Love and Abuse

Love and Abuse

Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert

4.7from 1,169 ratings

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71Podcast AuthorityScore out of 100 · How it is scored
194
Episodes
74
Transcribed
1,169
Ratings
Weekly
Cadence
2019
First episode
50K
YouTube views

About Love and Abuse

Helping you identify toxic communication, emotional abuse, manipulation, and other forms of difficult behavior in relationships. Love and Abuse offers the perspective of both the victim and the perpetrator. Full of tips and advice for your friendships, family, love life, and marriage. You'll learn about covert abusive communication that takes away your power. And you'll discover how to pinpoint the specific toxic behaviors, such as narcissistic abuse and verbal abuse, before you are dragged into a psychological game so deep you come out a shell of your former self. Love and Abuse is the official podcast of The M.E.A.N. Workbook, an assessment and healing guide to help you evaluate the emotionally abusive and manipulative patterns in your relationship. Get the guide that will tell you exactly what's happening in your relationship over at loveandabuse.com. https://loveandabuse.com/

Publisher
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Category
health & fitness · society & culture
Language
en
Explicit
No
First episode
14 Feb 2019
Latest episode
6 Nov 2026

Latest episodes

74 of 194 episodes have a transcript.

  1. 6 Nov 2026TRANSCRIPT

    Is emotional abuse justification for an emotional affair?

  2. 4 Nov 2026TRANSCRIPT

    Follow-up - You learned you're being emotionally abused. Now what?

  3. 27 Oct 2026TRANSCRIPT

    You learned you're being emotionally abused... now what?

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Is emotional abuse justification for an emotional affair?

Published 6 Nov 2026 · Transcript excerpt

[…] I don't analyze who did what or the chicken and the egg, which came first, or if the first thing was the emotional abuse or not, or if it was all just made up, or if everything is just exaggerated. I don't go anywhere near those things. All I do is look at what's on the table right now. What's on the table? […]

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YouTube views
49,921
Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
Apple Podcasts (US)
4.7 / 5
847 ratings
Spotify
4.8 / 5
322 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 71 / 100

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0
YouTube
85
Engagement
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