All Aboard ADHD

About All Aboard ADHD

All Aboard ADHD is the podcast that helps parents and caregivers navigate the ADHD journey. Whether you're right at the beginning asking, “What now?” or further along the path wondering, “What next?” - All Aboard ADHD is here for you. Each episode brings expert insights, inspiring special guest stories, and real-life experiences from parents whose children have ADHD - helping you feel informed, empowered, and less alone. If you're supporting a child with ADHD, have ADHD yourself, or simply want to understand more about the incredible ADHD brain, join us on this journey of discovery.

Publisher

Claire Quigley Ward

Category

kids & family

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

22 Feb 2024

Latest episode

16 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

72 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   16 Oct 2026

   Girls, Puberty & ADHD

   Why does ADHD so often stay hidden in girls until puberty, and how can parents tell whether it’s “just hormones” or something more? Why does ADHD so often go unrecognised in girls until adolescence, why can puberty make previously manageable difficulties harder to navigate, and how can parents tell whether it’s “just hormones” or something more? In the first two-guest episode of All Aboard ADHD, Claire is joined by Dr Sally Cubbin, Consultant Psychiatrist and Founding Member of the UK Adult ADHD Network, alongside Gillian Johnson Shakespeare, Author, Illustrator and ADHD Coach, co-authors of the newly published Women and ADHD book. Together they explore how adolescence shapes girls’ sense of identity, their friendships, their changing bodies and the expectations they absorb about who they’re supposed to be. They discuss: 🔍 Why girls get missed: a picture built around boys, and the MOPP cluster of masking, overcompensating, perfectionism and people-pleasing As Sally puts it, “the absence of an obvious problem or an obvious difference doesn’t mean there’s an absence of ADHD.” 🌊 What puberty changes: oestrogen and dopamine, irregular cycles, disrupted sleep and developing at a different pace from friends 🏠 Fine at school, falling apart at home: why girls can appear to be coping at school but fall apart as soon as they get home 🎭 The cost of masking: how years of trying to fit in can affect identity and self-esteem leaving you feeling “invisible to oneself” 👭 Friendships, fitting in and rejection sensitivity: why finding friends you can be yourself with matters so much ⚠️ Shame and hidden risks: internalised criticism, greater vulnerability around boundaries, alcohol and disordered eating, and why assessments must consider the whole person. 💡 Diagnosis as a turning point: relief, sometimes grief, and finally an explanation. 🤝 How parents can help: keep scaffolding, swap “why isn’t the homework done” for curiosity, choose your moments to talk (such as long car journeys), co-regulate, and permission to “cope ugly”. Puberty can be a challenging time for any girl, but for girls with ADHD, it can bring additional difficulties that aren't always easy to recognise or understand. This conversation explores what parents can look out for, and how we can better support our daughters through these important years, with curiosity rather than judgement. Further resources & links Women and ADHD by Dr Sally Cubbin & Gillian Johnson Shakespeare: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Women-ADHD-Puberty-Menopause-Beyond/dp/147214982 (https://www.amazon.co.uk/Women-ADHD-Puberty-Menopause-Beyond/dp/147214982) Dr Sally Cubbin: https://adhdclinic.co.uk/dr-sally-cubbin/ (https://adhdclinic.co.uk/dr-sally-cubbin/) Gillian Johnson Shakespeare: https://adhdclinic.co.uk/coaching-and-books/gillianshakespeare/ (https://adhdclinic.co.uk/coaching-and-books/gillianshakespeare/) ADHD Coaching and Resources from Claire: https://allaboardadhd.com (https://allaboardadhd.com) Follow Claire on Instagram & TikTok: @allaboardADHD The views shared in this episode are those of the guest, based on their professional expertise and personal experience. This content is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical, educational, or psychological advice. Please consult a qualified professional for personalised support relevant to your individual circumstances.

2. 

   2 Oct 2026

   Laura Mears-Reynolds - My ADHD Story

   How does growing up with undiagnosed ADHD shape your life and what happens when you finally get answers? In this episode of All Aboard ADHD, Claire is joined by Laura Mears-Reynolds, diagnosed with ADHD at 38, host of the ADHD AF podcast and founder of the ADHD AF Plus charity. Laura tells her story of shame, burnout and survival, sharing how her fierce sense of justice led her to build a grassroots movement providing real-life peer support for adults with ADHD across the UK. 🧶 The penny-drop moment: how a friend's diagnosis shattered the “naughty little boys” stereotype, prompting Laura to recognise her own ADHD traits and realise: “If you’ve got it, I’ve definitely got it”. 🔥 From chaos to “dumpster fire”: perimenopause, three-year waiting lists, escalating crises and the devastating point where Laura felt “I was done”. 💊 Diagnosis and the day after: being told she had “severe combined” ADHD and waking up the following morning with a glimmer of hope, realising, “I don’t have to hate myself today”. 👧 Childhood through an ADHD lens: constant anxiety, rejection sensitivity (RSD), insomnia and being labelled “disrespectful” for leaving GCSE coursework until the last minute, despite agonising over it all night. 🎭 Girls, masking and minimising: how gender expectations, people-pleasing and trying not to be “a nuisance” can contribute to ADHD going unrecognised in girls and women. ⚖️ Justice sensitivity and ADHD: why Laura challenges the idea that ADHD is a “superpower”, exploring how her fierce need for justice has both challenged her, and fuelled her advocacy for others. 🐆 Building ADHD AF and the Leopard Print Army: from responding to podcast DMs at 4am to creating a community through body doubling, national meet-ups and the ADHD AF Plus charity, which now provides over 17 free peer support groups across the UK. As Laura puts it, “It’s about us, by us, for us”. Laura's honesty about the challenges of living with undiagnosed ADHD, the impact of shame and the power of finding community, provides a conversation about reframing how we understand ourselves, finding hope and recognising that we don't have to navigate the ADHD journey alone. If you’ve ever felt “too much” or like you’re failing at “adulting”, this episode will help you see yourself, and your children, through a more compassionate lens. Further resources & links: ADHD AF Community Information: https://www.adhdafplus.org.uk/peersupport (https://www.adhdafplus.org.uk/peersupport) Sponsor Laura’s Skydive on 3rd October 2026: https://givestar.io/gs/skydiving-13000-ft-for-adhdaf-adhdadultuk (https://givestar.io/gs/skydiving-13000-ft-for-adhdaf-adhdadultuk) ADHD AF Plus Charity and Local Peer Support Groups: https://adhdafplus.org.uk (https://adhdafplus.org.uk) ADHD AF Day - paint the internet leopard print 🐆each year on 23 October for #ADHDAFDay:  https://www.adhdafplus.org.uk/roar (https://www.adhdafplus.org.uk/roar) Follow Laura on Instagram: @lauraisadhdaf / @adhdafpodcast / @adhdafplus All Aboard ADHD Coaching and Resources from Claire: https://allaboardadhd.com (https://allaboardadhd.com/) Follow Claire on Instagram & TikTok: @allaboardADHD The views shared in this episode are those of the guest, based on their professional expertise and personal experience. This content is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical, educational, or psychological advice. Please consult a qualified professional for personalised support relevant to your individual circumstances.

3. 

   18 Sept 2026

   ADHD & Sleep

   How can parents and caregivers better understand and support the biological sleep needs of children and teens who have ADHD, without panic, shame, or setting impossible “perfect sleep” standards? In this episode of All Aboard ADHD, Claire is joined by UKCP-accredited psychotherapist Heather Darwall-Smith, an ADHD sleep specialist and author of The ADHD Sleep Book, to unpack why sleep is so hard for ADHD brains, what’s really going on with circadian rhythms, the role of melatonin, and how families can work with biology instead of fighting it. Together they discuss: 🧬 Why ADHD sleep is different: biological vs behavioural, the impact of delayed body clocks, and why up to 75% of people with ADHD struggle when it comes to sleep. ⏰ Circadian clocks, chronotypes and teens: understanding delayed sleep phase, why we're more likely to be night owls, how adolescence shifts sleep even later, and why it's so hard to get up 🌞 Starting the day with light: the power of consistent wake-ups and morning light helps reset ADHD body clocks and becomes “free medicine” for ADHD sleep 🥱 Understanding melatonin: our natural hormone production, what it really does, and why prescriptions matter for safe use when supplemented 🧠 Why switching off is so hard: transitions, the fear of going to bed, racing brains at bedtime, and the value of externalised support 💊 Stimulant medication and sleep: the importance of using timing, hydration, and food to benefit from symptom management ADHD medication brings without ruining your sleep 😮💨 The impact on parents: chronic exhaustion, the power of family “summits”, plus why understanding ADHD sleep can help take the blame or shame out of bedtime and getting up in the morning If bedtime is a battleground, mornings often bring meltdowns, and you’re wondering what’s as a result of having ADHD, versus a genuine sleep problem, this episode offers science-based reassurance, practical tools, and a deeply compassionate reframe to help the whole family. Further resources & links The ADHD Sleep Book by Heather Darwall-Smith: https://amzn.eu/d/09MQ6NFM (https://amzn.eu/d/09MQ6NFM) Heather’s website and clinical resources: https://heatherdarwallsmith.com/ (https://heatherdarwallsmith.com/) ADHD coaching and resources from Claire: https://allaboardadhd.com (https://allaboardadhd.com/) Follow Claire on Instagram & TikTok: @allaboardADHD Follow Heather Darwall-Smith on Instagram @thesleeppsychotherapist The views shared in this episode are those of the guest, based on their professional expertise and personal experience. This content is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical, educational, or psychological advice. Please consult a qualified professional for personalised support relevant to your individual circumstances.

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• Sarah Ockwell-Smith
• Caragh McMurty
• Alessio Bellato
• Rachel Fuller
• Professor Emily Simonoff

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YouTube views

844

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Spotify

5.0 / 5

34 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 68 / 100

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60

Social presence

94

YouTube

66

Engagement

77

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