Reality-Based Leadership

About Reality-Based Leadership

The average person spends 2.5 hours a day in drama at work. That's lost time, lost energy, and lost results. Leading beyond drama isn't optional anymore. It's the skill that separates reactive managers from transformational leaders. So how do you reclaim those hours, call your team to greatness, and restore sanity to your workplace? Welcome to Reality-Based Leadership. Hosted by Alex Dorr, CEO of Reality-Based Leadership, this podcast delivers the mindset shifts and practical tools leaders need to eliminate emotional waste, build true accountability, and turn excuses into measurable results. With years of experience working alongside leaders across industries, Alex brings real-world application, bold insight, and next practices that create ROI in the room and momentum long after. If you are ready to elevate performance and lead what's next, you are in the right place.

Publisher

Alex Dorr

Category

business · business

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

27 Jun 2017

Latest episode

15 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

258 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   15 Oct 2026

   124: When to Move From Coaching to Performance Management as a Leader

   Many leaders struggle with knowing when it is time to coach and when the issues they are experiencing with a team member have drifted into a performance issue that calls for performance management. In this episode, Alex Dorr, CEO of Reality Based Leadership, shares a Reality-Based approach to help you make that distinction, along with several tools to coach or manage performance based on the conversation you need to have. Episode Highlights: 00:00:18 Why this episode: when to coach vs. manage performance 00:01:06 The dirty secret: the tools only work with the willing 00:03:40 When coaching works and when it doesn't 00:05:28 The five-step process 00:06:46 Step 1: Diagnose story, relationship, or performance 00:11:40 Step 2: The Edit Your Story tool 00:14:07 Step 3: The Feedback Frame 00:19:43 Step 4: Seven performance conversation questions 00:21:51 The Performance Coaching Agreement 00:26:06 Final reflection: your next right conversation

2. 

   22 Sept 2026

   123: How We Could Book Series Part 3: Leadership Tools to Coach Your Team to Accountability

   Get your copy of How We Could for you and your teams today at: Amazon - https://www.amazon.com/How-Could-Framework-Alignment-Greatness/dp/B0GRWV76P5 Barnes & Noble - https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/how-we-could-alex-dorr/1149680412?ean=9798886455168&utm_source=website&utm_medium=book_page&utm_campaign=how_we_could&utm_content=barnesandnoble Bookshop.org - https://bookshop.org/p/books/how-we-could-the-framework-to-lead-without-drama-build-alignment-and-call-teams-to-greatness-alex-dorr/d73c23906d4a61a0?ean=9798886455168&next=t?utm_source=website&utm_medium=book_page&utm_campaign=how_we_could&utm_content=bookshop Books-A-Million - https://www.booksamillion.com/p/How-We-Could/Alex-Dorr/9798886455168?utm_content=bookshop Here is a link to the tools mentioned in this podcast: SBAR tool - https://info.realitybasedleadership.com/tool Thinking Inside-the-Box tool - https://info.realitybasedleadership.com/box Negative Brainstorming tool - https://youtu.be/AV6n69QCVnY?si=q7r_pglJsatIb-l2 Or grab all of the Toolkit tutorial videos, PDF and the new Call to Greatness Toolkit that accompanies the book here: https://info.realitybasedleadership.com/greatness In Part 3 of his How We Could Book Club Podcast Series, Alex Dorr shares his favorite quotes, insights, and lessons from the final section of his new book. In this episode, you'll learn three tools that help your team move forward productively even when facing resistance to change and uncertainty. It's a motivating listen for anyone looking to lead their team differently through ambiguity. Episode Highlights: 00:01:25 - How the book took three years and is packed with real case studies 00:02:10 - Recap: the three parts of How We Could (loving up, calling up, answering the call) 00:04:26 - Introducing Part 3: answering the call to greatness 00:04:51 - Why fear is what really holds people back from taking action 00:07:07 - The three tools for next right action: SBAR, thinking inside the box, negative brainstorming 00:10:34 - When to use each tool 00:13:39 - Deep dive: how the SBAR cuts down workplace drama 00:19:30 - Deep dive: why "thinking inside the box" drives real innovation 00:22:39 - Deep dive: negative brainstorming and the Dr. Smith story 00:27:06 - Wrapping up Part 3 and celebrating the book launch

3. 

   16 Sept 2026

   How We Could Book Series Part 2 - Calling People Up to Clarify the Problem, Take Accountability and Build Alignment on Your Team

   In this episode, Alex Dorr breaks down his favorite quotes and insights from Part 2 of How We Could. You'll learn practical ways to clean up your thinking, build real accountability across your team, and make sure people are in the right role for what the situation actually requires. This is part two of a three-part series digging into the sections of the book that didn't make the final cut, sharing Alex's exclusive insights to enrich your reading experience. Pre-order How We Could for you and your team (official release date is September 22nd): https://www.realitybasedleadership.com/pre-order

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

1 ratings

Spotify

3.3 / 5

3 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 49 / 100

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Quality

78

Social presence

0

YouTube

0

Engagement

50

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