for a moment. We look at the personal wreckage left behind when a leader’s light goes out in their eyes. We discuss the playground behavior of shunning, the difference between numbness and bitterness, and why being seen is the only way to find your footing again. If you have been ghosted by your community or treated like a contaminant, listen to this: You are not crazy. You are not falling away. You still belong. 00:13 | The "Et Tu" Moment: When betrayal hits home 02:38 | Why I am talking to the Spiritual Refugees 03:36 | The hard truth about reconciliation 05:29 | When the light goes out: Identifying the shift in a leader 06:50 | The Refugee Experience: Finding your identity outside the walls 08:46 | A story of a mentor: The power of being seen 10:54 | Shunning: How the church mimics the playground 12:22 | A way back to the Bride of Christ I am writing a book about finding Jesus after the church failed us. Join the waitlist for early chapters, resources, and community updates: www.nathanmcwherter.com (www.nathanmcwherter.com) Connect with Nathan Leave a comment below. I commit to answering every single one. Submit questions for our upcoming Live Q&A Share this with a refugee who needs to hear they are not alone.

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   30 Mar 2026

   Episode 5 | Gospel Betrayal

   In this episode of You Still Belong, Dr. Nathan McWherter pulls back the curtain on the "Rotten State of the Church," specifically regarding the treatment of the LGBTQ+ community. This isn't just a discussion on theology; it’s a deep dive into the Biology of Disgust. Why does the church treat certain sins as "unnatural" while overlooking others? Why do we treat humans made in the Imago Dei (the Image of God) as "contaminants"? We explore the "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" in marriage and how that same contempt is divorcing the church from the very people Jesus would be eating dinner with. I am writing a book on how the church weaponized disgust and how we find our way back to Jesus. Sign up for updates from www.nathanmcwherter.com (www.nathanmcwherter.com) TIMESTAMPS: (00:16) Shakespeare, Rejection, and the "Father" of Exile (01:33) The LGBTQ+ Issue: Why they are leaving in droves (05:37) Biological Hijack: The neurons of moral revulsion (08:48) The "Four Horsemen": Contempt in the sanctuary (12:24) The Spectrum of Sin: Why we treat sexuality differently (14:08) Imago Dei: You are a Masterpiece, not a Rat (19:55) Reconciliation vs. Justice: Making it right (23:19) A Pastor's job: Returning to the people Jesus loved #ChurchHurt #Deconstruction #LGBTQChristian #Neuroscience #Theology #YouStillBelong #ImagoDei

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   23 Mar 2026

   Episode 4 | Purity Culture vs. the Invitation to Belong

   The church often acts like you have to be "pure" before you can be part of the family. That is a lie. I am looking at the "Out, darn spot" mentality that treats people as contaminants and why Jesus never required obedience as a prerequisite for belonging. Episode Summary The tragedy of the modern church is that we have become like Lady Macbeth, trying to wash away "spots" that are actually people. We have used purity culture and a biological compulsion for disgust to create a religion that pushes away anyone who might contaminate the system. This is not the gospel: it is a set of rules used to decide who belongs and who does not. In this episode, I walk through the stories of people who were considered the ultimate contaminants. I look at Levi the tax collector, a man rejected by his own community, and a woman who was isolated for 12 years because of a physical ailment. Jesus did not wait for them to clean up their lives or follow the rules before moving toward them: He offered them belonging first. If you have been treated like a liability or a "spot" to be removed, I want to offer an apology for the church's failure. You are a person to be loved, not a contaminant to be managed. Key Highlights (01:24) Welcome to the Journey: A message for those who have been driven out but still have a little bit of hope. (03:46) The Definition of Religion: How rules and standards are used to replace the mercy and grace of God. (15:57) The Risk of Faith: How a woman with a hemorrhage pushed through a dangerous crowd just to touch the garment of Jesus. (21:25) The Power of "Daughter": Why Jesus' words of restoration were more important than the physical healing itself. (22:24) The Prerequisite Lie: Why demanding obedience before belonging is religion, not a relationship with Jesus. If you walked away from the church feeling heart sick, gaslit, or told that you were the problem, this is your safe harbor. This is also your proof that you were not wrong to leave. You Still Belong is a podcast for survivors of church hurt, spiritual manipulation, and the visceral glitch of modern religion. Dr. Nathan McWherter explores the intersection of neuroscience, theology, and radical spiritual recovery. As a pastor, he is taking responsibility for what the institution got wrong. If you are finished with the institution but still hungry for the Person of Jesus, you are in the right place. I am writing a book on finding Jesus after the church failed. Like, Subscribe, Share. Join the waitlist for early chapters and updates: www.nathanmcwherter.com (http://www.nathanmcwherter.com/)

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    16 Mar 2026

    Episode 3: Why Jesus is Better Than the Religion That Hurt You

    The church often acts like you have to be "safe" before you can be loved. That is a lie. I am looking at the radical way Jesus treats the people the institution calls contaminants and why you don't have to change to belong. Episode Summary The greatest tragedy in the modern church is that we have made belonging conditional on performance. We have created a system where you are only welcome if you don't make the community feel uncomfortable. This isn't the gospel; it is just a set of rules to keep people in line. In this episode, I walk through the story of a man who was a literal death sentence to anyone who touched him. He was a leper, forced by religious law to scream "unclean" so people could run away from him. But Jesus didn't run. He didn't wait for the man to get better before reaching out. He touched the rot. If you have been treated like a liability or told you are too "messy" for the body of Christ, I want to offer an apology for the church's failure. You aren't a project to be altered. You are a person to be loved. Key Highlights: (01:34) The Trap: Why the church demands change as a prerequisite for belonging. (04:17) The Unclean: What it feels like to be labeled a "liability" in a religious space. (08:32) Breaking the Rules: Why Jesus touching the man with leprosy changed everything. (11:15) The Apology: My ask for forgiveness on behalf of the leaders who pushed you away. About the Show: You Still Belong If you walked away from the church feeling heart sick, gaslit, or told that you were the problem, this is your safe harbor. This is also your proof that you were not wrong to leave. You Still Belong is a podcast for survivors of church hurt, spiritual manipulation, and the visceral glitch of modern religion. I explore the intersection of neuroscience, theology, and radical spiritual recovery. As a pastor, I am taking responsibility for what the institution got wrong. If you are finished with the institution but still hungry for the Person of Jesus, you are in the right place. Join the Journey I am writing a book on finding Jesus after the church failed. Join the waitlist for early chapters and updates:www.nathanmcwherter.com (https://www.nathanmcwherter.com)

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    16 Mar 2026

    Episode 2: There’s Something Rotten in the Church (And why we can’t ignore the smell)

    Have you sensed it? Not a rotten smell from some far off place, but a "wake of destruction" closer to home. You were never a contaminant. You Still Belong. Religious institutions often become the very thing Jesus warned us about. I identify the "visceral glitch" (that physical knot in your stomach when you notice something is wrong but are told you are the problem). I share a story from college that changed how I see ministry. I break down the biology of contempt and the ways the church weaponizes disgust to maintain power. If you have felt disconnected or rejected, you aren't "falling away." You are finding a way back to the body of Jesus Christ. Key Highlights: (02:09) The Dairy Queen Story: Understanding the biological root of disgust. (04:04) Weaponized Contempt: How the church dresses up rejection as "holiness." (07:15) The Board Room Story: When a young man became a "contaminant." (12:02) The Solution: Moving from disgust to curiosity. About the Show: You Still Belong If you walked away from the church feeling heart sick, gaslit, or told that you were the problem, this is your safe harbor. This is also your proof that you were not wrong to leave. You Still Belong is a podcast for survivors of church hurt, spiritual manipulation, and the visceral glitch of modern religion. I explore the intersection of neuroscience, theology, and radical spiritual recovery. As a pastor, I am taking responsibility for what the institution got wrong. If you are finished with the institution but still hungry for the Person of Jesus, you are in the right place. I am writing a book on finding Jesus after the church failed. Join the waitlist for early chapters and updates:www.nathanmcwherter.com (https://www.nathanmcwherter.com) Join the Journey

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    16 Mar 2026

    Episode 1: You Aren’t Crazy: A Pastor Explains the "Madness" of Church Hurt

    There is a specific kind of madness that comes when you go to church and see the people supposed to represent God act like the very people Jesus warned us about. If you have been treated like you are crazy for noticing it, I want you to know: you are not crazy. I am a pastor, and I am taking responsibility for what we got wrong. For years, I have watched the church utilize a primal, biological thing to gain power and security. It is a feeling in your stomach that I call the visceral glitch. You might have felt it in the cold shoulders or the subtle rejections that made you feel like you didn't belong. In this first episode, I go back to a moment at college where I watched a room full of people turn a human being into something "less than" using the mechanism of disgust. We are diving into why your body reacts to spiritual gaslighting the same way it reacts to the smell of a trash can in the August heat. This is for the wounded, the disappeared, and the heart-sick. You are not "falling away." You are finding a way back. Key Highlights: (05:06) The Ohio State Story: When a human being became an "other." (10:32) The Biology of Contempt: Why your gut knows the system is broken before your head does. (13:51) Adam, Eve, and Nakedness: What we actually lost in the Garden. (22:30) The "Vomit" Response: Why you can't just "think" your way out of church hurt. About the Show: You Still Belong If you walked away from the church feeling heart sick, gaslit, or told that you were the problem, this is your safe harbor. This is also your proof that you were not wrong to leave. You Still Belong is a podcast for survivors of church hurt, spiritual manipulation, and the visceral glitch of modern religion. I explore the intersection of neuroscience, theology, and radical spiritual recovery. As a pastor, I am taking responsibility for what the institution got wrong. If you are finished with the institution but still hungry for the Person of Jesus, you are in the right place. I am writing a book on finding Jesus after the church failed. Join the waitlist for early chapters and updates:www.nathanmcwherter.com (https://www.nathanmcwherter.com) Join the Journey

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    4 Mar 2026

    Coming Soon: You Still Belong

    You belong here. Even if you’re still figuring out where "here" is. In this trailer, you’ll hear a lot of heart, a little bit of a sneak peek into our first episode, and a lot of me trying to remember how to breathe like a normal human being. You Still Belong is a space for the seekers, the outliers, and everyone in between. Ready to find your seat at the table? Subscribe on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Follow for weekly episodes starting March 16th Watch on Youtube subscribe like...you know all the things. Freebies soon available at www.nathanmcwherter.com (www.nathanmcwherter.com) At the end of the 12 episodes we will have a live Q&A submit questions ahead of time!

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