Breast Cancer Recovery & Sexual Wellness: Pro-Tips for Post-Mastectomy Dating and Self-Care
In this episode, we meet Melissa Berry, a former high-power fashion publicist who transformed a stage 1 triple-negative breast cancer diagnosis into a movement.
Melissa's backstory involves shipping watches to Vogue while navigating chemotherapy and a bilateral mastectomy. She founded the Cancer Fashionista Foundation to solve a critical problem: the lack of a curated "Vogue of breast cancer" that helps women maintain their identity through treatment.
We explore the deeper "why" of reclaiming agency and stopping the normalization of isolation, focusing on how to maintain your essence and mental health when you feel your femininity has been "mugged".
IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVER:
➡️ The Mastectomy Survival Kit: Insider must-haves, including drain-belt robes, satin pillowcases for hair loss comfort, and clean beauty oils.
➡️ Dating Post-Cancer 101: Navigating the vulnerability of "reconstructed body" reveals and why most partners are more compassionate than you'd expect.
➡️ Biohacking Self-Image: Using the "High-Five Habit" and "mandatory date nights" with yourself to re-wire your brain for self-love after medical trauma.
➡️ The Truth About Sexual Wellness: Addressing vaginal dryness, "scheduling" intimacy, and using tools like 3D tattoos or "Perky's" to feel sexy again.
➡️ Warrior Goddess Transformation: How to turn surgical scars into symbols of victory through professional photo shoots and floral body art.
RESOURCES:
https://cancerfashionista.com
@cancerfashionista
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Disclaimer: MENO is for general information and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine in any way. MENO does not constitute professional health care services or medical advice. No doctor/patient relationship is formed as a result of this podcast. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user's own risk. The content of MENO is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard getting medical advice for any such medical condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any conditions.
15 Oct 2026
Breast Cancer, Divorce & Starting Over with Molly MacDonald
In this episode, Molly MacDonald, co-founder and CEO of The Pink Fund, shares her powerful story of being diagnosed with breast cancer while raising five children and facing financial collapse — and how she turned that experience into a movement that has helped thousands of women.
We talk about the reality of financial toxicity in cancer care, why so many women are forced to choose between treatment and income, and how The Pink Fund is changing that.
This is a conversation about resilience, advocacy, and what women actually need when facing a diagnosis.
Welcome to MENO™ with Jacqueline Buckingham, the definitive destination for perimenopause, menopause, and everything on The Pause Spectrum™.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:
➡️ The hidden cost of breast cancer: financial toxicity
➡️ Why many women delay treatment due to income loss
➡️ What options exist for financial support + resources
➡️ How to advocate for yourself or a loved one
➡️ What to know about breast reconstruction + insurance gaps
RESOURCES:
The Pink Fund: www.thepinkfund.org
Breast Cancer Research Foundation: https://www.bcrf.org/
Susan G. Komen: https://www.komen.org/
ABOUT MENO
MENO is the definitive platform for menopause and perimenopause care — connecting women to trusted experts, solutions, and support.
https://joinmeno.com/
https://www.instagram.com/join.meno
https://www.tiktok.com/@join.meno
Follow our Founder/CEO on Instagram @jacquelinebuckingham
Disclaimer: MENO is for general information and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine in any way. MENO does not constitute professional health care services or medical advice. No doctor/patient relationship is formed as a result of this podcast. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user's own risk. The content of MENO is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard getting medical advice for any such medical condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any conditions.
8 Oct 2026
It's Not All in Your Head: Survive a Healthcare System Not Built for Women with Dr. Elizabeth Comen
Stop apologizing for your symptoms. Award-winning oncologist and author Dr. Elizabeth Comen (Memorial Sloan Kettering) joins us to dismantle the "hysteria" myth and explain why women have been historically ignored by the medical establishment.
Welcome to MENO™ with Jacqueline Buckingham, the definitive destination for perimenopause, menopause, and everything on The Pause Spectrum™.
IN THIS EPISODE:
➡️ Medical Gaslighting: Why even doctors (like Dr. Comen) face it.
➡️ Ozempic & Longevity: What high-performance women need to know about muscle loss.
➡️ The History of "Crazy": How early medicine taught us to lie about women's bodies.
➡️ The Advocacy Blueprint: How to bring an advocate to your next appointment.
➡️ Investing in Women: Why the female health economy is the future.
RESOURCES:
Dr. Elizabeth Comen's Book: https://www.drelizabethcomen.com/
Follow Dr. Comen: @drelizabethcomen
ABOUT MENO
MENO is the definitive platform for menopause and perimenopause care — connecting women to trusted experts, solutions, and support.
https://joinmeno.com/
https://www.instagram.com/join.meno
https://www.tiktok.com/@join.meno
Follow our Founder/CEO on Instagram @jacquelinebuckingham
Disclaimer: MENO is for general information and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine in any way. MENO does not constitute professional health care services or medical advice. No doctor/patient relationship is formed as a result of this podcast. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user's own risk. The content of MENO is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard getting medical advice for any such medical condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any conditions.
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