大波福娃是一档居家摸鱼常备的酷儿/女性聊天播客。
主播小苕(they/them)是一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆；酸酸(she/her)是一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖。我们臻选神奇话题，用俏皮犀利的洞察，对话身边怒放的生命。我们希望在坚硬的世界里用声音给所有girls, g@ys, and theys搭建一个柔软安全的颅内客厅，邀请你与我们相聚 ;D
Dat Beauvoir is a fun and homey queer feminist podcast.
Your host Shao (they/them) is a petite potato who serves, and Suan (she/her) is a bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste. We handpick wonderfully weird topics and share our wit and wisdom in conversation with the unique souls around us. Through our voices, we hope to build a warm and fuzzy living room for all the girls, g@ys, and theys—just come and hang with us! ;D
022｜保姆来了！从零开始的纹身教程 Everything You Need to Know Before Getting Inked
【聊了什么The What】
这一期，酸酸和小苕作为你的专属纹身保姆，邀请了两位纹身师老朋友，从第一次纹身开始，聊聊那些刻在身体上的选择——最喜欢的纹身是哪一个？如何找到合适的纹身师？什么部位最疼？做了纹身师以后，最大的幻想破灭是什么？什么样的客人是天使，什么样的客人会让纹身师默默深呼吸？这个艺术形式如何改变了我们？或许这期节目能成为犹豫的你给皮肤做出决定的理由！
In this episode, Suan and Shao are your personal tattoo guides, joined by two tattoo artist friends to talk about all the choices we carry on our skin. We chat about our very first tattoos, our all-time favorites, how to find the right artist, which spots hurt the most, and the moments of disillusion after we became tattoo artists ourselves. What makes someone a dream client? What kinds of clients make tattoo artists need a deep breath? How has tattooing changed us, as artists and as people? If you've been on the fence about getting your first tattoo, maybe this episode will give you the push you need to make a decision—for your skin!
【时间轴 The When】
2:20 做全职纹身师的契机
11:45 (#t=11:45) 第一次纹身的故事
16:50 (#t=16:50) 没有纹身的纹身师
20:24 (#t=20:24) 纹身师视角的纹身全流程拆解
28:30 (#t=28:30) 常见的纹身风格流派和独立纹身师风格
40:44 (#t=40:44) 第一次纹身如何做功课
45:10 (#t=45:10) 如何和纹身师描述我的需求
57:52 (#t=57:52) 平台吐槽大放送
01:01:28 (#t=01:01:28) 疼痛管理与纹身后的护理
01:10:31 (#t=01:10:31) 如何沟通预算和价格
01:19:06 (#t=01:19:06) 压箱底的神人客人故事
01:22:40 (#t=01:22:40) 对新入行的人有什么好的建议
01:25:44 (#t=01:25:44) 做「肤」浅的艺术家
01:35:11 (#t=01:35:11) 自己喜欢的就是最好的
2:20 What made us become full-time tattoo artists
11:45 (#t=11:45) The stories behind our first tattoos
16:50 (#t=16:50) The tattoo artist without tattoos
20:24 (#t=20:24) Breaking down the entire tattoo process from an artist's perspective
28:30 (#t=28:30) Popular tattoo styles and indie artists
40:44 (#t=40:44) How to prepare for your first tattoo
45:10 (#t=45:10) How to communicate your tattoo idea to an artist
57:52 (#t=57:52) Let’s rant about marketing on social media platforms
1:01:28 (#t=1:01:28) Pain and aftercare
1:10:31 (#t=1:10:31) Talking about budget and pricing with your artist
1:19:06 (#t=1:19:06) Our wildest client stories
1:22:40 (#t=1:22:40) Advice for folks entering the tattoo industry
1:25:44 (#t=1:25:44) Let's be "skin-deep" artists
01:35:11 (#t=01:35:11) The best tattoo is the one you love
【拓展链接 The Links】
趴趴亚的Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/papaya.tattaa/)｜小红书 (https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/555c5aa962a60c4136e700f0)
腰子（单独昆虫）的Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/nymphs____)｜小红书 (https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/5c8f2ee00000000011038c59)
小苕（过过过早）的Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/tat.tooearly/)｜小红书 (https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/63db35040000000026007a82)
【我们是谁】
大波福娃是一档居家摸鱼常备的酷儿/女性聊天播客。主播小苕(they/them)是一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆；酸酸(she/her)是一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖。我们臻选神奇话题，用俏皮犀利的洞察，对话身边怒放的生命。我们希望在坚硬的世界里用声音给所有girls, g@ys, and theys搭建一个柔软安全的颅内客厅，邀请你与我们相聚 ;D
Dat Beauvoir is a fun and homey queer feminist podcast. Your host Shao (they/them) is a petite potato who serves, and Suan (she/her) is a bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste. We handpick wonderfully weird topics and share our wit and wisdom in conversation with the unique souls around us. Through our voices, we hope to build a warm and fuzzy living room for all the girls, g@ys, and theys—just come and hang with us! ;
本期我们的主播和嘉宾：
小苕 (it/its)：一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆
酸酸(she/her)：一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖
趴趴亚 (she/her)：毕业后成功步入稳定职业轨道：全职小胖丫，兼职大码纹身师
腰子 (she/they)：一只缓慢生长爬行的虫，但没有在期待长出翅膀
Our hosts and guests:
Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed.
Suan (she/her): A bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste.
Papaya (she/her): In a steady career path of full-time fat girlie and part-time plus-size tattoo artist.
Yaozi (she/they): an insect crawling slowly without thinking of the tegmina growing.
本期节目由小苕和酸酸制作，Yanny进行音频编辑。小苕设计封面，Ruby设计logo，跑跑制作音乐。
大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。
This episode was produced by Shao and Suan, edited by Yanny. Cover design by Shao, logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun.
Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media.
【支持我们】
如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去：
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Patreon https://www.patreon.com/datbeauvoir (https://www.patreon.com/datbeauvoir)
爱发电 https://afdian.net/a/datbeauvoir (https://afdian.net/a/datbeauvoir)
合作投稿邮箱：dat.beauvoir.pod@gmail.com
13 Jun 2026
021 ｜陕西人在纽约：乡愁是一张小小的肉夹馍 Homesick for a Roujiamo
【聊了什么The What】
这一期，我们捕捉了两位身在纽约却互不认识的陕西酷儿，相认的瞬间！
主播小苕认识两位朋友许久，一直想介绍他们认识却苦于没有线下的机会。我们忍不住架起麦克风，紧急策划了这场大型认亲现场！从西安到纽约，从方言到身份认同，从艺术创作到异乡生活，从肉夹馍聊到坟墓——我们为什么离开故乡，故乡究竟有没有离开我们？
In this episode, we capture the moment when two queer folks from Shaanxi—both living in New York but complete strangers to each other—finally meet!
Shao has known both of them for some time and has always wanted to introduce them, but never had the chance to get everyone together in person. So we couldn't resist setting up the mics as well as this long-overdue “family reunion”!
From Xi'an to New York, from dialects to identity, from artistic practice to immigrant life, from Roujiamo sandwiches to cemeteries—we ask: Why did we leave home? And has home ever really left us?
【时间轴 The When】
1:50 想介绍朋友认识的契机
3:30 单独前采时间：对方的ins初印象
9:55 我究竟算陕西人吗？
12:25 (#t=12:25) 平行人生的我会在哪里
18:04 (#t=18:04) 单边耳钉，戴左耳还是右耳才是gay？
24:50 (#t=24:50) 充满乡愁的酥皮潼关肉夹馍，纽约已经可以买到
34:15 (#t=34:15) 山西人给陕西道歉！
36:15 (#t=36:15) 如何和美国人解释陕西是哪里
38:30 (#t=38:30) 辩论时间！纽约完全就是西安vs纽约完全不是西安
41:33 (#t=41:33) 纽约的坟头蹦迪文化
47:35 (#t=47:35) 酸酸：我的朋友不敢和我出柜
52:07 (#t=52:07) 「儿子，你要解决你的个人问题」
1:50 What inspired this long-awaited introduction?
3:30 Pre-meeting interviews: first impressions from stalking each other's Instagram
9:55 Am I Shaanxi enough to call myself a Shaanxi person?
12:25 (#t=12:25) Where would I be in a parallel universe?
18:04 (#t=18:04) Which ear is the gay ear?
24:50 (#t=24:50) Where to get the crispy Tongguan-style Roujiamo in New York
34:15 (#t=34:15) Shanxi folks have to apologize to Shaanxi
36:15 (#t=36:15) How do you explain Shaanxi to Americans?
38:30 (#t=38:30) Debate time! "New York is totally Xi'an" vs. "New York is totally NOT Xi'an"
41:33 (#t=41:33) New York taught us to party in the cemetery
47:35 (#t=47:35) Suan: "My friend didn’t dare to come out to me."
52:07 (#t=52:07) "Son, you need to figure out your 'personal issues’”
【我们是谁】
大波福娃是一档居家摸鱼常备的酷儿/女性聊天播客。主播小苕(they/them)是一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆；酸酸(she/her)是一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖。我们臻选神奇话题，用俏皮犀利的洞察，对话身边怒放的生命。我们希望在坚硬的世界里用声音给所有girls, g@ys, and theys搭建一个柔软安全的颅内客厅，邀请你与我们相聚 ;D
Dat Beauvoir is a fun and homey queer feminist podcast. Your host Shao (they/them) is a petite potato who serves, and Suan (she/her) is a bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste. We handpick wonderfully weird topics and share our wit and wisdom in conversation with the unique souls around us. Through our voices, we hope to build a warm and fuzzy living room for all the girls, g@ys, and theys—just come and hang with us! ;D
本期我们的主播和嘉宾：
小苕 (it/its)：一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆
酸酸 (she/her)：一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖
小卡 (he/him)： 一个不知道自己是什么动物的男的
柿子(he/hey)：听石狮子说这颗心是蓝绿色的柿子还没决定是不是时候落地
Our hosts and guests:
Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed
Suan (she/her): A bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste
Capy (he/him): someone who can not figure out what animal to identify as
Shizi (he/hey): a sea lion said this turquoise-hearted persimmon hasn’t figured out its mission
本期节目由小苕和酸酸制作，Yanny进行音频编辑。小苕设计封面，Ruby设计logo，跑跑制作音乐。
大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。
This episode was produced by Shao and Suan, edited by Yanny. Cover design by Shao, logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun.
Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media.
【支持我们】
如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去：
众筹平台链接：
Patreon https://www.patreon.com/datbeauvoir (https://www.patreon.com/datbeauvoir)
爱发电 https://afdian.net/a/datbeauvoir (https://afdian.net/a/datbeauvoir)
合作投稿邮箱：dat.beauvoir.pod@gmail.com
4 Apr 2026
020 写完这本书，35岁就可以死了 Lemme put this book together so I can die at 35
【聊了什么The What】
本期酸酸带来她的全新脑洞：
算命的说我35岁有命劫（不只是被优化）——既然可能会死，那不得抓紧写本书！
今年的4月5号，清明节和复活节在同一天。这一期，我们邀请了两位做书的朋友一起头脑风暴。酸酸在“余命五年”的设定里，下定决心给自己做一本书——从青春到欲望， 从简历到同学录，从死到生。我们从从外公跨越几十年的家书，聊到每个人祭奠亲人的方式——普通人的一生也可以被认真纪念和记录。死期不一定准，但deadline已经有了！
酸酸：如果我真35岁没了，记得给我的书打五星好评 ;D
In this episode, Suan lets her ideas run wild:
A fortune teller told me I’d face a life-threatening crisis at 35 (not just getting laid off). If I’m about to die soon, I gotta hurry up and write myself a book!
This year, April 5th marks both Easter and Qingming Festival. We invited two friends who work in graphic design and publishing to join us for a brainstorming session. Assuming there are only five years left to live, Suan decides to make a book for herself—one that spans from youth to desires, from resume to yearbook, from death to birth. From Suan’s grandfather’s letters written across decades, we discuss how each of us remembers the people we’ve lost. Any modest life deserves to be carefully documented and commemorated. The date of death may be uncertain—but the deadline is already set!
Suan: If I really die at 35, please remember to give my book a five-star review ;D
【时间轴 The When】
1:03 算命的说我35岁有一个命劫，是时候做一本人生之书
9:05 如何纪念亲人：我和牛祖母一起走出沙漠
22:04 (#t=22:04) 简历也是一种自传
28:53 (#t=28:53) 知耻近乎勇：外公的忏悔书
36:15 (#t=36:15) 病例，看我怎么死
37:46 (#t=37:46) 孩子，看我怎么生
42:39 (#t=42:39) 想让朋友们给我填同学录
45:05 (#t=45:05) 形式的脑洞：排版和装帧
53:27 (#t=53:27) 人生之书应该叫什么
55:00 (#t=55:00) 项目立项！
1:03 A fortune teller said I’d face a life-threatening crisis at 35—it’s time to make my “book of life”
9:05 Remembering loved ones: my Cow Grandma and I walked out of the desert together
22:04 (#t=22:04) Isn’t a resume a kind of autobiography?
28:53 (#t=28:53) Knowing shame takes courage: my grandpa’s letter of confession
36:15 (#t=36:15) Medical records: how I might die
37:46 (#t=37:46) Children: how I might give birth
42:39 (#t=42:39) I want my friends to fill out a yearbook for me
45:05 (#t=45:05) Wild ideas about forms: typesetting and binding
53:27 (#t=53:27) What should this “book of life” be called?
55:00 (#t=55:00) Project launch!
【拓展链接 The Links】
动画短片《妹妹》宋思琪 (https://vimeo.com/1012094725)
《暮色将尽》戴安娜·阿西尔 (https://book.douban.com/subject/36020007/)
《不裁》朱赢椿（设计） (https://www.zhuyingchun.com/books#/stitchedup/)
《清算已毕》波伏瓦 (https://book.douban.com/subject/35406937/)
《人生不怕从头再来》刘晓庆 (https://book.douban.com/subject/26660670/)
Somewhere Towards the End: A Memoir by Diana Anthill (https://archive.org/details/somewheretowards0000athi)
Stitched Up book design by Zhu Yingchun (https://www.zhuyingchun.com/books#/stitchedup/)
All said and done by Simone de Beauvoir (https://archive.org/details/isbn_9781569249819)
Never Be Afraid to Start Over by Liu Xiaoqing (https://book.douban.com/subject/26660670)
【我们是谁】
大波福娃是一档居家摸鱼常备的酷儿/女性聊天播客。主播小苕(they/them)是一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆；酸酸(she/her)是一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖。我们臻选神奇话题，用俏皮犀利的洞察，对话身边怒放的生命。我们希望在坚硬的世界里用声音给所有girls, g@ys, and theys搭建一个柔软安全的颅内客厅，邀请你与我们相聚 ;D
Dat Beauvoir is a fun and homey queer feminist podcast. Your host Shao (they/them) is a petite potato who serves, and Suan (she/her) is a bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste. We handpick wonderfully weird topics and share our wit and wisdom in conversation with the unique souls around us. Through our voices, we hope to build a warm and fuzzy living room for all the girls, g@ys, and theys—just come and hang with us! ;D
本期我们的主播和嘉宾：
小苕 (it/its)：一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆
酸酸 (she/her)：一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖
小麦 (she/her)：每天都在开高速的专注版式设计的平面设计师
大炮 (she/her)：看起来鬼点子很多的，专注书籍的数字媒体设计师
Our hosts and guests:
Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed
Suan (she/her): A bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste
Xiaomai (she/her): A graphic designer focused on editorial design, speeding down the highway everyday
Dapao (she/her): A digital media designer specializing in books, full of wild ideas
本期节目由小苕和酸酸制作，Yanny进行音频编辑。小苕设计封面，Ruby设计logo，跑跑制作音乐。
大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。
This episode was produced by Shao and Suan, edited by Yanny. Cover design by Shao, logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun.
Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media.
【支持我们】
如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去：
众筹平台链接：
Patreon https://www.patreon.com/datbeauvoir (https://www.patreon.com/datbeauvoir)
爱发电 https://afdian.net/a/datbeauvoir (https://afdian.net/a/datbeauvoir)
合作投稿邮箱：dat.beauvoir.pod@gmail.com
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