We Are The Men Podcast

About We Are The Men Podcast

Better Husband is a marriage podcast for any man who’s ever asked, “How can I be a better husband?” Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Globally by Listen Notes. Hosted by men’s marriage and relationship coach Angelo Santiago, each episode gives you simple, practical ways to repair your marriage, reconnect with your wife, rebuild trust, and bring back real intimacy. If your marriage feels stuck, distant, or on the edge, you’ll find real tools and step-by-step skills to communicate better, handle conflict, and build a stronger marriage that lasts. If you want to make a good marriage even better, these skills are for you, too. After 13 years of marriage, including a near-divorce that became the turning point for change, Angelo has dedicated his life to helping men save their marriages and become the husbands their wives can trust and feel close to again. Through years of leading men’s retreats, online communities, and one-on-one coaching, he brings grounded, real-world guidance on marriage communication, conflict resolution, emotional connection, and intimacy. You’ll learn how to listen without getting defensive, stay present when conversations get tense, take ownership of your part, and rebuild trust through consistent action. If you want to repair what’s broken, rebuild connection, and learn the skills to make your marriage work, Better Husband will show you how, one episode at a time. Start with the free Better Husband Toolkit: https://www.angelosantiago.com/toolkit

Publisher

Angelo Santiago | Men's Marriage Coach

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

30 Oct 2023

Latest episode

6 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

2 of 194 episodes have a transcript.

1. 

   6 Oct 2026

   100|How to Listen to Your Wife Before You Argue or Shut Down

   Angelo reveals how to listen to your wife without defending or shutting down, fostering better communication and understanding in marriage.

2. 

   29 Sept 2026

   099|Your Wife Walked Out. Here's What to Do Before She's Ready to Talk

   Angelo guides husbands through the critical steps to take when their wife leaves, focusing on understanding the root causes of marital distance.

3. 

   22 Sept 2026

   098|How to Build the Safety That Helps You Love and Know Your Wife

   Angelo guides husbands to build safety by understanding their wives' inner worlds, fostering deeper love and connection.

Inside a recent episode

083|Happy Wife, Happy Life — But Not the Way You Think

Published 9 Jun 2026 · Transcript excerpt

[…] And that's the other extreme, and it's not what I'm talking about. The better frame is simpler than you think. You're not responsible for her happiness. You're responsible to her. And there's a difference. Responsible for means her emotional state is your job. If she's unhappy, you failed. You carry it. You fix it. You make it go away. Responsible to means you show up honestly. You pay attention. You're present. but her feelings are hers and yours are yours. You can sit next to your wife while she's having a rough day and not try to solve it. You can ask, do you need anything from me right now and be okay if the answer is no. […]

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

50 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

180 ratings

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