Co-Parenting and Coffee

About Co-Parenting and Coffee

Picture this...You’re sitting with your friends…other moms, who have gone through a divorce or are contemplating. Who maybe didn’t picture their lives co-parenting, but are there with you. You are sharing your stories, you are inspiring each other, validating and challenging each other through your shared experiences. You are belly laughing, tearing up, and enjoying your favorite cup of coffee all at the same time. You don’t judge each other, you empower each other to continue on your journey, to heal, and to just be you whatever that looks like. Welcome to Co-parenting and Coffee.

Publisher

Jillian Andre & Ally McArthur

Category

kids & family

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

17 Oct 2023

Latest episode

15 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

50 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   15 Oct 2026

   Building a tribe

   Summary This episode explores the importance of friendships, self-reinvention after divorce, and how relationships evolve over time. Guests Ally and Jill share personal insights and practical advice on nurturing connections and prioritizing self-growth. How to find our guest Ali! Instagram: https://instagram.com/byalimargs (https://instagram.com/byalimargs)substack Subscription link: https://byalimargs.substack.com/ (https://byalimargs.substack.com/) Ali has a special offer just for co-parenting and coffee listeners! Check our social media for the deets! TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@coparentingandcoffee?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Instagram https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cyvc5D-OrDu/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet Keywords friendship, divorce, self-reinvention, personal growth, relationships, mental health, support system Key topics The role of friendships during and after divorce How to rebuild and nurture supportive relationships The importance of self-focus and healing after life changes The shift in societal views on marriage and friendships Strategies for personal growth and reinvention Takeaways Friendships can be more supportive than romantic relationships during life transitions. Prioritizing self-healing and growth is crucial after divorce. Making new friends and strengthening existing ones can aid in emotional recovery. Reinvention involves reconnecting with your true self and embracing change. Sound bites "Right now your greatest responsibility is getting your life back on track." "People who are meant to be part of your next chapter will find you." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the importance of friendships after divorce 02:05 How friendships support emotional well-being during life changes 04:01 Lessons learned from second marriage and self-acceptance 05:37 The significance of focusing on self-growth and healing

2. 

   28 Sept 2026

   Co-parenting and the Mental Load: What you need to know!

   Special Offer! Lesley has a free list of 92 Ways to Simplify Your Life which you can download here: https://www.alifelesscomplicated.com/92-ways-cop (https://www.alifelesscomplicated.com/92-ways-cop) She also has a special offer for Co-parenting and Coffee listeners: 50% off 1-on-1 days to help you lighten your mental load with practical ideas to make life easier. Delivered by WhatsApp, she’ll help you with co-parenting-specific challenges, and/or the broader day-to-day juggle. You’ll see full details on the offer once you download the freebie. Summary In this episode, Jill and Ally explore the concept of mental load, especially in the context of co-parenting and divorce. They discuss practical strategies for reducing mental burden, empowering children, and lowering standards to create a more manageable life. Lesley shares practical strategies for simplifying life, managing co-parenting challenges, and involving children in household responsibilities. This episode offers actionable tips to reduce mental load and create more space for what truly matters.Keywordsmental load, co-parenting, divorce, parenting tips, reducing stress, empowering children, standards, routines, organization co-parenting, mental load, household management, simplifying life, parenting tips, time management, routines, stress reductionKey Topics Mental load concept and borrowing capacity Managing mental load in co-parenting and divorce Practical strategies for reducing mental burden Empowering children to participate in routines Lowering standards to reduce stress Using checklists and visual reminders The importance of routines and organization Challenging social expectations around cleanliness and standards The role of communication tools in co-parenting Supporting mental health through practical changes Strategies to involve children in household chores Managing mental load and reducing stress Creating routines and standardizing tasks Balancing co-parenting responsibilities Using visual tools like post-its for chores Setting expectations and teaching independence Time management tips for busy parents The importance of communication in co-parenting Mental load can be thought of as borrowing capacity for mental tasks. Lowering standards can significantly reduce stress and mental burden. Involving children in routines helps them develop independence and reduces parental load. Using visual tools like photos and checklists can prevent forgotten items. It's okay to lower your standards and focus on what truly matters. Communication apps can help log shared responsibilities and expectations. Routine and organization are key to managing mental load effectively. Social media often portrays unrealistic standards that increase stress. Taking small, manageable steps can lead to big relief. Mental load management is a continuous process, not a one-time fix. Focus on what is within your control to reduce stress. Use visual aids like post-its to assign chores. Standardize routines to minimize decision fatigue. Communicate neutrally about mental load and responsibilities. Involve children in age-appropriate tasks to teach independence. Prioritize self-care and downtime to recharge. Ask challenging questions about commitments and expenses. Create a village by sharing responsibilities with others. Recognize small changes can lead to big improvements. "Focus on what you can control." "Lower your standards, not your sanity." "Use visual aids like post-its for chores."

3. 

   14 Sept 2026

   Money Mindfully: Budgeting Without the Shame

   Summary: Krista from Money Mindful Moms shares practical advice on managing finances, budgeting with kids, and navigating financial challenges during and after divorce. This episode offers actionable tips for moms looking to take control of their money and teach their children financial responsibility. Keywords: finances, budgeting, money management, divorce, moms, kids, debt payoff, financial literacy, money tips, family finance Key Topics Starting with the basics: understanding income and expenses The importance of regular financial check-ins Teaching kids about money at different ages Balancing fun and frugality in family life Negotiating bills and subscriptions for savings The mindset shift from scarcity to abundance Handling financial differences in co-parenting The power of honest conversations about money Practical tips for grocery shopping on a budget The importance of self-compassion in financial journeys Focus on big financial boulders like increasing income or paying off debt for bigger impact. Regularly review your financial situation to stay on track. Teach children age-appropriate money lessons through real-life experiences. Balance fun and frugality to avoid burnout and guilt. Negotiate bills and subscriptions to save money. Shift mindset from scarcity to abundance to foster financial confidence. Communicate honestly with children about financial realities. Use everyday moments to teach kids about money. Small savings on daily expenses can add up significantly. You already have the skills to manage your finances as a mom. "You already have it in you to get a handle on your finances." "Focus on the big boulders first for bigger impact." "Shift mindset from scarcity to abundance to foster confidence." TakeawaysSound Bites Chapters 00:00Introduction to the episode and guest Krista 01:54The importance of honest money conversations with kids 04:00Managing finances during divorce and financial shifts 07:04Krista's journey to financial mindfulness 10:03Starting with understanding income and expenses 13:08The emotional aspect of facing financial realities 16:05Teaching kids about money at different ages 22:00Practical tips for grocery shopping and saving money 26:5 Balancing fun and frugality in family life 33:03Handling social pressures and comparisons 35:56Big boulders versus little pebbles in financial planning 39:03Parting wisdom and encouragement for moms How to find Money Mindful Moms! @moneymindfulmoms on Tik Tok and Instagramhttps://www.facebook.com/moneymindfulmoms/ (https://www.facebook.com/moneymindfulmoms/) And my podcast is the Money Mindful Moms Podcast

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

12 ratings

Spotify

4.7 / 5

14 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 43 / 100

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Quality

57

Social presence

0

YouTube

0

Engagement

71

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