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In Conversations About Family Violence – You Do Not Have To Put Up With It!

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by Ms Carmella Acciarito

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You deserve safety, respect, and peace. The heart of our new podcast series, In Conversations About Family Violence – You Do Not Have To Put Up With It, is hosted by Ms Carmella Acciarito, Principal Lawyer and Founder of DFV Lawyers. This series is designed to inform, empower, and support anyone affected by family violence — as well as the professionals and community members who walk alongside them. Through six thoughtful episodes, Ms Carmella breaks down the realities of family violence in Australia, the legal protections available, and the vital role of police, courts, and support services. If you or someone you know is living with fear or control, this podcast is a reminder: You are not alone, and help is available. As Australia faces rising rates of domestic and family violence, this series provides clear, accessible insights into: The national escalation of DFV- What’s going on in Australia? The historical conceptions of family violence in Australia- When did this all start in Australia? Victoria’s legislative and legal framework- What is the law in this area and how do the courts Practical strategies for safety and support services. The role of Victoria Police- How do the Victoria Police get involved in family disputes? This podcast is essential listening for professionals, advocates, and community members committed to understanding and responding to family violence. Series 1: Introduction What Is Happening in Australia with the Escalation of Domestic and Family Violence? Series 2: DFV Lawyers – Who are Melbourne’s First Domestic and Family Violence Law Firm? Series 3: Is Domestic and Family Violence Something New to Australia? Series 4: Understanding Family Violence in Victoria – The Legislation and the Courts Series 5: Tips for Understanding and Responding to Family Violence in Victoria Series 6 :The Role of Victoria Police in the handling and reporting of Family Violence

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July 10, 2026

S2 Ep 3 - When Men Experience Family Violence: Gary’s Story of Being Unheard, Misidentified and Finding Support

In this confronting episode of You Do Not Have to Put Up With It, Ms Carmella from DFV Lawyers speaks with “Gary,” a former client who shares his experience as a male survivor of family violence.Gary describes how conflict in his relationship escalated into intimidation, objects being thrown, fear, emotional distress and a growing sense that he could not safely remain in his own home. He also speaks candidly about the shame and disbelief many men can experience when trying to disclose abuse, particularly when others struggle to recognise that family violence can affect men as well as women.This conversation explores the difficult realities of male survivor experiences, including humiliation, isolation, fear of not being believed, concern about being seen as the problem, and the challenge of managing anger without escalating the situation. Gary also reflects on the legal process, police involvement, the importance of being properly heard, and the need for frontline responders and practitioners to recognise family violence without assumptions or unconscious bias.The episode also examines recovery, accountability, emotional regulation and the importance of seeking professional support. Gary’s story highlights that family violence does not have a single face. It can happen to women, men, children, parents and older people, and every situation deserves to be taken seriously.For anyone feeling overwhelmed, unheard or misunderstood, Gary’s message is clear: you are not alone, support exists, and there are safe ways to seek help without escalating conflict. For more information, visit <a href="https://domesticfamilyviolencelawyers.au/carmella-acciarito/">https://domesticfamilyviolencelawyers.au/carmella-acciarito/</a>

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July 3, 2026

S2 Ep 2 - Client experiences and challenges when dealing with family violence, Rebecca's lived experiences as a victim survivor and as an Applicant.

In this powerful episode of You Do Not Have to Put Up With It, Miss Carmella from DFVLawyers speaks with “Rebecca,” a family violence survivor who shares her lived experience of coercive control, emotional abuse, financial dependence, isolation and rebuilding life after separation.Rebecca describes how she went from being independent, confident and professionally capable to feeling isolated, anxious and trapped inside a relationship where her movements, money, friendships and choices were increasingly controlled. Although there was no physical violence, she explains how the emotional and psychological abuse left deep scars, especially when threats involving her children were used as leverage.The conversation explores the often-invisible nature of domestic and family violence, including financial control, intimidation, silent treatment, withdrawal of affection, monitoring, social isolation and the way survivors can doubt their own reality when the abuse is not physical.Rebecca also speaks about navigating police, court, and support systems; the fear of seeking help; the challenge of starting again, financially and emotionally; and the importance of finding the right support. Her story is a reminder that family violence is not defined only by bruises or physical assault. Coercive control can be just as damaging, and recognising the warning signs early can be life-changing.For anyone who feels trapped, isolated, afraid or unsure whether what they are experiencing “counts” as family violence, Rebecca’s message is clear: trust your instincts, speak to someone outside the situation, and know that you do not have to put up with it.

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June 26, 2026

S2 Ep 1- Client experiences and challenges when dealing with family violence: Maggie’s Story of Survival, Safety and Rebuilding

In this powerful opening episode of Series Two of You Do Not Have to Put Up With It, Ms Carmella Acciarito from DFVLawyers speaks with “Maggie,” a former client and family violence survivor, about the hidden realities of coercive control, emotional abuse, isolation, manipulation and the long road to recovery.Maggie shares how a relationship that appeared supportive at first gradually eroded her independence, confidence and sense of self. She discusses the early warning signs she now recognises, the impact of being minimised or misunderstood by others, and the emotional toll of navigating police, court and legal processes after separation.This conversation also explores what safety, freedom and healing can look like after family violence. Maggie speaks honestly about trauma, support services, therapy, rebuilding routines, the role of trusted friends, and the importance of listening to your gut when something does not feel right.Her story is confronting, courageous and deeply important. It highlights that domestic and family violence is not always physical, and that coercive control can be invisible to the outside world while profoundly damaging to the person experiencing it.For anyone living with fear, control or isolation, this episode is a reminder: you are not alone, help is available, and you do not have to put up with it. For more information, visit <a href="https://domesticfamilyviolencelawyers.au/carmella-acciarito/" style="background-color:rgb(255,255,255);">https://domesticfamilyviolencelawyers.au/carmella-acciarito/</a>

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What is In Conversations About Family Violence – You Do Not Have To Put Up With It!?: You deserve safety, respect, and peace.

The heart of our new podcast series, In Conversations About Family Violence – You Do Not Have To Put Up With It, is hosted by Ms Carmella Acciarito, Principal Lawyer and Founder of DFV Lawyers.

This series is designed to inform, empower, and support anyone affected by family violence — as well as the professionals and community members who walk alongside them.

Through six thoughtful episodes, Ms Carmella breaks down the realities of family violence in Australia, the legal protections available, and the vital role of police, courts, and support services.

If you or someone you know is living with fear or control, this podcast is a reminder: You are not alone, and help is available.

As Australia faces rising rates of domestic and family violence, this series provides clear, accessible insights into: The national escalation of DFV- What’s going on in Australia? The historical conceptions of family violence in Australia- When did this all start in Australia? Victoria’s legislative and legal framework- What is the law in this area and how do the courts Practical strategies for safety and support services. The role of Victoria Police- How do the Victoria Police get involved in family disputes?

This podcast is essential listening for professionals, advocates, and community members committed to understanding and responding to family violence. Series 1: Introduction What Is Happening in Australia with the Escalation of Domestic and Family Violence? Series 2: DFV Lawyers – Who are Melbourne’s First Domestic and Family Violence Law Firm? Series 3: Is Domestic and Family Violence Something New to Australia? Series 4: Understanding Family Violence in Victoria – The Legislation and the Courts Series 5: Tips for Understanding and Responding to Family Violence in Victoria Series 6 :The Role of Victoria Police in the handling and reporting of Family Violence
How often does this podcast release new episodes?: This podcast updates daily.
Where can I listen to this podcast?: This podcast is available on 4 platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more. You can also use the RSS feed directly.
Does this podcast accept guests?: Yes, this podcast regularly features guests.

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