by 大俗小雅播客
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<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">《大俗小雅》是散落在世界各地的“打工人”的每周跨时差谈天说地。我们将通过长年的海外经历与多元文化背景，严肃八卦国内外的热点话题和艺术圈不为人知的猛料！希望成为各位听众朋友旅行居家的好伙伴 (๑•̀ㅂ•́) <br /></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">听友群：hilarydsxy</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">红薯：ariaava大俗小雅</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">WB ：秧子aria; 小希小希xi</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">Ins：phyllis.zhong<br /></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">合作：dsxy.podcast@outlook.com</p>
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May 26, 2026
282 不祈求好运降临，去建立自己的正能量循环
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>很多时候，我们以为自己在等一个转机、一个好消息、一个外部世界终于变顺的瞬间。但生活常常不是这样运转的。工作里的混乱指令、旅行中的航班取消、罢工、交通失控、陌生人的冒犯、情绪里的低气压，都可能让人觉得：为什么</span>“<span>好运</span>”<span>总是不来？</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>这一期，我们想聊的不是盲目乐观，也不是假装一切都很好，而是如何在现实并不完美的时候，主动为自己建立一个更稳定的正能量循环。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>从工作场景里的无力感，到旅行途中被汉莎罢工、德铁、</span>Uber<span>轮番</span>“<span>教育</span>”<span>；从不看点评就走进一家餐厅的小惊喜，到线下见朋友、听爵士、看展览、城市漫游；从威尼斯双年展德国馆、日本馆、西班牙馆的艺术现场，到南京鸡鸣寺的一日游，我们想一起讨论：当好运迟迟不来时，人是否可以先让自己的身体、感官和生活重新动起来？</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>感谢中国最大的化妆品实体零售商「银泰百货」对本期节目的大力支持！</span></b></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>5</b><b><span>月</span>15</b><b><span>日到</span>6</b><b><span>月</span>21</b><b><span>日，银泰百货线上线下同步开启</span>618</b><b><span>美妆惊喜直降活动，</span>INTIME365</b><b><span>会员购美妆限时</span>8.01</b><b><span>折！</span></b></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>线上：打开喵街</span>APP</b><b><span>，搜索</span>“</b><b><span>美妆疯抢</span>”</b><b><span>或者直接点击链接参与活动：</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>https://pages.miaostreet.com/wow/mj/act/s2/MOS_2924295915422?moscode=tiance-562fe338-19e4ec8ae75</span></span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>线下：在银泰百货美妆专柜购物即可。</span></b></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>另外，本次</span>618</b><b><span>银泰百货还发起了「工科男爆改大赛」，因为现在的男生对</span>“</b><b><span>自我状态</span>”</b><b><span>的建立正在全方位悄然觉醒，他们开始释放出前所未有的探知欲，也更愿意主动去搜索、去尝试，只是很多时候，他们缺少一个</span>“</b><b><span>可以大方体验、没有评判压力，且不必担心出错</span>”</b><b><span>的契机，这次活动就是个很好的入口。</span></b></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>如果你刚好在杭州或者江浙沪地区，</span>6</b><b><span>月</span>5</b><b><span>日可以去杭州武林银泰百货现场看看，小红书线上也会有</span>#</b><b><span>又被你妆到了</span> </b><b><span>的话题互动，欢迎大家参与。</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><img data-key="0" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/8da1-audiofreehighqps/A7/1B/GKwRIJIN62P9AEFN0QSe80_0.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/8da1-audiofreehighqps/A7/1B/GKwRIJIN62P9AEFN0QSe80_0.png?op_type=0" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/8da1-audiofreehighqps/A7/1B/GKwRIJIN62P9AEFN0QSe80_0.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" data-large-width="750" data-large-height="1307.6666666666667" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/8da1-audiofreehighqps/A7/1B/GKwRIJIN62P9AEFN0QSe80_0.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_small" data-preview-width="140" data-preview-height="244.09777777777776"><br></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><img data-key="1" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/d3aa-audiofreehighqps/2B/69/GKwRIRwN62QiADnf-gSe82dv.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/d3aa-audiofreehighqps/2B/69/GKwRIRwN62QiADnf-gSe82dv.png?op_type=0" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/d3aa-audiofreehighqps/2B/69/GKwRIRwN62QiADnf-gSe82dv.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" data-large-width="750" data-large-height="1000" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/d3aa-audiofreehighqps/2B/69/GKwRIRwN62QiADnf-gSe82dv.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_small" data-preview-width="140" data-preview-height="186.66666666666666"></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><img data-key="2" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/854c-audiofreehighqps/99/6E/GAqhy90N62Q3AAkkdwSe83Qv.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/854c-audiofreehighqps/99/6E/GAqhy90N62Q3AAkkdwSe83Qv.jpg?op_type=0" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/854c-audiofreehighqps/99/6E/GAqhy90N62Q3AAkkdwSe83Qv.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" data-large-width="750" data-large-height="1000" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/854c-audiofreehighqps/99/6E/GAqhy90N62Q3AAkkdwSe83Qv.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_small" data-preview-width="140" data-preview-height="186.66666666666666"></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>我们谈到了：</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>01</b><b><span>｜为什么我们不想再等</span>“</b><b><span>好运</span>”</b><b><span>了</span></b><br><span>当环境无法立刻改变时，人很容易陷入被动等待。但等待并不总是带来转机，有时候真正有效的，是先从自己能控制的小动作开始。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>02</b><b><span>｜那些让人崩溃的工作与旅行现场</span></b><br><span>从</span>“<span>四个老板指挥一个兵</span>”<span>的职场混乱，到航班取消、廉航改签、机场离市区一百多公里、</span>Uber<span>司机让人不安的经历，我们聊了那些现实生活里非常具体、非常荒诞、也非常消耗人的瞬间。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>03</b><b><span>｜给自己制造惊喜，而不是把生活过成流程表</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>分享一个很可爱的生活方法：去餐厅前不看点评，给自己保留一点未知感。生活不一定总要被攻略、评价和效率填满，有时候，惊喜来自于允许自己</span>“<span>不完全掌控</span>”<span>。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>04</b><b><span>｜线下活动如何把人从低气压里拉出来</span></b><br><span>见朋友、喝咖啡、听爵士、去展览、在城市里走走，这些看似普通的事，其实会帮助我们从情绪的内循环中走出来，重新回到真实空间和真实对话里。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><img data-key="3" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/613f-audiofreehighqps/1B/E4/GAqhQKIN62U1AALy_QSe9BUP.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/613f-audiofreehighqps/1B/E4/GAqhQKIN62U1AALy_QSe9BUP.jpg?op_type=0" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/613f-audiofreehighqps/1B/E4/GAqhQKIN62U1AALy_QSe9BUP.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" data-large-width="750" data-large-height="1000.1953124999999" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/613f-audiofreehighqps/1B/E4/GAqhQKIN62U1AALy_QSe9BUP.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_small" data-preview-width="140" data-preview-height="186.703125"></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><img data-key="4" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/64de-audiofreehighqps/3C/05/GKwRIMAN62U-AEOf5gSe9BrG.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/64de-audiofreehighqps/3C/05/GKwRIMAN62U-AEOf5gSe9BrG.jpg?op_type=0" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/64de-audiofreehighqps/3C/05/GKwRIMAN62U-AEOf5gSe9BrG.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" data-large-width="750" data-large-height="999.8651200431616" 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data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/0a7b-audiofreehighqps/59/7B/GKwRIUEN62VIAAjANASe9B_C.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_small" data-preview-width="140" data-preview-height="186.703125"></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><img data-key="6" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/9138-audiofreehighqps/46/BC/GKwRIMAN62VQAAK80QSe9CSc.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/9138-audiofreehighqps/46/BC/GKwRIMAN62VQAAK80QSe9CSc.jpg?op_type=0" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/9138-audiofreehighqps/46/BC/GKwRIMAN62VQAAK80QSe9CSc.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" data-large-width="750" data-large-height="1000.1953124999999" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/9138-audiofreehighqps/46/BC/GKwRIMAN62VQAAK80QSe9CSc.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_small" data-preview-width="140" data-preview-height="186.703125"></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>05</b><b><span>｜威尼斯双年展：从身份、照护到私人档案</span></b><br><span>我们聊到德国馆如何处理移民、东德、劳动、官僚系统与被边缘化的历史；日本馆如何把育儿中的重复劳动与照护动作转化为艺术；西班牙馆则通过跳蚤市场收集来的明信片，建构出一个关于记忆、时间和剩余物的</span>“anti-musuem<span>反博物馆</span>”<span>。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>德国馆｜</span>SungTieu </b><b><span>萧崇</span></b><br><span>德国馆将德国身份中有关移民、东德经验、劳动制度、官僚系统和种族化记忆的部分重新翻出。</span>SungTieu <span>通过重构柏林</span> Gehrenseestrasse <span>住宅区的建筑记忆，纪念并再现东德时期越南</span> Vertragsarbeiter<span>，即</span>“<span>合同工</span>/<span>劳务工</span>”<span>的历史。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>日本馆｜</span>EiArakawa-Nash, Grass Babies, Moon Babies</b><br><span>观众被邀请抱起婴儿娃娃，在展馆空间中移动，并参与类似</span>“<span>换尿布</span>”<span>的集体照护环节。艺术家本人在</span> 2024 <span>年成为双胞胎父亲，这一经验也进入作品之中，使育儿中重复、琐碎、身体性的劳动转化为艺术动作。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>西班牙馆｜</span>OriolVilanova</b><br><span>艺术家用二十多年从跳蚤市场与非正式渠道收集来的明信片，将展馆变成一个</span>“anti-museum”<span>。跳蚤市场在这里不再是低级消费场所，而像是现代人的私人档案馆：明信片、纪念品、旧物，都承载着被主流历史遗漏的微型记忆。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><img 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281 想自由又怕落单：独处中实现对生活的掌控
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>最近社交媒体上</span><span>“Solo Trip”</span><span>的话题特别火，<span>这期节目我们想聊聊独处这件既让人恐惧又让人暗爽的事。从小怕落单、活到</span></span><span><span>29</span><span>岁才拥有人生中第一个完全属于自己的物理空间的小希</span></span><span><span>，和资深独居、把</span><span>Solo</span><span>当成日常充电必需品的秧子</span></span><span><span>，一起坦白了我们关于</span><span>“</span><span>一个人</span><span>”</span><span>的尴尬与高光时刻。</span></span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>独自生活和旅行就像是跑一场马拉松，赛道周围虽然都是人，但你脚下的每一步、每一次呼吸的节奏，都是一段只能由自己去感受和消化的旅程。</span></span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>我们聊到了</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>耻感与刻板印象</span><span>—</span><span>那些觉得</span><span>“</span><span>一个人很惨</span><span>”</span><span>的至暗时刻</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>l </span></span><span>社会语境的裹挟：为什么我们总觉得一个人就等于</span><span>“</span><span>没朋友</span><span>” </span><span>？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>l </span></span><span>一个人很需要拥抱的瞬间：秧子爷爷去世时，独自坐在德国河边倍感悲伤与无助的时刻 。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>l</span></span><span>为了有搭子可以多拼：小希的</span><span>“</span><span>找饭搭子血泪史</span><span>”：</span><span>从小学住校、初高中在隔壁班门口苦等，到成年后换新工作，恐惧</span><span>“</span><span>没人一起吃饭</span><span>”</span><span>变成了一件特别具体的事 。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>l</span></span><span>中餐的</span><span>“</span><span>单身不友好</span><span>”</span><span>：为什么亚洲菜天然不适合一个人吃，每次都需要多叫几个朋友才能吃到东西 ？</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>拿回绝对掌控权</span><span>—</span><span>第一次一个人觉得很爽的瞬间</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>l</span></span><span>独居的隐秘快乐：秧子的</span><span>8</span><span>年独居心得，规律的大扫除、晚上给绿植浇水，以及永远要用播客和电视当</span><span>BGM</span><span>的声音依赖 。小希第一次拥有独居空间，享受不穿衣服在家自由走动的畅快感 。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>l</span></span><span>一个人的</span><span>Solo Trip</span><span>：小希被迫独自旅行</span><span>3</span><span>天的意外收获 。秧子拒绝了</span><span>12</span><span>天的Steve克罗地亚游，选择独自在威尼斯日行三万步暴走，享受不用导航的随缘迷路，以及水上出租车和双年展带来的快乐 。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>l</span></span><span>抛开搭子去运动：放弃找人陪的执念，自己跑步其实很爽，不用听对方的呼吸声，完全掌握自己的节奏 。在德国村里沿河骑车去拉登堡的闲适感 。一个人去健身房或出席活动，其实是全新的开始。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>l</span></span><span>一个人去看电影大踩雷实录：一个人去看《至尊马蒂》（</span><span>Marty Supreme</span><span>），原本以为是运动励志片，结果被全员暴躁的剧情和甜茶的角色气到头晕，花钱买罪受的搞笑吐槽 。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><img data-key="0" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/ca82-audiofreehighqps/05/81/GKwRIDoN4oCFAANa0wSbwwiE.jpg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/ca82-audiofreehighqps/05/81/GKwRIDoN4oCFAANa0wSbwwiE.jpg?op_type=0" 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May 13, 2026
280 被吐槽“精英叙事”后，聊聊我们的“毛坯生活”
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>最近刷到一个视频吐槽</span><span>“</span><span>播客都是精英主义叙事</span><span>”</span><span>，本来我们还在一边笑一边点头，结果点进评论区一看</span><span>:</span><span>我们节目也被提名了。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>有人说我们经常聊国外生活、</span><span>brunch</span><span>、旅行、吃吃喝喝。好吧，这一期我们决定不装了：既然如此，那就来聊聊那些不够精致、不够出片、不够体面的</span><span>“</span><span>毛坯生活</span><span>”</span><span>。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>我们从一次差点</span><span>“</span><span>见太奶</span><span>”</span><span>的</span><span> 10K </span><span>跑步，说到一场和父母一起误入囧途的盲盒旅行；从没有攻略、没有滤镜、没有完美节奏的生活现场，说到那些在失控中意外发生的相遇、春夜、酒精、威尼斯晚风和突然涌来的青春回忆。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>精英叙事当然很好看，但我们更想记录那些没跑出配速、没拍出大片、没按计划发生，却真实发生过的日子。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>我们聊到了：</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>为什么我们会突然开始反思</span><span>“</span><span>播客精英叙事</span><span>”</span><span>这件事；</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>一场被跑圈博主蛊惑后的</span><span> 10K</span><span>：多巴胺没见到，身体先夺权了；</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>当大脑以为自己可以，身体却直接拉响防空警报；</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>和父母旅行为什么永远像开盲盒：恐飞爸爸、拒绝人挤人的妈妈、分不清昆明站和昆明南站的混乱开局；</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>一场没有小红书攻略的</span><span>“</span><span>毛坯旅行</span><span>”</span><span>，如何在踩雷、迷路、崩溃之后，反而留下了真实的记忆；</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>那些在排队、喝酒、聊天，春夜花园里偶遇的朋友，一起夜宵Chipotle, 梦回</span><span> 20</span><span>世代的大学时光</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>威尼斯周末极限旅行：交通刷卡、</span><span>Select Spritz</span><span>，以及为什么</span><span> Select </span><span>比</span><span> Aperol </span><span>更有威尼斯味道~</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>生活不一定总是精装交付，有时候它就是一地鸡毛、满身汗水、计划全乱，但也正是这些</span><span>“</span><span>毛坯</span><span>”</span><span>的部分，让日子变得真实、好笑、狼狈又可爱。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><img data-key="0" 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