
Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
4.7from 1,169 ratings
- 194
- Episodes
- 74
- Transcribed
- 1,169
- Ratings
- Weekly
- Cadence
- 2019
- First episode
- 50K
- YouTube views
About Love and Abuse
Helping you identify toxic communication, emotional abuse, manipulation, and other forms of difficult behavior in relationships. Love and Abuse offers the perspective of both the victim and the perpetrator. Full of tips and advice for your friendships, family, love life, and marriage. You'll learn about covert abusive communication that takes away your power. And you'll discover how to pinpoint the specific toxic behaviors, such as narcissistic abuse and verbal abuse, before you are dragged into a psychological game so deep you come out a shell of your former self. Love and Abuse is the official podcast of The M.E.A.N. Workbook, an assessment and healing guide to help you evaluate the emotionally abusive and manipulative patterns in your relationship. Get the guide that will tell you exactly what's happening in your relationship over at loveandabuse.com. https://loveandabuse.com/
- Publisher
- Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
- Category
- health & fitness · society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- No
- First episode
- 14 Feb 2019
- Latest episode
- 6 Nov 2026
Latest episodes
74 of 194 episodes have a transcript.

6 Nov 2026TRANSCRIPT
Is emotional abuse justification for an emotional affair?

4 Nov 2026TRANSCRIPT
Follow-up - You learned you're being emotionally abused. Now what?

27 Oct 2026TRANSCRIPT
You learned you're being emotionally abused... now what?
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Is emotional abuse justification for an emotional affair?
Published 6 Nov 2026 · Transcript excerpt
[…] I don't analyze who did what or the chicken and the egg, which came first, or if the first thing was the emotional abuse or not, or if it was all just made up, or if everything is just exaggerated. I don't go anywhere near those things. All I do is look at what's on the table right now. What's on the table? […]
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- YouTube views
- 49,921
- Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
- Apple Podcasts (US)
- 4.7 / 5
- 847 ratings
- Spotify
- 4.8 / 5
- 322 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 71 / 100
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- Quality
- 69
- Social presence
- 0
- YouTube
- 85
- Engagement
- 98
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