Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Hosted by Sam and Sierra · Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
4.9from 3,019 ratings
- 803
- Episodes
- 393
- Transcribed
- 3,019
- Ratings
- Daily
- Cadence
- 2018
- First episode
About Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
- Publisher
- Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
- Category
- health & fitness
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- Yes
- First episode
- 16 Jul 2018
- Latest episode
- 23 Sept 2026
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393 of 803 episodes have a transcript.
23 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
Episode 769: How Long Do I Wait for My Partner to Change?
21 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
Episode 768: My Boyfriend of 3 Years Won't Introduce Me to His Mom
18 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
Episode 767: Don't Just Stay Because It Feels Easier
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Episode 769: How Long Do I Wait for My Partner to Change?
Published 23 Sept 2026 · Transcript excerpt
[…] Because that would be something that would be very triggering for me. And I can see that you're trying to say like, you know, it's not them, it's their brain. And also like that brain is existing in a body that is in presence with you, right? That you are experiencing. And so it's important for us to hold both of these things, which is that like, Yes, your partner is experiencing mental health issues and is experiencing trauma, and that is really difficult. And they can express that trauma, that frustration, in ways that also don't make you feel unsafe, right? That aren't threatening in the way that they're yelling at you, the way that they're getting into your face, right? […]
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