Estranged and Deranged is the podcast for parents who were cut off, shut out, rewritten, and then told to “work on themselves.” Hosted by Chris Workman and Candi Morris, we talk about adult child estrangement the way no one else will, blunt, honest, darkly funny, and done tiptoeing. We unpack grief, guilt, silence, therapy buzzwords used like weapons, and what it’s like to lose a child who’s still alive… and still blaming you. This is not a redemption tour. It’s not kid-bashing. And it sure as hell isn’t about staying quiet to keep the peace. It’s about reclaiming your voice, your sanity, and your life without apologizing for existing. If you’ve been erased, labeled the problem, or told your pain doesn’t count because you’re “the parent”… welcome. You’re not deranged. You’re just done swallowing bullshit.
Estranged and Deranged
Claim This Podcastby Chris Workman and Candi Morris
Podcast Overview
Estranged and Deranged is the podcast for parents who were cut off, shut out, rewritten, and then told to “work on themselves.” Hosted by Chris Workman and Candi Morris, we talk about adult child estrangement the way no one else will, blunt, honest, darkly funny, and done tiptoeing. We unpack grief, guilt, silence, therapy buzzwords used like weapons, and what it’s like to lose a child who’s still alive… and still blaming you. This is not a redemption tour. It’s not kid-bashing. And it sure as hell isn’t about staying quiet to keep the peace. It’s about reclaiming your voice, your sanity, and your life without apologizing for existing. If you’ve been erased, labeled the problem, or told your pain doesn’t count because you’re “the parent”… welcome. You’re not deranged. You’re just done swallowing bullshit.
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Recent Episodes
March 19, 2026
When Estranged Parents Stop Begging... What Happens Next? | Episode 14
<p>What happens when estranged parents stop begging for contact?</p><p>In this episode of the <strong>Estranged & Deranged Podcast</strong>, Candy and Chris dive into one of the hardest phases of family estrangement — the moment when parents stop chasing, begging, emailing, texting, and trying to fix the relationship.</p><p>Many estranged parents believe that if they just apologize enough, try harder, or reach out one more time, their child will come back. But what actually happens when that cycle finally stops?</p><p>Candy and Chris share the emotional reality that follows:<br>• the silence<br>• the emotional vacuum<br>• the grief that resurfaces<br>• and the surprising dignity and freedom that can follow</p><p>They also read real responses from estranged parents who shared what happened after they stopped chasing their adult children.</p><p>This episode explores self-respect, boundaries, grief, identity, and the difficult journey of rebuilding a life after estrangement.</p><p>If you're navigating estrangement, please know <strong>you are not alone.</strong></p><p>⚠️ Reminder: We are not therapists. We are parents speaking from lived experience.</p><p>Resources & Support</p><p>🌐 Website<br><a href="https://estrangedandderanged.net/">https://estrangedandderanged.net</a></p><p>💬 Join the Support Community<br>Search Facebook for <strong>When They Walk Away</strong></p><p>❤️ Support the podcast on Patreon<br>https://www.patreon.com/cw/EstrangedandDeranged</p><p>00:00 Intro<br>01:05 Comment of the Week (YouTube comment reaction)<br>05:20 “Just apologize” criticism discussion<br>09:30 The reality of parenting reflection<br>12:10 Episode topic: What happens after begging stops<br>15:00 Why begging becomes a habit<br>18:30 The illusion of control<br>22:00 The emotional vacuum<br>25:30 Checking emails, texts, and social media<br>28:40 The turning point: self-respect<br>32:10 Real responses from estranged parents<br>36:45 The silence after begging stops<br>41:30 Emotional whiplash and grief<br>46:10 Finding dignity again<br>50:00 Rebuilding identity and life<br>55:00 Redirecting your energy<br>59:00 Practical steps to stop begging<br>1:03:00 Support group and resources<br>1:05:30 Closing thoughts</p> <strong> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/EstrangedandDeranged" rel="payment" title="★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★">★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★</a> </strong>
March 12, 2026
Estranged: When Your Child Stays Loyal to Everyone But You
<p>Podcast Episode 13<br>Family estrangement is painful, confusing, and often misunderstood. In this episode of Estranged & Deranged, we explore one of the most difficult parts of estrangement that many parents experience but rarely talk about openly: loyalty conflicts inside families.<br>What happens when an estranged adult child cuts off one parent but stays connected to siblings, extended family, or even the parent who wasn’t present during their upbringing? How does loyalty shift inside families when estrangement happens? And what does it feel like when everyone around you still has access to your child or grandchildren… except you?<br>Candi and Chris share real experiences navigating family estrangement, including stories about siblings caught in the middle, grandchildren being removed from relationships, and the emotional toll of watching family members maintain connections while you are shut out.<br>This episode also builds on the powerful conversation from Episode 12, where we spoke with an estranged father about his experience and how estrangement can impact fathers differently than mothers.<br>If you are navigating family estrangement, adult child estrangement, estranged parent relationships, or grandparent estrangement, this episode will resonate with you.<br>Candi and Chris speak from lived experience, not clinical expertise. They are not therapists. They are two parents sharing honest conversations about the realities of estrangement and creating a space where these stories can finally be heard.</p><p>Resources & Website<br>Visit our website for more resources, podcast episodes, and ways to connect:<br>https://www.estrangedandderanged.net<br>On the website you can find:<br>• All Estranged & Deranged podcast episodes<br>• Support resources for estranged parents<br>• Upcoming workshops and events<br>• Opportunities to share your story<br>• Ways to connect with the community</p><p>Join Our Community<br>If you’re looking for support from others who understand estrangement, join our Facebook community:<br>When They Walk Away<br>We host a weekly Zoom support meeting every Wednesday evening where estranged parents and grandparents can connect, share experiences, and support each other through this journey.<br>You are not alone in this.</p><p>Chapters<br>0:00 Welcome Back – Episode 13<br>0:45 Why This Episode Connects to Episode 12<br>1:40 Our Disclaimer – We’re Not Therapists<br>2:20 Comment of the Week (The Eyeliner Debate)<br>4:30 Dealing With Online Critics and Trolls<br>5:40 Today’s Topic: Loyalty in Family Estrangement<br>7:00 Candy’s Story – When an Estranged Son Reaches Out to a Sibling<br>10:00 Feeling Hurt When Loyalty Feels Broken<br>12:15 Protecting Your Heart From Information That Hurts<br>14:30 When Estranged Adult Children Go In and Out of Relationships<br>16:45 Is Estrangement Sometimes About Power and Control?<br>18:30 When Families Stay Connected Except to One Parent<br>20:30 Chris’s Story – Being Cut Off From Grandchildren<br>22:45 Seeing Grandkids Through Social Media<br>24:20 When Estranged Children Cut Off Everyone<br>26:00 Loyalty Conflicts Between Parents and Family Members<br>27:30 Why Some Estranged Children Reconnect With Absent Parents<br>28:40 Finding Support and Community<br>29:20 Final Thoughts – You Matter</p><p>#estrangement #estrangedparents #familyestrangement #estrangedmother #estrangedfather #nocontactfamily #estrangedfamily #toxicfamily #familyhealing #estrangedandderanged</p> <strong> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/EstrangedandDeranged" rel="payment" title="★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★">★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★</a> </strong>
March 5, 2026
A Father’s Story of Estrangement | When One Parent Is Cut Off and the Other Isn’t Episode 12
<p>Episode 12 is one of our most important conversations yet.</p><p>For the first time, we’re joined by a father.</p><p>Joe shares what it’s like to be blindsided by estrangement after a completely normal lunch with his daughter. No warning. No argument. Just a text filled with words like “toxic” and “respect my boundaries.”</p><p>He hasn’t spoken to her since April 24, 2024.</p><p>In this episode, we talk about:</p><ul><li>Being cut off without explanation</li><li>When one parent is estranged but the other still has contact</li><li>The strain on marriage when loyalty feels divided</li><li>Missing a grandchild you’ve never met</li><li>The first year of shock and grief</li><li>Whether begging for contact ever helps</li><li>What resilience really looks like</li></ul><p>Research shows many adult children who go no contact are estranged from their fathers. Yet in our 10,000-member community, men make up only about 2 percent.</p><p>This episode matters.</p><p>If you are a parent navigating estrangement, you are not alone. We see you. We hear you. And we will continue giving parents a voice.</p><p>Visit estrangedandderanged.net for support resources and live event information.</p> <strong> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/EstrangedandDeranged" rel="payment" title="★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★">★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★</a> </strong>
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