by A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.
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April 23, 2025
<b>Lost Yourself To A Borderline?</b><br /><br />Have you lost yourself to Borderline? A partner, Ex partner, girlfriend or boyfriend, or person close to you with Borderline Personality Disorder? Are you aware of Codependency? Are you learning any helpful lessons?<br /><br />One man blames God, calling him a "farce" after a relationship with a woman, who "trapped him into her getting pregnant" and now thinks the "farce relationship" was his relationship to and with God, when it was really the BPD relationship. This man whose comments I respond to also thinks, now, that God can't exists because Borderlines exist.<br /><br />Whether you can relate or not to this man's blaming God instead of the person with BPD and taking his small piece of personal responsibility or not please listen to see if you can relate and substitute your own lostness and feeling separated by something you valued in your life and/or about yourself before the devastation of the BPD relationship.<br /><br />ajmahari.ca/sessions<br />survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcast Website<br /><br />This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at:<br />100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025<br />
March 17, 2025
BPD Idealization Phase Causes Fantasy Bonding<br />BPD idealization in the beginning of a significant other relationship<br />creates a fantasy bond. People with BPD, not having any stable sense<br />of self, are intense and want (often) immediate "relationship on". After<br />the person with BPD splits you to a major devaluation, you will not ever<br />be able to be re-idealized.<br />People with Codependency (often unaware of this) are very emotionally <br />hungry - needing validation and reassurance (from childhood woundedness)<br />feel fantastic, your feelings in the BPD idealization phase increase your sense<br />of self-worth and self-esteem until the ruptured splits of BPD devaluation start<br />happening.<br />If you are ghosted and/or discarded you've lost yourself so much to focusing<br />intensely on the person with BPD, trying, in vain, to get back to that beginning<br />and how great everything felt. Codependents after a BPD Breakup find it feels<br />next to impossible to not get that idealizing person with BPD back to re-capture<br />the elusive - not ever going to happen again - idealization phase and who you<br />thought the person with BPD was.<br /><br />https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog<br />https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts & Blog<br />https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & more<br />This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at:<br />100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025<br />
March 14, 2025
<b>Borderline Betrayal and Its Insidious Impact on You</b><br /><b></b><br />Borderline betrayal and its negative, painful impact on you.<br />Anyone close to any person with BPD will experience Borderline<br />Betrayal and the very real consequences to "self" that result from<br />BPD betrayal. <br /><br />People with Codependency have a suggestible enough core wound<br />that the impact of Borderline betrayal causes untold damage,<br />rumination, cognitive dissonance, self-abandonment, and often longing<br />for the person with BPD who betrayed you to still be in relationship with you<br />or needing so badly to understand, to not feel like everything was your fault.<br /><br />The immense struggle of lack of closure also takes its toll in more cases than not.<br /><br />https://ajmahari.ca/sessions <br />https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com<br /><br />This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at:<br /><a href="https://podcast.feedspot.com/relationship_podcasts/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025</a><br />
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